What are your thoughts on wife sharing?

[shreya_shiry]

both partners are fine with it and want to enjoy wife having sex with other men. Do you support this or are you against it. I am asking this question because I am regular reader of literotica sex stories. And lately I am reading so many wife sharing stories and they are huge turn on for me. I am not married but I have a boyfriend still I would never ever think of doing this in real life but still every time I log in I find myself reading wife sharing stories only. But the question is only about your thoughts on this kind of marriage.

[Browneye57]

I wouldn't think of it either. But here is some reality check...
1. If he wants to watch, or she wants him to watch, then it's called a cuckhold, or cuck, cuckholdery. It is THE most emascuating thing you can do to a man. Period.
2. It never turns out like you would like or hope it would.
3. Figure your primary relationship will implode. The marriage will fail.
4. Women get so bored they seek alternate sex partners - it is up to the man to perform - if he fails she'll bail cheat or shut down, or any combination.
5. This arrangements never last for long.
6. This kind of marriage is a sham.

Google this: hypergamy
That explains a lot.

[Wally48]

@Browneye57 So in the context of this question, have you ever thought how you would handle it with your wife if your dick shut down? I mean if the urologist looked in you the eye and said "no more boners for you, buddy". I find that thought frightening, especially if a wife had a moderate to high libido. You know, depending which study you look at 30-44% of men in their 60's have some level of ED. So her question doesn't just apply to masochistic Cucks with seriously low self esteem. It's about guys with wives that have normal libidos who can no longer service them. WTF are they going to do? Would you: a. Give them a dick pass and tell them to be discreet? As you know, sex is a bonding experience so the more they get it, the more they might question staying with their mate. b. Divorce the woman you love so you don't have to deal with the sanctioned affairs? Then you're trading your ego to avoid loneliness. c. (next)

[Wally48]

c. Like you say the wife might just shut down, (which would be the least painful for the man possibly) but that's far, far from guaranteed. I live in a area with a lot of retired people and you should see the number of women 50-60 in the bars trolling for dick. Any thought on this?

[Browneye57]

@Wally48 - No. I don't have to think about it - dick is rock hard. My dad's was 'till he died of prostate cancer. Testosterone runs in the family. :) But now that you mention it, there's a drawer full of dildos - any of those will bring her to climax. She's an orgasm machine anyway, and likely why we've stayed together all these years - almost thirty of them now. In fact, we were just talking about it tonight.

[Wally48]

Prostate cancer killed my Dad also. Fortunately my PSA numbers are good. If it's in the family you should check that once a year. I do.

[Browneye57]

@Wally48 Dad was 71 - I have 10 years to go. But low numbers also, and healthy otherwise. Testosterone low to normal. Vasectomy doctor said 6 months checks due to family history but I can't be bothered. As long as things are normal I keep living. But to answer the question, would I share, uh no. Not only no, but hell no. There's a long history for us and we would not be going there. I would live alone before I was cuck'd. I'm just not that kind of man.

[Wally48]

Can't do it. I'm too insecure and possessive. Until the ink is dry on the divorce papers, she owns my cock and I own her pussy. I've been the only guy inside her for 36 years, and she's the mother of my children, how on earth could I ask her to fuck another guy? Even if it's some 9 inch dude that gives her a mind blowing experience. Just knowing that was going on would push me over the edge.

And it's not like I'm a total prude. My buddy and I swapped girlfriends for 24 hours one weekend in college. It was nice. But we didn't love our girlfriends, and we were all single. But a wife? Different deal for me. Just my thoughts, but I'm old school...

[MlleCake]

I don't believe a wife is a dish of candy a man can hand out pieces of to another man.

A woman is her own self.

If she wants to be ethically non-monogamous, that's her choice, and she should go about negotiating it with her husband so that HER needs and wants are being met.

It is not something she should be pushed into by her husband.

[MlleCake]

But in dirty stories, it can be whatever you want it to be. I'm not into stories where women are treated like accessories.

[jdrrichmond]

I agree. The term itself is sexist. Ethical non-monogamy is fine, if it is really ethical.

[caleb1141]

Have you ever heard of open relationship. And for a woman to do stuff like that usually she is down with it. So how would she be treated like "candy" if she agreed to it in the first place.

[MlleCake]

@caleb1141 Just the thought that the woman is "shared" like an object informs me of the attitude of the question, and I think I was pretty clear about why I feel the way I do.

[jdrrichmond]

I agree Mllecake. Like many things, intent a and attitude contribute to it's morality. Also, thank you for describing the 7 openings in a vagina (I thought it was 2) Very Interesting. I would have replied to that post, but I was blocked. I don't think that user likes being called out on her rudeness.

[MlleCake]

@jdrrichmond In the VULVA. The Vagina is one hole on it's own.

[jdrrichmond]

I went back and forth on the two words...

[MlleCake]

@jdrrichmond If you aren't referring to just the one tube called "vagina", you probably always mean VULVA. Vagina is MOSTLY used incorrectly.

