Can a woman's body not be good enough for a relationship or intimacy?

[Anonymous]

Now, I'm not talking about skinny or healthy weight, beautiful women. I'm not even talking about women who have light imperfections such as light stretch marks, a scar, etc. These women make up the majority of the population and most never have doubt of someone being attracted to them. I've always known that my body isn't good enough for a relationship or intimacy. I'd feel guilty, selfish and inconsiderate for being with a guy knowing that he can easily find someone better. I've been pursued by a few guys within the past year, but I turned them down for this reason. I'm currently obese and losing weight but these issues won't go away and will probably worsen. My issues with my body are: Slightly broad shoulders, stretch marks and multiple scars on my upper arms, saggy boobs, strawberry skin on boobs, nipples are at the end of my boobs instead of the center, light stretch marks across my stomach, discoloration on hips, bulging love handles (no matter what my weight is), extremely dark (nearly black) inner thighs/vagina/inner butt area, strawberry skin legs, stretch marks on inner thighs. I feel like it reaches the point where no one should see someone's body and I'm there. Like I said, it's seriously not fair. Do you think it's possible for a woman's body to not be good enough?

[jaidee]

not good enough is a self-imposed restriction. You said it yourself:a few guys asked you last year. That's "a few people"more than the number of girls who asked me out in 40 years.

If those guys asked you out, that means they were ok with your body. It's not like they didn't notice your size and expected you to be skinny once naked.

I used to be 25lbs more than I am now. So I wasn't obese... But I think the way I lost weight was pretty good: I've been eating those frozen meals you find in supermarkets. With around 300 grams and about 400kcals. Then I still offer myself 2 yogurts. And I lost weight at a good pace (15lbs the first year, 10lbs the second year). It didn't require a lot of efforts and could be sustained easily. And my skin had time to shrink nicely.

[GoNanas]

I don't think so. All about the right person.
I dated a girl for like 6 years and I thought she was the most beautiful woman on this planet. It wasn't until years later when I was finally over the break up that I saw all of her glaring imperfections.

[ChronicThinker]

This literally is so untrue.

[Plan411Real]

Sexually transmitted diseases or any communicable diseases or infection is the predominant prerequisite

[WalterRadio]

It depends on the guy.

I won't date fat girls.

Some guys like fat girls because they are easy and they are too lazy to try for better. And since makes them both happy, so what.

[TripleAce]

Depends who you go for, obviously
If you go for guys I’m the same league.. ya why would it be a problem?
The problem starts when women try to snag a guy too many notches above

[Kandy-Kane]

If you find the right man it won't matter

[Aynsof]

Honestly
A man can love a woman no matter what her body is like
It doesn't make you not good enough it probably while make it harder to find a person who will appreciate you for other things But some will

[vald9inches]

there is such a thing as being too fat so yes lol

[Abdul00]

If u have scars and stretch marks consult the skin specialist if u are fair or black it doesn't matter and if u have any skin problems in private area consult doctor it will cured easily no need of worrying about that and if ur nipples are at the end doesn't matter if u r healthy and good at talking

[Jimmie-Rustler]

Wanna loose weight. Cut out all sugar will loose 10-20 pounds in 2 weeks and drink only water and milk. Don't cut out all fats because fat doesn't make you fat sugar does (sure too much can but I digress) go for low fat instead of fat free. Exercise and a balanced diet you will loose weight and feel a ton better in a matter of months.

[masterkamasutra]

no, her attitude can be.