Why do men like to brag about their conquests and what they do to them in bed?

I mean do women really need to know details about how the guy was in bed with a lady? Or men only brag in front of other men or do they do it with women too?

Today I was talking to a 41 yrd old friend who is single he is a dance instructor, he also do aerobics. The thing is for some reason he enjoys talking about this lady that is after him and wants him to do her this and that, then he talks about about how many other women he had been with and want him to get intiamte with him, and he talks like he is this stud and women chase him. He confides in me and another lady beause we are his Friends, but he enjoys talking and tell us details how he is with women in bed. he even say "This girl ask me to do iit rough and I do it rough". He also says "when I do it I give 100%". "Another day this lady called me and told me he want us to meet o fuk and she likes to send me photos of herself naked. "For me the physical attraction is super important and I go for that" If I want to develop something serious with the lady sure I can be more serious but we need intimacy very often. "If the lady leads me on and on and nothing happens, I blew her off and I wotn talk to her anymore!!

Also he added today and give us details how one day he was with a lady and they spent 1 day together and 2 hours of that day in the shower him giving her oral sex , and he even giggle when he said that and ask himself "Do you imagine being in the shower or bathtub 2 hours me giving him oral?"he also added that that day they barely left the house. only to have lunch and dinner..

I mean do we care? No I dont care if he and the lady are freak in the intimacy and I dotn care how is he with the ladies. He tells us that many women call him to set up dates, he had gone with with single mothers who their kids are teenagers but they are quite hot women
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or just single women of course, He also added in the conversation thatn when a women feels connection to a guy sexually is when the guy touches her and she cummed immediately!! That is nice he says! I find immature when men talk like this or a bit disrespectul to women. What do u think about this friend and guys in general who brag about? Im glad im not this friend girlfriend hehe!!!
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  • Well, men do brag, but those having average or above sex life do it much lesser or just talk (not brag).

    Reasons:

    1) most sex are just average.
    So if a person has sex regularly, it's "Just another Sex".

    Like eating and drinking, most meals satisfy a desire, that's all.

    Unless there is a special feast you attend once a blue moon, I don't think you need to boast of every meal you eat.

    Same with Sex.

    2) stories that sounds too good to be true is usually untrue.

    Just like ads and spams, don't believe in 2-hour oral in a bath tub. Foreplay like salt and pepper, is to bring out the taste, not to be tasted.

    So my opinion is, yes, guys do boasts about sex. But only those deprived have the best stories, probably from erotica. (Smile)

    • I agree I did not beleive the guy when he told me he had a 2hr oral sex sessión!! Really? Who does he think he is !!

    • So u think theh guys who does not brag a lot or believe they are studs and talk and talak about their lives in the bedroom are the better men in bed?

    • LOL! It's how you discern his honesty. Assuming both claimed to be experienced: 1) the one too bombastic and too unbelievable is probably take. 2) the one who talk less but sense is probably ok. 3) the one who shows sensible creativity and can describe details in humanly practicable ways is probably a good one. For example a fake cook boast how good his food is; an ok cook tells how to cook rice and egg; a chef can breakdown the ingredients and describe how to cook them.

  • I don't do that, in fact most of the time I feel kinda embarrassed about hooking up with girls, but I have more than one friends who love to talk about the stuffs they do with some girl they picked up, the reason is probably it's a great achievement for them (and I agree). It's interesting to me, because from my observation, the true slayers (my rivals) prefer to listen to women talk about themselves.

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  • That's a good question.. I have learned over the years tho the guys that have a lot to say don't have a lot to back it up.. I myself don't go into detail about my man or the events of my bedroom.. I will answer a direct question but I'm not starting the conversation lol

    • I also believe it so the ones who brag a lot are the ones who have nothing to offer or at least they are just blah blah and nothing

    • Agree 100% 😁

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  • Men brag... get over it

    • Not all guys are like that there are some discreet guys out there.

    • kitty... you are right... my bad!

  • I personally don't and I think most men who actually have options don't. It's usually implied whether someone is routinely having sex or jumping between relationships based on their actions, mannerisms, etc.

    • Some say men does it all the time

    • Yea I know it's annoying. Makes me wanna roll my eyes. I'm sure that's a mutual feeling!

  • I don't know, I don't agree with that lifestyle. Nor do I agree with viewing women as prizes to be won. Though there love is a gift.

  • I never bragged about sex or sedduction

  • Women do just as much as men

    • I know I dont do it i find it disrespectful to share details of how I was in bed with someone. I dont care to hear about it- Sexual intiamcy is a private matter that only concerned the parties involved period.

    • I agree. But lots of people would disagree with us

  • Cause its a lot harder for men to get sex. You obviously wouldn't understand that since your not a man and have no idea how the shit that we have to put up with you girls.

    • The guys who talk a lot and brag a lot most of the times dont have anything to offer

    • It's that much more rewarding when a man finally does get sex.

    • That is why brag too much is not a good idea

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  • I know it isn't a "competition", but there are several women on this site who do that as well. Sleeping around is empty, you might as well get a blow-up doll.

  • I never did

  • We dont share everything

  • I think men and women do it. Both.

  • I think woman are talking much more detailed about sexual things to each other than guys

  • Does he bang the daughters, also?

    • No he does not

    • Why not?

    • Why does he has to bang the women daughters anyway? So disrespectful

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