Friends with benefits but he constantly ejaculates in me does he feel like I am worthy to have his child?

[Anonymous]

This might sound dumb or even naïve. However me and this friends with benefits has been having sex occasionally for the past three months. He is my only sex partner I don’t hook up with other guys because I’m hooking up with him. We don’t use protection I’m not on birth control and he knows. However when we have sex he continuously ejaculates inside of me. One day Specifically he ask me am I on birth control and I tell him that I am not (After we briefly talked about it before ) . The next day we had sex and he ejaculates In me again. I am a 24-year-old female so having a kid wouldn’t be the worst thing to happen in my life. He doesn’t have any children and he’s 25 so I am wondering is he trying to have kids with me. We’ve never really talked about children on a serious note nor have we ever discussed him ejaculating inside of me. I haven’t asked him or spoken to him about cumming inside of me , because we are both adults and we both know what could possibly happen. However my questions are : is he secretly want more with me , or is he just doing this because it’s his own selfish desires, or is he doing this because he could see hisself having a child with me? To be completely honest I am a good catch I currently have my Masters degree and I am seeking my doctorates degree. Not only that I am financially secure my living situation is stable. Does he feel like I would make a good mother to his child and that his child will be taken care of , or does he just not care of the repercussions of his actions. The very first time we had sex we used protection the two times after that in the same night we did not use protection and that’s when he ejaculated in me the first time. But since then we have hooked up quite a few times and he has never pulled out. But I am responsible too because I’ve never told him not to. Which is part of the reason why I believe he’s doing it. However at the end of the day I wouldn’t be the only one taking on the responsibilities of our actions.

[MrOracle]

I doubt he wants a kid and is willing to have it with some girl he's not even in a real relationship with (it's possible, but rare). It's just far more likely that he's being selfish and foolish and assumes that if you DO get pregnant, you'll get an abortion or will otherwise not hold him responsible (and, in all likelihood, he would NOT take any responsibility).

So, in my opinion, you ARE being both dumb and naive, because sooner or later, you WILL get pregnant, and he'll leave, and you'll be stuck with a kid and your kid won't have a dad around, and that really screws up kids.

Please be a whole lot smarter and either get on some BC or make him wear a condom.

[Wassail]

Firstly and most importantly it's your body and your choice to get pregnant! He has no right to trick you if that is what he is doing. Personally I don't think he is. He just likes cumming in you. You need to stop him and use protection. Not just about pregnancy but also it's a friends with Benefits arrangement. Therefore you have no commitment to each other and you don't know how many other girls he is sleeping with. Sexually transmitted diseases are a serious risk as well.

[Wonderer89]

It just amazes me at people’s lack of responsibility yet their huge ego and self validation is rife.
There is nothing at all to say you’re special, he hasn’t committed, you don’t even know if he’s sleeping with other people yet you’re not using any form of protection. That’s the stupidest thing I’ve read today, seriously. And I read Angelina Ballerina to a toddler this morning.

It means nothing more than the fact you’re a vagina and you’re not saying no to it. Wake up to yourself - you’re not ready to have sex with this behaviour, let alone be a mother

[Anonymous]

He might think you'll abort any children or be ok raising them alone. Just because he cums in you doesn't mean anything deep, sorry girl

[pooper89]

Are you wanting to be a single mother of what exactly?

[CurLyF]

He sounds like he doesn't care about the repercussions. Don't mistake great sex with love. Hook up buddies might care for one another but that feeling rarely transcends to do big changes in your life for anything related to them, that would be more like a relationship. Now, you may not be sleeping with anybody else, but honestly I doubt he's doing the same. Condoms not only protect you from unwanted pregnancies but also from STDs, and those can mess up your life big time.
If you are ok with having a baby right now and are financially secure, then great for you, I have nothing but respect for single mothers that have financial security before having a baby.
But are you sure you are not harboring deeper feelings for this guy? Because you are honestly over analyzing this whole thing and seems to me you are just trying to find a tiny signal that he wants more when in reality, from what you have told us, he doesn't seem to have any deeper feelings.
There's no need to come up with these crazy psicoanalysis theories to see if he, deep down, believes you are worthy of his child. Worthy? Who is he, Thor the God of Thunder? Is HE worthy to knock YOU up?
If a guy wants you to marry him he will get to one knee and propose. And if he wants to have a baby with you he will tell you. Because in such important matters that's how it needs to be, and if he doesn't come up straight and says it, he is not ready nor has the maturity for it.
I've been there, you know? I had this hook up buddy and sex and chemistry was so great that I started to imagine something else happening and started cooking whenever he was coming to see me and stuff, but we were just hook up buddies and I only got hurt. I wish I had been honest with myself and took care of myself first before putting myself out there for some fantasy that didn't exist.

[NearlyNapping]

He just doesn't care if you get pregnant. He just enjoys coming inside you because it feels so good. If you get pregnant, don't count on him sticking around. You'll be raising that kid by yourself.

[Tamera952]

No doesn't have anything to do with wanting kids

[VincentLaw]

If he's been doing that since day 1 he doesn't care about the consequences of his actions. I would stop sleeping with him immediately

[deric_97]

Stop it girl. Just stop it. He's just a friend. Just stop it. Don't fuck yourself up. And get a boyfriend please.

[reptocarl]

He does it because it feels good. Stop overthinking

[Welshman2]

He is most probably being selfish - if you get pregnant he will probably run away. The reason I say this is because he won't be thinking about children, he's thinking about shooting his load.

If you do get pregnant, be prepared to be a single mother.

My advice is to get on the pill or make him use a condom!

[Sugisaky]

I don't think he though much of it, just that you let him and so he just do it, if he wanted a serious relationship, he would told you about it...

[NucDylan]

I don't think he wants kids. It's more of a rush and it feels better to stay in, especially if the ghirl doesn't seem to mind

[churbleburble78]

Nah, he's just taking advantage of your pussy

[naraku]

No it doesn't.

He cums in you because you allow it.

[William5vincere]

Once you cum inside a pussy, you experience something you've never felt before, it's like pure heaven so he doesn't wanna stop bc it feels amazing

[Myrdices]

Pulling out is annoying unnatural and it never crosses our mind unless told otherwise chances are it's staying inside from start to finish

[Casus_Angelus]

You should ask him this and all this explanation from your side

[Anonymous]

Nooo. Of course not. He just enjoys busting his balls down your snatch.

[Anonymous]

Holy shit girl I wish I had your luck I finally let him cum inside me one time and I got pregnant I’m 19 Its scary I’m doing alone now please stop risking it only takes one time.. wait till marry for risking for kids