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We are only friends with benefits who have occasional sex , he knows I’m not on birth control why does he cum inside of me Everytime we have sex?

So I have been hooking up with this guy for about two months now. We are only friends. We went from wanting to date each other to having very little interest for the moment in going further in the relationship. However we still have occasional sex. The very first time we hooked up we started off with condoms but had sex 2 more times the same day without them. The first time we had arc unprotected he ejaculated inside of me. We didn’t talk about until a week later and the conversation was very vague. I asked him did he cum inside of me he said yes my response was well I’m not on birth control. Then his response was that now he knows that however after that he continued to cum in me. Then the other day he asked me am I on birth control so I told him I am not. However we have hooked up since and he still came on me. I’m confused because he says he isn’t looking for more with me at the moment and he not interested in me on that level. So I’m confused as to why he keeps cumming in me and we don’t talk about it afterwards. He doesn’t say anything about it and I don’t either. I have never said to him don’t do it and he’s never asked me about it. But yet we still hook up and he doesn’t pull out. I know why I’m avoiding the conversation , but why is he? Does he want me to have his child? We’ve never really had a conversation about kids in genera honestly just briefly.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Because he is selfish and he knows if you get your pregnant he's just going to walk away you need to be very careful and then ask yourself this I bet you he's a lousy lay anyway if he's that non-caring then he's that not giving and he's not making it all about you , and the pull- out method doesn't work anyway and since you're having that conversation about children with us and yourself memes the odds are it's going to happen very soon protect yourself he's not going to be around and like I said if he's that nun caring about what he's doing then you're getting screwed more than once because he's not making it all about you and taking you to a place you never been before I'm thinking he's a wham-bam thank-you ma'am and see you got to go

  • He might just like the feel of it. I think you need to bring it up to him. Because you aren't saying anything, he thinks he think its ok. You need to put your foot down on this

Most Helpful Girls

  • Instead of analyzing it, you should get on the pill or make him use condoms! It doesn't matter what his reasons are, because you'll eventually get pregnant regardless of his reason!

  • Oh my God your the luckiest person ever!!! Get on that birth control ASAP! Or tell him not to do it cuz luck runs out one day. I recommend an IUD 😉

  • I can’t answer the why. However, if you can’t trust him to wear a condom or pull out, you would probably be better off with another guy.

  • Get on birth control and he's using you and ust doing what he wants

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  • Because you let him.

    You can refuse sex without a condom you know. If he forces you at that point it’s called rape.

  • Because guys love the thought of it , nothing better than coming inside..

    Maybe his motives are more positive than you think? But , they also could be more negative , that's the risk , that he just leaves you with a belly full of arms and legs , and says bye bye.

    It is kinda hot taking that risk , but you need to take responsibility and get yourself on birth control , I will admit I used to love it when they said " I've no birth control " , and you just shoot a big load into them.

  • If you are sexually active and don't want children, get on birth control NOW. Having a conversation after he's unloaded his cum in you is pointless.

  • Cause it feels so good

  • Well, you haven't forced the issue, you just keep asking if he's cumming inside. You can tell him to stop or use a condom, if that is what you want. It just sounds like you are just asking if he did.

  • He's an idiot. Stop fucking him unless there's a rubber or you change your birth control situation.

  • He's cumming inside you because he doesn't give a crap if you get pregnant (he isn't planning on sticking around anyway, it's your problem) and you haven't told him not to do it yet.

    • I don’t think that he would leave , because of how he was raised and his beliefs. He was raised in the church he is a hollynest. I mean we don’t only hook up we actually hang out like go to the movies , he comes to my mothers house when ever I visit her and we all do things together.

    • ohhh... is there some kind of rule about contraception in that belief system? If he's a devout guy, he just simply like feeling so close with you.

  • enjoy :)

  • it's exciting for him, that's why

  • Guys love cumming in a girl. Best feeling ever. I always do unless told not to.

  • It feels good to cum that way, and he doesn't give a damn about you.

  • He's being a selfish prick. My question is, why do you let him?

  • Why do you let him?

  • So did you have his baby?

  • He loves doing so

  • if you're not on BC, why are you having casual sex?

  • he wanna leave u broke and penniless

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