I permanently injured a guy in my class for calling me a slut, should I feel bad?

[Anonymous]

I went on a date with A and I gave him a blowjob in his car before he brought me home, and A's big mouth told his buddies about it. Now one of his pals, B, started the ball rolling by telling everyone about it. I had to see a counsellor / social worker (you name it) after crying about it for a long time, and I was told at one point of time to face him and stand up for myself.

When I confronted him in front of everyone, he called me "slut" and stated it was a fact, not a nickname. Later that day, I saw him leaving the locker room and I walked up to him. My emotions flooded me and I kicked him between the legs. It wasn't even a hard kick, but he cried like a girl and the teachers made a huge deal about it and called him an ambulance from the nurse's office. Ever the drama queen, I thought.

It sickened me to the stomach, I heard that he lost a testicle, and when he came back he became a shadow of his former self and wouldn't talk to anyone and quit all of his sports clubs. My counsellor told me not to feel bad for it because I didn't mean to hurt him so badly, and that it was a bold and empowering move for me to teach him a lesson, although I should not have hurt him physically.

No one calls me "slut" anymore, but I think I've a new nickname, none of them dares call me it in my face. Did he deserve it? Am I a horrible person? I want to blame myself and make it up to him, but my counsellor has told me not to because it would undo the act of standing up for myself.

Did I just make things worse for myself?

[Anonymous]

Omfg you ruptured his testicle. That must be a serious kick. If this isn’t a troll, you should feel very bad honestly. What he did is shit, but you ignore these people. But to damage someone physically is horrific. You may have stopped him from being able to have kids.
You need to take a hard look at your life, and care less about what people think about you. Your therapist is so wrong. All he did was call you a slut which isn’t a big deal.

Imagine if it was the other way round. A guy would go to prison for assault. You’ve got away with it. You slut.

[Opinion Owner]

So they would have had to remove his testiscle, and now every time he has sex he will be embarrassed what his girlfriend will think when he has only one. You’ve scarred him.

[letthefire80]

This is a common problem again, all you guys can think of is sex. How about, every time she goes anywhere, she will be embarrassed because of the looks and stares she gets from people because of his rumours and slander? What will her boyfriend think every time he sees her? I am completely certain she did not intend to "rupture" him, that is sad for him, but maybe in future, his lonely nut will remind him not to spread shit about a girl like that again. These things can really ruin her self-esteem and affect her life decisions when she is older. It is a tragedy that he had to lose a gonad for it to be resolved.

[Opinion Owner]

@letthefire80 damn you women are brutal and heartless. Why are you girls so pathetic and care so deeply about what people think. If everyone thought I was a slut I wouldn’t give a fuck. Just imagine if it was roll reversal. Imagine how wrong the guy would be.

[Opinion Owner]

‘That’s sad for him’ proof you selfish women only care about yourselves. Petty rumours go away over time. How would you feel if you did this to a guy and he punched you in the boob? That’s what I thought

[letthefire80]

It isn't so simple to just reverse the roles, she would have to emotionally manipulate or verbally abuse him greatly before we could even start imagining. Women and men aren't numbers, to switch the scenarios so easily like that. That aside, it does not mean she is right. I deeply sympathise with him and his future lovers, to pay the price for a mistake he made as a teen. My boyfriend himself was kicked by an ex when he was younger too, and I am thankful he did not suffer an injury like this

[Opinion Owner]

@letthefire80 if there is any justice in this world. She should at least have a warning from the police. What he did is hardly even a mistake. It’s just him being immature teen.

[kittycat119]

Actually by law she should have been expelled from school and at least be in a juvenile detention center for assulating a classmate. At the very least she shouldn't be allowed at that school near him

[Opinion Owner]

@kittycat119 that sounds about right. But women always get sympathy by society. So I’m sure none of that happened

[kittycat119]

It definitely should have. And I don't get why people on here are acting like the guy deserved it. He called her a slut boo hoo. She cost him a testicle. Those two crimes are light years away from each othet

[Opinion Owner]

@kittycat119 thank you so much for saying that. I thought everyone else here was deluded.

