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I send a selfie of me with another guy's cum on my face to my boyfriend. How do I get him to stop being angry?

So now that I have your attention with the provocative title, I'll give you some context.

A couple years back my now-boyfriend had a huge crush on me while I didn't really feel anything for him back then. We went to a bar together, he saw it as a date, while I always said to everyone he was just a friend. Didn't give him the easiest time.

There was this other guy one of my friends had sex with the week before, her roommate heard it was amazing so when she left the morning after, she had sex with the guy too. Then two days before that "date" my best friend had sex with him as well. So the three of them, who had sex with him that same week were constantly talking about what a big dick he had.

The guy was kind of an asshole, but hearing all those stories, I kinda wanted to know what was so special as well. Not really caring much about my "date", I flirted and grinded with the other guy. My now-bf was pissed and went home. Than I kinda let myself go and gave the other guy a bj in the toilet.
I took a selfie since the guy dropped the biggest load on my face ever and me and my best friend always share that kinda stuff for fun.

The next day, my "date" asked if I got home safe and I answered "no" just for joking, but then I accidentally texted him the selfie I actually wanted to send to my best friend. Which broke his heart cause no one would rather have sex with me than him, but never got it.

After almost two years me and my date back then actually became a couple since after my wild and loose years, I could use a sweet and caring guy. But he told me he still gets haunted by that picture. Also he has a problem that I still hang out with that guy, even though there's nothing going on between us. I think he should get over it, I said sorry back then, the past is the past. What should I do about it?
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Ok, what is so wrong about what I did? Like no one else has blown a guy in a bar bathroom. All my friends have done it, more than once. And then I wasn't attracted because I wasn't looking for a nice guy. Now I am attracted.
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Most Helpful Girl

  • He won't get over it. The trust is broken and even though he may love you to pieces, it will still haunt him and nothing you do will change that. Sorry doesn't cut it. It will be one of his triggers, it will be what he sees when you go down on him. It will be what he remembers if you take pictures together.

    That sort of distrust is tough to overcome. I'd let him go if I were you, so he can heal and move on.

    Congrats to you changing, though! Unfortunately past is not remaining in the past if it's not overcome. This may very well be your consequence for the behavior you used to have.

    • Why would you do that other than to hurt him?

    • @jdrrichmond Elaborate, please?

    • Sorry. That was meant to be to the main thread. After rereading it, I see she said it was an accident, but she still seems pretty non-chalant about it. I'm kind of surprised he started dating her, if it really hurt him.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • " I think he should get over it, I said sorry back then, the past is the past."

    Well, it's good to see that you give a rat's ass about his feelings.

    And you're right. The past is the past. It's things that happened, and those things have lasting, heavy impact on the present that will continue into the future for as long as they're remembered. We learn from the past, because why? Because it's ~indicative of things that will continue to happen in the future unless changes are made~.

  • I'll pretend this is real. You don't deserve him. To you, he wasn't good enough and his sperm wasn't worthy then, but now it is? Couldn't be more insulting or degrading. Congratulations, you have officially hit the wall. Hope you enjoyed your sexual value when you had it, because it is quickly plummeting to skank levels and bar bathroom blowjobs is all you have left now.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • There's always a price to pay.

  • The past is not the past. You should break up with that guy, he deserves a lot better than you.

  • Stop hanging out with that guy.

    • Honey, listen. I was a party girl who quit to become (relatively) monogamous. If my boyfriend asked me to cut ties with someone I hooked up with, I would do it, no questions asked. You need to do the same.

    • Nothing wrong with what you did. I def wasn't condemning you.

  • Trolling? Or psycho?

    • It's not you blowing someone in the bathroom that's the problem. It's you being completely indifferent to other people's feelings if it serves your interests.

  • There's not much that you can do. It's done, and if he can't get past it then it might be a deal breaker for him. Something that you might just have to accept.

    • It's certainly not wrong, per se'. But neither are his feelings about it. He's allowed to feel however he does about your actions. You may do whatever you choose, as long as you are willing to accept the consequences of those actions. One of the consequences is it may effect how others see you. And before you start in on double standards, there are plenty of women who won't date a former player.

  • You could always try to "overwrite" his memory with bunch of other selfies that you take with his cock/cum on ur face.

  • Lol, you're a piece of shit. He deserves better than you

  • Troll

  • If you haven't already just explain why you did and that you have no interest in him, it was just curiosity

  • Well personally I would probably find it hot but that's just my own kink.

    Why don't you suggest to him that he cum on your face and take his own picture? Do your makeup extra-nice for him and everything so when he takes the photo, it's a better photo than the one he saw before, and maybe that will be closure for him?

  • Lol... That's a tough image for a guy to get out of his head.

    • For your update... Sure, a lot of people probably have blown guys in a bar bathroom, but not many take a picture of the cumshot on their face and send it to friends. Lol

  • send him he fucking you video too.

  • Sorry but you are a true bitch

  • I have no words for you, really...

  • Troll!

  • Damn it is hot. If I were your boyfriend. I would have loved it.

  • Stop hanging out !!!

  • WTF is wrong with you
    Why do still hang out with that guy, you don't have any respect for your man?
    If you are a sex freak then don't go and hurt other people's feelings like that guy.

    • "All my friends have done " You are not the problem , your friends are , they will ruin your relationship with him because what it seems like they are sluts to sleep with the same guy in four days , because he is good at sex

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