[jdrrichmond]

Yep. I got that.

[Kelly6]

If both partners agreed on wife sharing then I don’t see anything wrong.
After all I share my husband with his girlfriend.

[Samantha2448]

Its hot in porn but i don't know if I could do it more than once just to try it

[shreya_shiry]

I like your thinking

[Vickymoore9]

Obviously one of the partners brings this to the idea to the relationship but both need to agree to it and it needs to be a desire for both as well. I don’t think it should ever be a fast decision either, you need talk even if you don’t want to you need to ask why. I don’t think anyone should ever do this if they are in an unstable relationship you need to have a very strong happy relationship. There is a lot of trust in doing something like this, between both partners and especially who your inviting into your bed to share someone you love with. TRUST has to be at the highest level if your a jealous person this is going to eat you up don’t do this if you are. Take your time talk it through think it through let your partner think it through ask the hard questions be honest open to your partner. There are many reasons why people want to do this you need to be willing to listen and take that in. If you are feeling like your uncomfortable asking the questions on your mind your not ready or it’s better just to not ever do it. If your at the point you are both excited and completely trust each other have that person who you trust to bring in. You need to set up rules for this but also you need to be open minded rules can be broken in the heat of passion. So the best rule is having no bundies and being comfortable with completely letting go and making this a amazing experience. You need to make sure your happy with how your going to bring in nothing worse than a wife having to have sex with someone that disgusts them. The other fact is selfish people many husband want to watch the wives for their pleasure and get hurt watching her enduring pleasure. You have to be excited that another man is giving your wife more pleasure than your ever could. That’s scary for you don’t do it if this turns you on your going to have a awesome time watching or joining your wife.

[SKINNYPETITE1]

Not happening with this girl

[englisc]

Any man who lets a other man go balls deep in his girlfriend/wife is a beta cuck.

[ScaryCool]

It's a voyeuristic kind of kink. Many people only fantasize about it. I've heard of bad experiences actually trying it or getting out of it. If you and your partner were into it sure.
I personally wouldn't do it.

[jade18]

Can you pm me please

[Mr_Doctor]

don't say that u r on of the people who will share !

[nasty4fun]

If she is cool with it I am.

[TadCurious]

It's something I would never do. For me, that would be a violation of my commitment to my wife. And if she ever proposed doing that I would know something was very wrong with my marriage.

[ENTP_EMO]

I support whatever they want to do. It's their right. The marriage I am not experienced to have an opinion on. All I can say is if it works for them, that's fine. It won't work for everybody.

I do not want to do it.

[RiccoCosta]

I think it's beyond hot and focuses the sexual pleasure all on *her*.

[Ankitasingh466]

Against it...

[vodkabunneh]

That does happen in the real world, and that is the truth. Only someone who had been into such relationship or have experienced the swinger lifestyle would know. There are many couples who are into swinger lifestyle even in India this lifestyle is common among many couples - sharing. Mostly this happens within a cuckold couple. I am not against this as I'd like to keep an open mind.

[bubbakong2006]

You obviously are turned on by it if you keep reading about it , I’m a man and I never thought I would be up for it but in the past had talked about it with my wife and she as well talked about it if she was horny during sex well eventually we did it and it was pretty exciting for both of us and continued to do it cause we both really enjoyed it don’t know until you try it but was a great time for us

[Anpu23]

The truth is in my experience, group sex, wife swapping, open relationships etc just kill the core relationship. Their a lot of fun in as casual friends with benefits kind of thing, but a serious relationship just dies.

[Nik1hil]

Honestly No..
I married her for a reason because I want her.. For my own.. But she is human.. So I cannot own her.. So I have a loophole...
If she is interested in shagging anyone except her Ex and anyone related to either of us.. She needs to invoke a Hall Pass..
She needs to let me know.. Whom and where she wants to shag them..
I just want to know if she is safe and happy..
And she should not share the details with me..

[JC103]

Swinger style, yes

[MindTime]

Just depends on how both people feel

[shreya_shiry]

lol..

[shreya_shiry]

Fuck sorry that reply wasn't for you 🤪

[MindTime]

No problem 😂

[herguy]

I love it - I have had this fantasy for years now and I am dying to try it out for real!

Slowly my girl is coming round to the idea - she is extremely turned on by it but struggles with the 'cheating or not?' aspect - but slowly she is growing fond of the idea and every time we have sex her dirty-talk is always related to having more than one guy fucking her.. Which is HOT!!

Someday we will live the fantasy!

[Renegade_man]

For me i wouldn't care i have been told im amazing with my oral skills and i know a lot of women dont get that so to give oral pleasure to anithers mans wife that doesn't get it or the way she wants would be hot and yes i love love love to use my tongue and give multiples

[seethroughmyeyes]

I wouldn't mind , if the feeling is mutual

[LegateLanius]

Not a fan at all.

[outside_Toronto]

As long as both consent, I see no issue with it. It would never work for me.