[kittycat119]

I'm not in the slightest. If this is true she should be facing charges

[Opinion Owner]

@kittycat119 yes. I don’t think this is true tbh. But I have my honest view.

[letthefire80]

@kittycat119 would he still be the victim if he didn't lose his testicle? did he have to attempt to rape/hit her before we can start celebrating her empowerment? Because if we're discussing consequences instead of actions and intentions, she could have killed herself because of his rumours and bullying, and I think her life is worth a little bit more than a portion of his ego. (one testicle is all he needs to have kids/hormones) He made her feel weak and cornered, and in return she made him less of a man. It is truly unfortunate what happened to him after, but she had no way of knowing that.

[kittycat119]

@letthefire80 not a rumor as she did suck the dudes dick. So it's a fact. And saying a mean word to someone doesn't constitute assaulting someone which by the way should have gotten her charged and arrested

[letthefire80]

@kittycat119 he liked telling everyone about his dick getting sucked. lets see how he likes it when someone starts spreading that he almost lost it. actions have consequences. both him and her learned that here. he reminds me of the guys who bullied me, and they were lucky it never occured to me to kick them where it hurts most.. she trusted him, and he broke that trust. this will hurt all her relationships in the future, not to mention her guilt for his predicament. it was never her intention to castrate him. maybe he should have blamed himself for not being manly enough to walk it off. he put his hand on the frying pan, got burnt, and if he wants to spend the rest of his life crying that a girl kicked his balls, he can, but he should just learn from his mistake and not repeat it again. he wouldn't be able to afford it.

[kittycat119]

@letthefire80 wow... its sad you're justifying assualt because he called her a stupid name which she could have just ignored

[Asker]

@kittycat119 she sounds a bit unhinged.. i think you're right. i don't know how i'll ever make it up or apologise to him, he won't even come near me

[kittycat119]

Of course he won't... u assaulted him 😑 and shouldn't even be allowed at the same school as the guy

[letthefire80]

@kittycat119 that's silly, none of this would have happened if he minded his own business. maybe he can get a restraining order on all females? and marry a girl who'll subjugate herself to a complete submission of her free will

[kittycat119]

@letthefire80 assaulting someone isn't will and it's a crime. Way worse then a stuoid word she let affect her

[Journeyman11]

@letthefire80 You're insane. Of course a girl can hurt a guy emotionally to the same degree, so if you can justify her attack on him, than you can justify a guy CRIPPLING a girl for hurting his feelings. too. And it's not just about "ego" when the most vulnerable part of your body, a part of your genitals, a part of your manhood, gets destroyed by another person! If you argue like that, you can say that sexual assault and groping is just "an attack on a woman's ego"! No. It's an attack on someone's sense of safety, sexuality and physical integrity. And when people like YOU try to somehow justify or diminish that, it is also an attack on that person's worth as a human being. But let me guess: It's just not the same when it happens to a guy, as when it happens to a girl. Because YOU don't feel as much when you hear about it. Did you ever think that maybe, just maybe, neither you nor your feelings are perfect? It not any less bad when it happens to a man. You just don't care as much.

[Journeyman11]

And rape. I mean, as long as your body still functions, it's just your "ego" that got attacked, right? Unbelievable.

[letthefire80]

@Journeyman11 Precisely, it isn't just "ego", or another viable organ/area to target. Maybe if you guys would just stop hurting/manipulating/assaulting women, your nuts would be fine. How is a kick in the nuts diminishing his worth as a person? And he can get a prosthetic put in, or eat hormone supplements or something. No matter what you say, you won't ping his balls back into health, she'll be the one to grow old and happy and have a healthy sex life while him and his lover will have a constant reminder of the time he was a b@$t@rd to a woman abusing her sexuality, and paid the price for it with HIS sexuality.

