Guys, Does "perkiness" of breasts matter more than size?

Okay, so here's my question. I have natural DD breasts. Not surprisingly, my breasts often catch the gaze of many a male (and females sometimes too). I can literally stand next to another woman with as large (if not larger) breasts than I have, and it seems like my chest attracts more stares and ogles than the other woman's. I dress very modestly on top (I have to for my job), I also get really self-conscious if I feel like I'm showing cleavage or boob ( I can wear a short skirt all day and not feel self-conscious, but my boobs have always been different for some reason). So I know the obvious reason, that maybe I am showing more, is not the case.

I don't always like the attention my breasts draw (especially from the prepubescent boys I teach), so I have been thinking about what it is that draws so much attention since my boobs are big but not the biggest around, and the only thing that I can think of is maybe it's because mine are perky? Most of the women I work with and am friends with are moms and that seems to have caused more sagging for them. I just really don't understand what it is about my boobs that draw so much attention when there are plenty of other large breasted women around. I almost feel like I can't stand with good posture because it emphasizes them so much (I had girls accuse me when I was younger of deliberately sticking my chest out and I still have some insecurities about that I think). The only other thing I'm thinking it could be is not just the absolute size of the boobs, but if it's the proportion of them compared to everything else (mine have always been a little out of proportion).

So the question is, does perkiness matter more than size when it comes to breasts drawing your eye?
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  • I've always been more about shape than size.
    Very small, or quite large, that are well shaped, are wonderful, where as any size, big or small, that aren't as well shaped, lack appeal.

    And, well, perkiness is part of that shape.

    Yes, it matters, and if you get so much attention, I'm sure they look fantastic. That said, I'm sorry they affect your posture in a way that affects your self confidence), and that the boys stare.
    Forgive them, though. They're young and not good at subtly or tact... and they think you look good.

    • I agree with you, I forgive them for being young and curious, and would never call out or embarrass them for this. I just wish there were a way to downplay this with my work (I already dress modestly, especially up top). But there are many grown men who do it too, most of the time they are more subtle about but, not always. It sucks when you feel like your breasts enter a room before you do!!

    • While it hasn't happened to me, I can say I understand, in that I have seen men who openly gawk at or stare at women, and I've seen the women feel uncomfortable about it. I mean, I'm a man. I know damn well I look, and enjoy looking, when I see a beautiful woman with a nice body... but I also think I manage to be subtle about it, and never make them feel like a piece of meat. I may be a little too good at being subtle lol. Quite a few people in my life have believed I was gay, merely because they never noticed me really noticing women, despite the fact I very much so do.

  • Perkiness is usually more attractive because healthier, perkier breasts are a sign of youth and fertility. But unless you're going braless, perkiness is very difficult to determine when boobs are in a bra.

    My guess is that they are just nicer assets on your body, as you mentioned, in relation to everything else. There may also be non-visual things going on, like you may have more attractive pheromones or something. Some women produce pheromones that are nearly irresistible to guys around them

    • Yeah, never thought about that

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  • shape definitely has an impact, as well as the way you carry your body/how fit you are. all in all id say you are blessed, though the line of work you are in may be a bit odd to fit in in XD

  • Not going to read that whole thing right now. But yes. Shape is more important that size. I will take cute and perky over big and floppy every single time.

  • The teenage boys you teach, may be getting a lesson you didn't think of. If you have attractive breasts, and they see you as a good teacher, they are learning that a girl who is sexually attractive, is also a human being, a person to care about.

    • Good point, and one I never thought of. I do give my all to my work, and am a caring and nurturing type of person too (so many kids today are lacking for guidance or nurturing at home as you probably know). So I guess I might be teaching them as you say!!! 😊

  • I am not choosy about boobs except implants are a no go. Flat with nipples is OK as are firm full jumbo's. But as The Creator's art, firmness (so they ride highter) and suitably large nipples are plusses and add up to perkiness.
    Every now can then you witness a pair that look sculpted and my reaction is not as much sexual as: "What a fine pair of tits she has".

  • If you are a small or short woman, they look bigger relatively than a tall or heavy woman. So size is great and all, perkiness is good too, but shape often really is the culprit. I’ve seen girls with big Bs or small Cs that had amazing shape look better in clothes and naked than a DD. Blessing and a curse. Be thankful you do get the attention as they are obviously attractive, even if it attracts more than you bargained for...

    • I am not tall, 5'4 and a half, so you may be onto something there.

    • I have a friend who is 4 11 3/4 with 36 DDDs and it’s a long standing theory of hers

  • I'd say so, yes.

  • My eyes will look at all breasts available

  • Perkiness is just as important as size depending who you ask. Its usually personal taste but if yours are big and perky at the same time then its no wonder you get unwanted attention

  • It's about 50/50. I generally like smaller breasts because they tend to be perkier, and age MUCH better than larger breasts, and while I could handle DD breasts that were just as perky, I'd still prefer a B or C. Perkiness isn't all that matters is what I'm saying, also comes down to personal preference

  • Post a pic and we'll tell you.

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