Can a guy pre-cum before sex?

[mia_9797]

me and my guy best friend were chilling in my house alone, smokin up, and chillin on bed talking about random stuff. i then had the urge of just resting sleepy on his chest, i told him to close the lights since they were bothering my eyes. he wasn't sure of closing the lights since he thought something would happen, anyways he got up and close them. i kept playing in his chest and resting my head, we had music on, and everything was cool, until he started making moves, at first he wanted to kiss me, i didn't allow it at first, but then things happened. he took off his shirt. and came back to his place, needless to say he made me take off mine as well. things got hot for him somehow, though i didn't make a move to his cock, maybe only his neck, us kissing, and that's it. he took of hiss shorts, and anyways he was wet for some-reason, even-though i did not touch him. and i didn't want things to go further so i didn't let him to foreplay me or anything, i was just topless, hugging him with my jeans on. he got wet without us even making out... how is that possible? he was then full undressed and i was with my jeans on, i told him i won't do it, so he got fully dressed again. after a while i got undressed and so did he and things got steamy. for me it was awesome, but in a kinda weird way. Another question if you're reading this far, i made some moves on him, i'd like to ask whether they would stick in his mind and make me unique for him or somethin.. after having sex, before getting to another, i licked his back from the middle to top, then i headed to his neck licked it from bottom to top, licked his ears and the bite it softly. i saw the sweetest smile after then! a day and half has passed by, but he didn't call after that night, should i call him, or wait for him to call, what would i say in both situations?

[xctmnt]

1) Yeah, pre-cum is totally normal. It's natural lube. It's even possible to "half-ejaculate". Or have multiple orgasms (kind of).
2) If you want to stick in a guy's mind, of course men love sex, but for the long-term, long-term stuff matters more. Like: Does he enjoy your company? Does he want to make babies with you? Some of this he will know as soon as he sees you the first time. It's not something you can easily hack or influence.
3) Don't obsess about calling/texting. Women always obsess about this. We aren't like you.

[hazfire]

Ok just reading this and the question leads me to think, since he came 4 times in one "event" and had a lot of pre cum, then it's possible he doesn't get that kind of treatment a lot. And if that's the case then he could be nervous about calling you again. He may want to hear from you but is afraid it would be awkward. But that's just my guess based on the little I've read of it.

[mia_9797]

do you think i should call or text him? if it's a text, what do u think i should say?

[hazfire]

I'm not sure what kind of verbal relationship you guys have, so I don't know exactly what would be normal and appropriate to text him. I'd probably just shoot him a friendly "hey You! What's up?"

[hazfire]

But yes I'd message him first

[QueenofCups]

Yes. Guys can leak without their penis being directly stimulated. You're a good tease. Did you make him cum?

[mia_9797]

yeah 4 times ;D

[QueenofCups]

Damn girl. You're good :-).

[mia_9797]

however, yes i teased him a lot, but without being direct.. know what i mean

[mia_9797]

but y didn't he call?

[QueenofCups]

I know exactly what you mean. I do that all the time. He must've been throbbing by the time you finally made him cum.

[QueenofCups]

Maybe he feels weird about what happened. After my guy friend and I masturbated together, we didn't talk for like two weeks.

[Torex]

When a guy is turned on enough he can precum. Sometimes it is if he gets hard and then goes soft some precum will leak out.

[Okeydokeylittlepokey]

Yes we can I'm always wet when I'm with my girlfriend and we haven't been sexual with each other... yet;D

[hellacray]

Umm it's called being horny.

[jakeofalltrades]

it was probably pre-cum, its like when a girl gets wet it acts as natural lube, and prepares everything for cum.
let me get this straight, after he got dressed again you then decided you wanted to do something?

[mia_9797]

well yeah, but after a while though

[TonyRyanAgain]

Yeah, some guys get overly excited.

[Desuyonee]

holy shit, so your guy best friend becomes your fuckbuddy? ;DDDD

[mia_9797]

i still can't get this shit to my mind lol! but he didn't call though...

[Desuyonee]

yes and he won't ;DDDD because, from now on, you are useless ;DDD

[27Whatynerdo]

Yes ma'am

[tom4questions]

If it was still wet and smelt as cum it is for sure. In this case u should call him

[mia_9797]

yes it was wet, and he actually told me "come on i'm that wet and u still have ur jeans on!" not sure how it smelled i didn't come near it i just touched it accidentally and it was so wet. why would i call him? in what case do u mean?

[tom4questions]

If u like or him then call him... especially if u like to make more with him. If u touched it u can say it because of the consistency

[Anonymous]

Yes, guys do if excited. I'm sure everything stuck in his head.

Give him a few days to call you.