[kittycat119]

@letthefire80 so because he insulted someone who by the way is a bitch because that's what she is she's allowed 2 assualt him which by the way should have put her ass n jail

[Journeyman11]

@letthefire80 Women cheat just as much as men, and I bet my ass that they manipulate more. ANY assault is an attack on someone's worth, because it violates their HUMAN RIGHTS. But what I was talking about was YOU and many other people here JUSTIFYING this assault, which is even more disgusting, because you are saying that his rights don't matter in the first place. And again: You can turn that whole situation around. If a woman hurt a man emotionally to the same degree, would you be fine with him maiming her genitals? No? Then you simply think that men are less worth. Your feelings don't tell you what is good and right, just what feels good. A man being a victim of violence doesn't feel bad to you, because it doesn't threaten YOU on an abstract level, and because REVENGE feels good to you. A woman being a victim of violence or the target of revenge DOESN'T feel good to you, because YOU ARE a woman. This has nothing to do with right and wrong. It's pure egocentrism and sexism.

[Journeyman11]

@letthefire80 And I don't know if you realize that, but men are very aware when women think that men are less worth than them. The reason is that you are not ashamed to telegraph that fact through your words and actions, because you don't even acknowledge it. You don't even realize that you think that men are less worth. At the same time you whine how badly men treat women, and how we are all pigs. Why would any self respecting man treat such a woman well? If you have had such bad experiences with men, if GOOD MEN don't want to be anywhere near you, you should ask yourself why that is.

[letthefire80]

@Journeyman11 I've witnessed first hand what a man is capable of when I was helpless, physically and emotionally. I do not want to go further into it, but I have been there. And I wish I had the guts to stand up for myself the way she did, not all men deserve that, but these do.

[kittycat119]

@letthefire80 he didn't do anything 2 her. Boo fucking boo someone called her a mean name so of fucking curse that means she can assault him

[Journeyman11]

@letthefire80 Ok, then women who do the same things to men deserve the same punishment. Guy deserves losing part of his genitals for spreading hurtful rumors about girl - girl deserves losing part of her genitals for spreading hurtful rumors about guy. Both are justified in assaulting the other. And don't pull the pity card on me. You can't hold men as a whole responsible for whatever this guy did, at least not any more than you can hold women as a whole responsible for the same thing. Did you know that most murderers, rapists, wife beaters and child abusers were abused as children themselves? Did you know that boys receive more abuse than girls? And do you know who is responsible for the majority of child abuse? Women. Your vests aren't clean either. Maybe if women started seeing boys and men as feeling human beings with equal worth to that of girls and women, there wouldn't be as many terrible men on this earth. Stop this pathetic "women are victims, men are perpetrators" narrarive.

[letthefire80]

@Journeyman11 Maybe if my boyfriend in high school didn't force himself on me and take a piece, or all of my innocence, maybe if my step father didn't beat me whenever i was moody because of what happened, then my perspective would change. I don't hold ALL men in contempt, humans are humans, but I've learned to identify a certain type of man that would do such things, and they ALL deserve what happened to this specimen here, they should not spread their genes. If she were to attack him unprovoked, I would be on your side. But he let his machismo get in his way and incidentally ruined her developing years, and it is unfortunate that he lost a testicle but she too, like him, let her need to act on her emotions get in her way and it ended painfully and tragically for him. Everyone made a mistake, but I am 100% certain she did not INTEND to halfstrate him, she was just acting on impulse like he did.

[letthefire80]

Except he did what he did to impress his friends, while she did what she did to lash out for all the pain he caused her. And as such I find it difficult to emphatize with him.

[Journeyman11]

@letthefire80 For the thousandth time. That situation is easily reversable. Women have the same evil in them as men. And if a guy deserves something like this for what he did, then so does a girl for doing the same thing. As I said. Most of the men you're describing were abused as children. They are like this because they simply don't know tenderness, compassion, love, you name it. Women committ the most child abuse. Women are not better than men. Women are not more innocent than men. Women are not worth more than men. Women are not less evil than men. Men don't have less feelings than women, if they are granted that privilege. Men don't deserve a bigger punishment for the same wrong doing. What would you think of a man who thinks that women deserve that kind of punishment? Who has "identified a certain type" of woman, which in his eyes is categorically deserving of having their genitals mutilated, and justifies that with the fact that he was abused by his mother, as is so common?

