Do you think there’s sexual tension between us?

Me and this guy have been flirting through text and the phone. So when he wanted me to call I was teasing him about how messy his room is cause he’s a boy and we were just talking then he mentions how he wants to meet me. He then mumbles how he wants to have fun with me but I don’t take notice of that. These are the texts that’s been exchanged between us..
Me: will anyone be there when I come?
Him: yeah. But we can stay in my room
Me: I don't know about that
Him: or yeah
Me: I don’t know what to wear when I see u on Monday
Him: anything u like cause I don’t mind
Me: of course u don’t mind
Him: 😜
Me: I know u just want me
Him I just want you 😍
Me: what would u do if u was here now?
Him: we’d fuck and everything.
Me: I’d make you feel so good
Him: just come
Me: make me
Him: I will don’t worry.
Me: you’ll like my house
Him: no I like u. You have a nice body.
These were just examples of texts that we’ve exchanged. He also got annoyed at me then I said to him
“You’re just mad cause u can’t get me in your bed.” He then replied “that’s why I’m mad but I need to see you.”

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  • It's clearly that he desir you... But let me tell you something... Some men prefer keeping this desire and don't satisfy there sexual needs with some girls... And the raison is: when the man feel that this woman is special or different, he prefer keeping sex in the last stage of relation... Coz he think that if he jump in the bed with her, the magic of what he feel about this woman gonna disappear... WE DESIRE MORE WHAT WE CAN'T CATCH OR HAVE EASILY... and this kind of tension make the fire of passion more and more romantic and sweet...

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    • Wrong I can definitely please I fuck like a pornstar and she would definitely be back for more

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    • @fucjyou Methinks the lad doth protest too much. Bro, real talk guys can actually fuck like a porn-star, don't brag about being able to fuck like a porn-star. Acting like a little bitch in the comment does really help you case either. Food for thought.

    • I agree with this mans thought track, I do this exact behaviour so thank you for posting such an accurate opinion <3

Most Helpful Girl

  • Definitely tension!
    Watch yourself. I love to flirt like this with one of my guy friends (not so much now that I have a boyfriend BUTTTT) but he is aware that he and I would never have sex because he is my best friend. Love him to death but it's just a no. He's not my type and he is just a friend that we joke like this.
    Anyways! You are playing with fire right now. Don't taunt a boy if you don't mean it. If you do intend to have sex with him then just discuss it with him (so he doesn't think you are just playing with him). If you don't intend to have sex or date him then stop now while you are ahead or do what me and my friend have. We flirt all the time but he is aware I will not have sex with him.
    Good Luck!

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    • Ok so I misspoke. Does not make me a liar however. And I repeat, I have not spoken to this friend in a good while and therefore I could not be flirting with him and therefore I am not a "typical woman who has absolutely no respect for her man". Now I must ask doesn't Môncheríe mean 'my dear' and your sentence reads 'therefore my dear sweet my dear'? Correct my if I am wrong cause French is not my first language and I am rough on my translations. Merely curious. Apologies if I am wrong.

    • Ok, so now that you clarified, I will add my apologies and say that I am sorry. Just the way you made it sound, I took it out of context.🌹 It would read; therefore my dear sweet dear, or technically Môncheríe actually means Madam☺

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  • Really like the sultry exchange. There's definitely sexual tension between you two, and you want to do it but are both fighting about who's bed or house. Just do it somewhere already.

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  • Ummm yeah, there is tension lol Some sexual, some other. You have to decide if you are going to keep the tension so long that you tire the dynamic out and kill it, or if you want to actually go somewhere with it. He seems overeager, so I'd understand if yoy just want to drop him, but don't lead him on either because that isn't cool.

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  • If you just told me those texts you exchanged, without any context, I would have assumed a boyfriend was talking flirtatiously with his girlfriend. So yes, I would say there is definitely tension. Now, what you're going to do with that... that is all up to you

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  • He clearly wants you.
    I hope you clarified to him that you were just playing (based on what you wrote) because if he does not know tih, s he can get very confused and angry.

    I was talking to an Indian girl. I liked her because she was cute, but didn't want to do "anything" with her. she was a friend. She always flirted with me but then said that she is only playing. I was confused, though not angry because I really didn't want anything.

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  • Yea 100% sexual tension is there. There is no way you two won't fuck if you end up in a room together. It's more common than you think not everyone is lucky enough to have a free house so you just gotta do it while his family are in the other room lmao, I'm guilty won't lie. Sounds more like a booty call than flirting to me, your in for sure

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    • It’s just putting me off his family members might be there tho I prefer no one being there.

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    • Gotta live with the awkwardness*

    • I recommend barricading the door with a chair that's what I used to do it gives you time also don't get fully unclothed

  • Sorry I don't see the sexual tension at all... Sexual tension is when there are implied hints from both sides but the intention is not explicitly stated.

    He obviously wants to have sex with you and has stated it explicitly. You teased the guy, but maybe just for fun, or you're not entirely sure if you really want him. If you do want to have sex him, you just say when and where and get done with it.

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  • Seems a little too cruel to me. I get you wanna tease him, but "u mad bro?" is just twisting a knife. I dunno if you wanna have sex or not, but you're making him think you want /more/ than just meeting and hanging out at first.

    If you wanna take it slow, fine, but let him know CLEARLY that you do. If you're down with having sex when you meet, then go for it. But don't tell him you're gonna go and tease him when you don't. That's cold.

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  • Anyway

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  • Uuhm do you know the guy IRL otherwise watch it , dont wanna break your experience but just watch it if you actually dont know him. not everybody is who they say they are.

