My man rather gets fucked in the ass than have sex, what to do?
Today I left to go home and he told me it would be nice if I fucked him with the dildo again before I left, and followed it up with "of it's ok with you, maybe you would want sex instead?". I asked him what he'd rather do and he said "the dildo, but only of it's ok with you... we can have sex if you want"... Yeah that makes me feel really in the mood and desired, knowing you'd rather have that rubber thing up your ass than have sex with me. Makes me really horny thinking about that during sex... Not. I don't want anyone to sleep with me just for my sake, I want him to want it too just as much. So today there was no sex for me and I won't see him again for 2-3 weeks (long distance).
I don't know what this is all about or how to solve it. If there even is a way to solve it. I don't enjoy using the dildo or my hands on him. It does nothing for me sexually, almost the opposite. I want a man that's dominante in bed and wants NORMAL SEX with me. I'm more submissive by nature and he needs me to be dominate. I hate it and feel like i'm losing interest in him. I always leave his house sexually frustrated and sad, feeling like this is it, I'm going to break up now, because I can't deal with this.
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