[letthefire80]

@Journeyman11 I did not at any point say that women as a whole are more innocent than men, you seem to be the one caught up with that notion. Step on some nerves, did I? I simply said that in THIS particular scenario, he deserves it. You give me an example of what you describe actually happening, and I might agree with you. You appear to have a fragile ego, did you get humbled by a woman you wronged in the past in a similar way hmm? And men are more dispositioned to violence, you can't argue with it, whether by nature, or my nurture, and are physically stronger and able to act on violent urges more often that most women. And after all of it is over, you can defend him all you want but he will still walk this planet missing a ball. Imagine how humiliating it must be for him to explain it to any girl he gets intimate with.

[kittycat119]

@letthefire80 he didn't deserve being assaulted. That's just stupid

[Journeyman11]

@letthefire80 Ok, and I'm saying that, if a man deserves this in this scenario, then the same goes for a woman in a similar scenario with reversed genders. I'm not defending what he did. I am saying that men are not less worth and not inherently more deserving of punishment. And sure men are more violent. The majority of people targeted by that violence are men too, by the way. I just think that violence against children, while it's easiest, is the worst. And women have the lead there. If I have a fragile ego for saying that women deserve the same punishment as men for doing the same thing, and you are saying that men deserve a certain punishment for doing that certain thing, then what does that say about you? Maybe you don't know what fragile ego means. That would be if I claimed to be mentally stronger and tougher than women, and easily put off by someone disputing that claim. I am openly saying that men can NOT take it better, that the same injury hits us just as hard as women.

[BS123456]

What he did was uncalled for but not a crime, what you did was. Look at your actions in reverse. If he had an inadequate size and you spread this knowledge and in turn he became so enraged that he cut one of your breasts off how would you feel, probably less of a woman, undesirable, ugly and insecure. We can continue to cut a long board but once cut too short can never be made long again, meaning we can never undo the damage caused.

[Asker]

it would take an extra effort for him to do that, i did what i did without the intention of maiming him but it still happened. didn't know he was that much of a wimp anyway, he projects a macho image. it doesn't mean i'm proud of it, i feel horrid

[BS123456]

I merely reversed the table to provide a different perspective. Maybe in your eye's he's what you call a wimp but losing a testicle is a big deal and it takes a lot more than a mild kick to cause this kind of trauma. I had a wife who died once merely by hitting a parked car at 15 MPH, it's not how little the action is but what damage that is caused by the action. Such cannot be justified. For some reason women think very little of castrating a man which you did by 50%. Many women believe all men have it coming and should be castrated just for being a male.

[Asker]

I just nudged him with my knee, I might have used a little more force than I intended because I was very emotional at the time. I don't think that way, just so you know...

[BS123456]

I am so glad to hear this. I agree many males these days are pure pussies but to lose a ball either the doctors overreacted or in this case that nudge was like my wife's accident, the wrong nudge at the wrong time and place.

[ciitruskiwi]

Yes you did assault him but him losing a testicle is just an unfortunate thing that happened. You most likely didn't mean to do that. He was an asshole and he did deserve it. If your intention was to make him lose a testicle then you would be a horrible person but since it wasn't I don't think you are.

[Asker]

yes, i did not mean to do it at all. i just nudged him with my knee, but i may have used more force than intended because i was so emotional. not everyone seems to believe it was not intentional..

[Journeyman11]

Oh, ok. So if a guy kicks a girl in the vagina for being a bitch, and damages her labia and clitoris to the point where it has to be removed, leaving a scarred wasteland down there, but didn't mean to, she deserved it and he is not a bad person, right? Oh no, let me guess. Women can't do anything wrong, and even if she did hurt his feelings just as much: Neither his feelings nor his body are worth as much as a woman's, because he's just a worthless male, right?

[ciitruskiwi]

Correct, he would not be a bad person, it would also be an unfortunate thing that happened as a result of being kicked in the vagina. If it was intentional then he would be a bad person.