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  • Sexual tension? Sort of. From what I can tell he's a bit pushy, wants sex and doesn't care what he needs to say to make it happen, might not walk away after but almost certainly will not give you the respect you deserve. I might be being a little judgmental, especially from so short a glimpse, but if I were you I'd steer clear.

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  • It's not sexual tension it's horny young adults. You need to spend time together to see if there is sexual tension. If you go meet him and just have sex it's not about chemistry between you it's just hormones. (Nothing wrong with that, I'm just answering your question) last time I was deployed I talked to a girl for a month and a half. Was flirty, sexual, we went on a date and there was nothing, it was just like brother and sister, it happens. Good luck. (Use protection)

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  • This relation is on way to his bedroom.
    You are trying to make it drift to stable relation by talking and opening other topics, but he's only thinking one way (how to sleep with you?).
    Think smart if you are building hopes past sex, flash news it's hopeless.
    Think smart, Good luck in your life

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  • Sexual tension can be seen clearly and he is attracted to you sexually which you know already. I would suggest to be cautious because he may turn out to be a fuckboy or maybe I am jealous oh him now lol anyway i would say it again that sexual tension exists between you two.

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  • There is definitely sexual tension, but perhaps it is only lust. Because he seems very direct.

    Keep it going on for a while so he thinks more about you. Perhaps do a fun activity (outside the bedroom) so you two can commect more and deeper feelings can develop.

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  • Yup there's sexual tension between you and as per your chat example I think he is desperate for you and u don't think it's the love cause texts are more lean towards his list for...

    That's what I observed not commenting anything cause I don't know the guy in person so am no one to judge him or you

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  • I would probably say he does only want sex
    So yes I would say he has some sexually tension towards you if you two end up together in 1 room be sure he would probably make a move
    If you want to go for it , it will be so easy for you
    But if you don't want to have sex with him avoide staying alone with him and try not to get things sexual maybe during chat to avoide all this if you want

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  • As people here said earlier, it definitely sounds like there is a sexual tension between you.
    Also, it sounds like a bad choice for the long run, and a good choice for the short one.

    One last thing - why does it matter to you so much that it'll be in your home (and why he want to do that only in his home?)

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  • Is there sexual tension? We need Captain Obvious here:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uhcH0c469F8

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  • There seems no affection there , all he wants is your body , I can see once he has had what he wants he will be gone. S orry I would not like to be treated like that. Maybe you just want the sex but that is all you will get. Hope you enjoy your self !!!

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  • Yeah its sexual tension between u both, im sure about him!

    I used to text my girlfriend the same way, quite naughty messages within limit zone, but she was not much into such things, i used to tease her lot, she too. I was eager to have fun with her in private, she too was.

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  • Yeah he obviously wants sex it sounds like you do as well I get the feeling you might want more than just sex I'm not sure if he does or not if you're happy to bang and never hear from him again go for it if you want anything else just stear away from sex talk and see if he can be bothered to talk to you x

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  • Yeah, there is definitely some tension going on. He's hinting, you are hinting. STOP Hinting. Either go for it or shut it down now. If you are just kidding around, you need to stop because it may seem like you are playing mind games and that's never a good thing. On the other hand, if you are sexually interested in him Tell Him. Go to his house. It seems like you are both on the same page. Just make sure that you have protection on hand, ok.

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  • There is the sexual tension present in here. But as far as I can see that's about it. Sounds like a trouble to me tho. If you're into casual sex and you're sure that you can trust this guy, you can get into it since he's obviously craving for it. But if you're expecting for a serious relationship afterwards, he's sounds like a bad news to me. Cuz for all you know he could do this to any girl he feels attracted to.

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  • Yeah there's definitely sexual tension. You told him that you would make him feel so good. He told you that he likes your body. Just be careful if you have never met him before. You have to confirm that it's the guy you're talking to. You have to video chat with him or something. Also, please don't meet him at his house. You have to meet in a public place.

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  • Definitely but a heads up he texts exactly like a player I know , and watch out I had 22 guys watch me have sex without permission because a guy said he had friends over but not to worry because they will mind their business...

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  • I think there is sexual tension, but if you are also asking if he is looking for a relationship with you it kind of sounds like he is just after your body but I could be wrong.

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  • "He said, You said." And not even Yet in the Bed.
    What Kind of Convo with Joe when in the same Room, Such as the Bedroom? xx

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  • There is sexual tension. I think he may just be using you in a way. Please don't get hurt.

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  • Ooh girl haha do you mean everything you’re saying to him? There’s defo sexual tension there but it all just depends on what you’re like in person with each other

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  • Sounds like this guy is just horny and is losing his patience with you because he just wants to bang you and you can't decide where.

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    • Not really sure about that cause if u noticed she's the one who brought out the topic, so...

  • yass girl, if that's not sexual tension I don't know what is. How about real life exchanges?

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  • There might be some sexual tension, but be careful.

    If you all the conversations you’ve had have been like this he might just be looking for sex and nothing else (but if that’s all you’re looking for then go for it)

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  • He very obviously wants to bang, not so sure about you... What do you want me to say, what's the point?

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  • Tbh it looks like he just likes u for ur looks and is just desperate for sex. You should never go for a guy like that cuz trust me you’ll end up breaking up with em

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  • I really think there is sexual tension. Is okay if that's all you want though, because I see nothing else.

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  • Duh but the real question is do you actually want to make it into something else other than sexual flirting?

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  • There is a sexual tension between you two, now it's your choice if you want that or not GO GET HIM GIIIIRL😂😂

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  • If there isn't, I don't know what is. I feel hot just reading them.

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  • Probably.
    Ask him if he thinks so. ..
    duuuguuhuh

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  • THe complimented your body here, not your personality. You sort of played along (push and pull) so there is sexual tension for sure.

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