Do you really care if your girlfriend had meaningless sex before with someone you know?

[Karmen11223]

Hello! Sorry for my English. Wanted to ask, me and my boyfriend are together for year and a half, we are both 22 and I had 4 sexual partners, one of them he knows. They are not friends but he’s from that kind of guys who he doesn't really like (because all know him that he’s a total asshole). So when I came in town it was about 3 years ago, I slept with him several times, just sex, nothing else. So now we are together with my boyfriend and he was really curious with whom I’ve been before, I wasn’t telling him for long who exactly it was, but yesterday he asked me again and I told him the truth that it was that guy. He had shock then he calmed and told that it’s ok. But I’m scared that he will think that I had meaningless sex with that guy, maybe his opinion about me will change. I really regret about that old situation. What do you think guys is it really important to him that I had meaningless sex with that bad guy before or no?

[Anonymous]

Who u sleep with before him should not matter to him at all it was before him as an example i dated and slept with a guy in my husbands immediate family before we got together and we are fine

[pixie_xoxo]

It doesn't mean anything, in my opinion. It was in the past. It was just sex. You've moved on and you've found someone else and you're happy with him.
That's all that matters

[Karmen11223]

It was a big mistake, what I really regret. Thank you so much for your opinion!

[pixie_xoxo]

Don't regret it. It was something you wanted back in the days. You shouldn't regret it. It was an experience in your life. You're welcome ❤

[Karmen11223]

Thank a lot! For the bottom of my heart! ❤️

[herguy]

If he has a problem with it he needs to grow up lol.. What you did before you were together is none of his business. If it alters his opinion of you then you should get out quick.

[boggboss]

Every guy is differnt yes I don't think I would judge her for who she has slept with before but I'm not sure I could be with a girl that people I know have also fucked

[Karmen11223]

I agree, it’s awful! It was a big mistake. Thank you for your opinion!

[boggboss]

No problem

[jimyee]

Tldr. But my answer is no. If she had meaningless sex with someone I knew, I wouldn't care. If there was a meaningful relationship between them, I would have to re-examine the situation but if it was worth it, I would go for it.

[Big_Tasty]

He probably won't care. It was before, but this is now. You are ok

[jessture]

What happens before you two were official is none of his business

[adolescentswede]

Yes I would not sure I'd see it as negative but I would certainly care

[LegateLanius]

Yeah, I would.

[outside_Toronto]

It shouldn't be important. It's none of his business

[Anon-ymous1]

Yeah it usually matters to us at least a little bit.

[quietdom]

He shouldn't be bothered by the fact that you've had other partners before him. If he is, he needs to grow up, and you need to date a guy who's an adult

[IconAura]

Yeah Id care about that, not like super crazy but wouldn't see ya in the same light

[mythreya18]

Yes it is sooo worried

[Mcluven]

Tell him to fuck a girl you know that you dont like. That way its going to be even after that.

[Anonymous]

Yes.
Having a female who has meaningless sex would be a deal breaker.
No guy wants an easy hoe for a partner.

[Karmen11223]

I totally agree! But I had 4 partners what I don’t think is too much. Whatever I really regret of this experience. Thank you for you opinion!

[Anonymous]

I don't think so my girlfriend had sex with a bunch of people I know doesn't really matter to me