[Journeyman11]

And she would deserve it, right? Just like the guy? Women and men who cheat both deserve to be maimed, is that right?

[ciitruskiwi]

Intentionally maiming no it's not right. And besides why are you talking about people who cheat? The asker's question had nothing to do with cheating.

[Journeyman11]

And if a guy intentionally assaulted a woman for cheating on him, with such force that permanent disfigurement was a possible outcome, you are seriously saying that he's not a horrible person? You're lying.

[Journeyman11]

Cheating is just an example. What I mean is if a person badly hurts another emotionally.

[ciitruskiwi]

Again, why are you talking about cheating when the asker's question had nothing to do with it? And no I am not lying, why would I? I personally would not consider them a horrible person if he didn't intentionally permanently disfigure her. You might but everyone has their own opinions.

[ciitruskiwi]

Okay, ignore the first part of my comment then.

[Journeyman11]

I'm still asking you a question. If the guy deserved what he got, would you say that the same is true for a girl, if she did something similar and received a similar injury? Would a man who showed the same intent to hurt, and injured a woman in the same way, be just as forgibable as a woman, who hurt a man?

[Journeyman11]

Doesn't the fact that he assaults her with such force that he even risks disfiguring her a horrible person? And again: Would a woman deserve the partial loss of her genitals too, as, according to you, the man did? And what part of your question did I ignore? I'll gladly answer it, I just don't know what you mean.

[Journeyman11]

*make him a horrible person

[qxqxqxqxqx]

unfortunately that's not how our world works, no matter the reason in the world we're living in right now hitting a girl would be a serious crime, so yeah it's better for you girls to not be violent over small things because guys can't do the same

[Paris13]

Although he Owes you an apology, I would Never Have Kicked him Where it Hurt. Just have Let Joe Know how you Felt with the Blow.
Fighting Fire with Fire, How is this a Desire? Now you Have to Live with the Guilt Trip you're on. xx

[Paris13]

He could actually turn you in for assault (Of your own "Deadly Weapon.") xx

[Asker]

what's "joe know felt blow"? not too sure what that means..

[sugarette]

Serves him right. I won't go as far as saying I'm glad he was permanently injured, but hopefully, that'll make him stop. Words have consequences.

[Asker]

it completely ruined him as a person. that's why i feel so awful for it, he won't even come near me so i cannot apologise to him

[sugarette]

I don't think you can even apologize to him. He wouldn't accept it (which I understand). Like, losing a testicle is awful, but he had it coming. He was demeaning to you and those rumors could've ruined you. Also, he shouldn't do anything sexual with a minor, so I hope he learned his lesson.

[Asker]

They did ruin me, I didn't elaborate it a lot but I was even cutting at one point of time before I got help. I still feel awful about it because I'm reminded everyday seeing him a shell of his former self. He lost a lot of weight, and his personality took a 100% turn. I'm 19 and they're 20, actually.

[sugarette]

Oh, okay. Your age is displayed as below 18, so I assumed wrong. Nevermind what I said then. Although I will say this: he can take this to court if he wants to. And in that case, you'll probably not win. It was still assault. I do think he should've thought about his actions more and I can't stand that behavior, but I hope you realize it's still assault. So the law isn't on your side if we're talking seriously. I'm more neutral than anything now actually. This is a nuanced conversation. Both of you were wrong, in my opinion.

[Asker]

he has a pretty bad track record (he might be involved in some illegal activities, i can't say for sure), i don't think he's too keen on that.. this will teach me to better control my emotions in future, i suppose

[Journeyman11]

Hm, ok. So if a girl spreads a rumor about a guy having a small dick, then says it to his face infront of other people, and he kicks her so hard in the vagina that her labia and clitoris have to be removed, leaving nothing but big, fat, nasty scars down there, she totally deserved it, right?

