What does it mean when a guy has thought about doing sexual things with you?

[Anonymous]

So long story short, I’ve been talking to this guy that I came across on a dating site for the last 3 weeks. We text on SC and then with iMessage as well. But anyway, we’ve had some interesting conversations. He let me know pretty early on that he’s a naughty boy, which by that I mean in a sexual way don’t ask how we got into talking about that. Well anyway it got to a point where he says dirty stuff as in XXX/R rated stuff. He didn’t want to tell me at first because he feels I’m innocent and doesn’t want to corrupt me. At one point I asked him if he ever thought about doing dirty things with me, he said maybe, so that made me ask what would he would want to tell me. Well fast forward to the day after we got into this kind of subject again (this is not the only thing we talk about btw) I asked him again, because the more he tries to hide it the more curious I get about it. So he ended up writing this very explicit text which I was cool with it because I wanted to know. So what does it mean if a guy has thought about what kind of sexual stuff he wants to do with you?

[TheMermadon123]

Well it probably tells you several things:

1) He is definitely a sexual being and sex is high on his agenda nothing wrong with that but keep it in mind.

2) He could be trying to see if explicit communication will put you off and so far it hasn't so he's now more interested.

3) He could be grooming with sexual innuendo to gain your curiosity and build some sexual tension to get you drawn to him. ( Remember it is the web.)

in my opinion take things slow, get to know him, all about him, ask questions about likes and dislikes well outside the sexual and see what depth there is in his opinions and views.

If the conversation always comes back to the sexual beware his intention.

[Asker]

Thanks so much for you opinion. He doesn’t always bring it back to sex, we do have deep conversations though but that’s a fun side topic that comes every now and then.

[Anonymous]

Exactly that. He wants to be down with you.
The voyeur in me would REALLY like to read that text. (We) men sometimes have a hard time articulating our sexual desires. I'd like to read his. No, I'm not gay. Just comparing "crush feelings".

[Asker]

Haha it was too personal that I wouldn’t want anyone else to read it. But he went into deep depth lol 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh "Deep depth". The mind wanders.

[Asker]

Lol yeah I don't know why I said deep depths 😂, I should’ve said he went into great details

[Opinion Owner]

Or better, intimate detail. The mind still wanders.

[MindTime]

It means he's very attracted to you physically at least

[Asker]

Makes sense he just told me think I’m pretty, he answered because of something I was trying to ask him

[MindTime]

That makes sense

[theGuyWithTheThing]

It means he wants a platonic relationship.

[RebeccaSJ]

I've probably thought about doing sexual things with him.

[Asker]

Ummm what? 🤔

[MattBlaise]

... That he wants to do sexual stuff with you.

[Asker]

Well I know that, but I was surprised that he’s thought about it though I was wondering what that means lol