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I can't orgasm all of a sudden... Wtf?

So its about to get all personal so here's your warning. So I started my period last week late oddly enough, no I'm not pregnant, I am 25 years old to include into this story. With that being said I don't masterbate or have sex on my period so when I'm off my period, I kind of award myself with an exploding orgasm lol so when I got off my period, I masterbated. And... Strange I didn't have that exploding feeling, it was like "Bleh..." So I did it again, same thing.. So this has been going on almost a week and I've tried every night believe me and still, "Bleh..." So I usually get off like amazingly when I use my imagination cause in my mind I can have whatever I want lmao, so had this weird fantasy of Evan Peters and it got sexy believe me but I fucking love him. Anywhoo I cam but no orgasm. So I'm super sexually active and yes I have a boyfriend but I pretty much threw myself at him tonight cause I was horny as fuck, that didn't go as planned. So legit, I cried when I didn't get off cause I'm so sexually frustrated and there seems to be nothing I can do about it. Like I'm going crazy, I have to get off or I loose my shit and I don't know what to do, I want to know if anyone else has gone through this, or any ideas besides something stupid like cheating or dumping my boyfriend because of sex.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I had something like that happen to me when I was 26 and I was feeling the same way that you are now and worried about never having the big "O" again so, I scheduled an appointment with my gynocologist and he said everything was fine but I told him I was having problems achieving orgasm during copulation and it was right after my period and he said that sometimes after menstruation pelvic blood flow decreases significantly but it can be stimulated by exercise before sex or with kegels and vibrating sex toys to increase blood circulation. I waited a couple of weeks because I was so tired trying to get a orgasm only to be dissatisfied and tried a bit of jogging before I saw my boyfriend that evening and did some pelvic floor exercises and look and behold.. lol the "big O" returned full force 💃and haven't had any issues since. Hope this helps!

    • Oh wow really? That's very interesting and makes me feel so much better that I'm not the only one that experienced this before, I actually cried last night because I'm thinking I'm never going to orgasm again 😂 ty!!!

    • If it doesn't come back, and it's bothering you that much, schedule an appointment with your obgyn to make sure there's no underlying issues.

    • I'm going Thursday thank God lol

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  • I have that sometimes. It literally just depends on how sensitive you are. Sometimes my orgasms don't feel like anything, sometimes I'm shaking. It's just 50/50 really

    • Girl I would do anything for a 50/50 right now, if I could just get off one fucking time run I'd be happy but I can't seem to

  • Get your boyfriend to tie you up and slowly torture you with his tongue till you're begging for relief. That always makes me cum all over the place.

    • Pfffyeah I can't get him to have sex with me much less that

Most Helpful Guys

  • Maybe hold your breath longer...

    If there isn't a toy shop near your commute, then maybe a trip to the pickle or cucumber section of the grocery store?

    Maybe it's time to broaden yourself, doing something anal at the same time, e. g., to hit the recto-uterine pouch.

    Does your boyfriend lick you? or finger you in a way that hits your G spot?

    And on the side, can you say how you normally masturbate, what that spot is? Are you pressing from the outside on the top of the pubic bone, by any chance?

    follow me? I have a few other questions.

  • Mmmm that's a hard one. I know this is not what you wanna hear but maybe go longer without even cumming. I know for us guys, when we get super pent up and then we finally get to it feels pretty good but if we're doing it all the time, it can sort of lose it's 'O' until some time has passed.
    Hopefully some girls can you give you better advice haha.

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  • Have you had any allergy medications, or any medications period, a lot of medications can cause anorgasmia

    • No not at all! The only thing I'm doing different is workingo it and drinking protein shakes but I was doing that before I started my period

    • Hmm odd

  • You being stressed about certain things can be the cause of you not being able to orgasm, you have a lot of shit on your mind so you aren't fully focused into your fantasy, anxiety, stress, nervousness can all i believe stop you from having an orgasm, try clearing your mind about all the shit in your life and focus on that orgasm

  • Oh I k ow what you are going through and in my case it's because I've masturbated so many times that the orgasm just starts to become less and less satisfying and eventually become kinda men so that might be happening to you.

    • But none of this started till I started, I've been masturbating for 13 years lol

    • Youve been masturbating for 13 years and you still have full strength orgasms I am actually jealous right now. Butbrhw bestbi can say is wait until you are feeling the mist turned of and if that doesn't work then kinda switch it up a bit and masturbatebin a different way and that might change it just enough to make it better again.

    • Lol I will try that, yeah I've been masturbating since 6th grade, that's how I stay so damn calm 😂

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  • Try not being in controll , like BDSM stuff. You'll want your orgasm so much you'll beg him for it and you'll apreciate every orgasm , you will chase it

  • Are you stressed from other things?

  • Have you tried different ways of making yourself orgasm, fingers, toys, technique?

    • Not yet, but I figured that if I can get off masturbating the one spot I can get off to, I can't anywhere else

    • Do you have any toys? Maybe it's worth trying something different

    • I mean you're right. I'll try that and see, I'm just going fucking crazy!!! 😂

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  • If you seriously can't orgasm you should see a doctor.

  • Is there anything else going on? Stress?

  • You are not psychologically satisfied or it doesn't come out too?

    • Like I cum but I don't orgasm if that makes sense. Like I do get the "Ahhhhhh" feeling, its more of a "Oh that's it? Wtf" like barely any explosions of feeling

    • Its psychological This happened with someone few months back I talked to😅😅

  • Not sure what to do for you, but I do like @QueenofCups answer.

  • you need skillful dick for you.

  • Could you try spicing it up with your boyfriend and acting out a fantasy of yours? I did it recently with my girlfriend and it was incredible

    • Well the problem is my boyfriend says he's a sexual deviant, but... Well like tonight I was like in my underwear, with high socks, legs freshly shaved, licking his dick with his shorts on like "Take that shit off" saying "My mouth is mighty warm and moist, I could make that happen to your dick" and saying we should get under the covers and make out and shit. And... Well nothing happened, he was up an hour after that and didn't do anything, like he bit my neck at one point and that's what lead me to say and do that stuff I listed above, so if he won't even have normal sex with me or doesn't seem interested, I doubt he would want to fulfill my fantasies 😔

    • Well if he's a sexual deviant then i'm sure he will wanna fulfill your fantasies. Until my girlfriend said to me about hers I'd never thought about it but now we both can't get enough of it and are having the greatest sex in 4 years of our relationship

    • Lol he wasn't interested last night, the night before... Ugh, I've told him some of the things I like and he's never done it, he chocked me once and I loved it, never done it again. I said I wanted us to be more aggressive, did that a couple of times and not anymore. Our sex is more of "Oh tomorrow is Monday so were not gonna see each other till next Saturday so we need to fuck now"

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  • Same thing is happening to me, maybe i am mentally frustrated

    • Well read the comments, maybe they'll help you

    • Naaa i found a way

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