[daydreammarie]

Get yourself a new councilor (I have no clue how to spell that at the moment) lol. You do need to try and fix things. He called you a slut, you know that isn't true and people in school dont matter. You could have said yeah and made a comment of how bad his dick was. But to do that and take something away from him like that is to far you damaged his life. When school is over people would have forgot heck they probably would have forgotten about it a month or two later and he has to live with that the rest of his life which will effect a lot more than you had gone through. No that isn't standing up for your self. And is quite disgusting that some one would say no dont try and help him etc. Again get yourself a different one. Good luck

[Asker]

How will it affect him? I was told he will still be able to have children with one testicle?

[qxqxqxqxqx]

you're still trying to justify your action, how would you feel if you lose a breast because of a guy who's pissed off of how you treat him and he doesn't get punished afterward, especially if you're priding over your breats, it will not affect you anyways, since you still can feed your baby and you will most likely to have one at a time, but you're missing an organ

[yasii]

I wish I could high five you right now😂👏

[wilco999]

Jesus Christ grow up! If this story is true, not being able to have children for calling someone a slut? Are you for real?

[Asker]

@yasii 🖐️

[Asker]

@wilco999 i'm not proud of it. and i read that men can still have children with one testicle.

[wilco999]

Not proud of it yet high fiving someone? Yeah okay

[yasii]

My compassion is limited at the moment. She didn't know this would happen.

[wilco999]

Kicking a guy hard as you can in the balls is never going to end well, she knew what she was doing

[Asker]

@wilco999 ... i barely grazed him. i think calling it "kicking a guy in the balls as hard as i can" grossly overstating it. i just gave him a nudge in the area with my knee

[wilco999]

Is this honestly a true story? Hand on heart?

[Asker]

@wilco999 what happened to him after was what I was told.

[IlyaTheImpaler]

She permanently crippled him. Losing a part of your body for calling some girl who gives blowjob on first date Slut when you're a kid. And I thought I am evil.

[wilco999]

In that case the fact you are even trying to defend yourself and asking whether you should feel bad speaks volumes about your character. You are really not a nice person

[Asker]

@IlyaTheImpaler he's 20, so i don't think the excuse of immaturity is valid?

[IlyaTheImpaler]

@Anonymous
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[kittycat119]

@wilco999 I agree with you. He's sadly allowed to say whatever he wants it doesn't give someone the right to assualt him and physically harm him. All he did was call her a slut and she cost him a testicle which since she assaulted him should have had her expelled and in juvy

[Journeyman11]

Hm, ok. So if a girl spreads a rumor about a guy having a small dick, then says it to his face infront of other people, and he kicks her so hard in the vagina that her labia and clitoris have to be removed, leaving nothing but big, fat, nasty scars down there, she totally deserved it, right? High five to that guy, right?

[kittycat119]

If this is real hell yeah you should feel bad and be charged with assualt. He can call you all the names he wants. Doesn't give you the right to assault him and honestly you should be expelled and in a juvenile detention center for assulating a classmate

[Cyber_Ghost]

Permanently? Yes, you should feel bad. That hardly deserved permanent damage. Hopefully both you and him learned a lesson and hopefully you two find a way to forgive each other.

[ChronicThinker]

Yeah, physically assaulting someone isn't "bold and empowering," it's assault. You assaulted him. I get that he was getting on your case and causing shit, but there's ways to deal with it without resorting to mindless violence. Now you're no better than he is.

[roody]

What you did was wrong.
I don't care what he said to you, you can't take it out using violence. Violence is never the answer, we learned this as children. What he did was wrong too and I'm sorry that it hurt your feelings. But you should have responded in a more mature way.

[clh72481]

Freedom of speech. Doesn't matter if you dont like it. Just because someone says something you dont like or agree with doesn't mean you can physically hurt someone. You have done permanent damage to, this guy to the point where who knows he he can even have kids now. That can effect him trying to find a wife too because most woman want kids someday with their husband. No one is perfect but you sure did really make a huge mistake. I would feel extremely guilty...

[Asker]

i just nudged him with my knee, but i may have used more force than intended because i was so emotional. not everyone seems to believe it was not intentional. i never considered myself strong, i am very thin, and i did not expect to have been able to do that much damage to him :\ i have many friends who do not want to have children, and i am sure there are many others out in the world like that. i still feel extremely guilty..

[clh72481]

Many people under 18 say they dont want kids. I use to say the same thing and now I have 3.

[Cool_Guy_17]

I'm sure you didn't mean to permanently hurt him, but what you did was not called for. He was using words but you took it to the next level and hurt him physically. There's not much you can do now but I feel sorry for him even if he did act like a dick 😧 hopefully he can still have children! And hopefully you learn from your mistake because many guys might be afraid to date you in the future.

[Lightscameraaction]

They should call you a monster, you just killed his babies.

[Asker]

but he can still have children with one testicle?

[IlyaTheImpaler]

what's the new nickname?

[Asker]

none of the boys to be specific dares call it to me in my face, but I've heard from a friend its about what I did to B.. probably "ball kicker" or something like that

[IlyaTheImpaler]

I feel bad for the guy, him calling you a slut is a matter of personal standards, some would agree with him, some would not, and kids say a lot of foolish things. You crippling him permanently is a universal fact, everyone would agree that he's a cripple. So I think you should just end it for him :DD

[Asker]

he is 20, so I don't really think that excuse is valid.. end it? what are you on about.

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/s025Vxfio4Q

[Asker]

i'm sorry, my speakers broke, what are you saying?

[es20490446e]

"The simple truth: it was bad"

[HamAndCheese]

Uh... well, tit for tat, I guess.

[WeirdoWerdo]

Good job :D Making us dads proud👏

[motownplayer2000]

Do you girl! Do you! You have to stand up for yourself when no one else will!

[kittycat119]

That doesn't constitute assaulting someone

[oldoldold]

Well done

[vsbw14]

I love u just for the work u hv done

[Deukalion]

You could hurt him via word's , you drop your self in he's low level , hurting someone physically is general wrong.
I don't know really how you feel , but generally woman don't care about men health.

[Asker]

I feel terrible for it, especially if the rumour that he lost one is true. And it would kill me if he couldn't have a proper love life because of it, before you call me an evil bitch

[Deukalion]

You can ask if he lost he's testicle via your counselor, and if he is not lost it , you will feel better.

[Anonymous]

*make him a horrible person

[Anonymous]

You must be so proud. Maybe one of these days, you'll call someone else a name and see it as perfectly acceptable to get punched in the face, crushing your orbital socket and permanently disfiguring you.

You sucked his dick on the first date. You didn't even wait to see if you could trust him. That's a slut move. So you got called a slut. You responded with violence and he'll be affected for the rest of his life, so now you're a piece of shit. Congrats.

Your counselor told you not to apologize after resorting to violence and permanently harming another person? I doubt that

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A girl giving a blowjob to a guy is a "slut move" but guys hooking up with strangers isn't? That's comedy gold.

[Opinion Owner]

@sugarette 1. Never said it wasn't. A guy who jumps into bed with anything that'll hold still is no less nasty. 2. Giving a blowjob in itself isn't slutty. Giving a blowjob to a guy you barely know on the first date is. I mean, you can't even chalk that up to uncontrollable desire because apparently she didn't get anything out of it.

[sugarette]

There is no reason for calling someone a slut over that. I would never give a blowjob to a guy on the first date, ever, but he consented to that. It's like having sex with someone then calling them gross or nasty afterwards. I don't get it.

[Opinion Owner]

@sugarette They're both nasty. All this talk about slut-shaming, but everybody fails to realise that if you don't think anything's wrong with what you're doing, you can't be shamed for it. If I was sitting in a room full of men who think its disgusting to eat pussy, and tried to shame me for doing it, I'd just smile and shrug. You couldn't possibly shame me for it, no matter how hard you tried. On the flip side of that coin, if some chick told people I fucked her on the first date (assuming I didn't know her already), I wouldn't be ashamed, either. Why? Because it would be a lie. So shaming comes from within, not from what people say. And to resort to violence over someone telling the truth is bullshit. Its literally criminal. If I were this dude, I'd sue the shit out of her and cripple her or her parents financially.

[Journeyman11]

@sugarette I can't fathom how you can think that calling someone a slut is worse than maiming someone's genitals.