I think my husband is cheating on me through social media. What should I do?

[Tayshia]

Ever since me and my husband have been together I was always suspicious of him because he has three Facebook accounts full of women he doesn't know from different states. I only had access to two of them until lastnight. Lastnight he was playing around with me and looked through my phone so I asked to look through his. I brought up him letting me into the Facebook account I've never seen he fought me tooth and nail and finally gave in. First, I looked in his inbox and seen nothing but extreme flirtatious; sexual conversations with his female friends and many different women he didn't know including t-girls. And I know he likes Ebony porn with t-girls. He claims that most of the messages are not from him and that his account is hacked by someone pretending to be him but the person talks JUST LIKE HIM, knows his age, interests, what he does during the day and his complete background. Recent nude pictures of him have been sent to women but he claims it's someone else sending them trying to pick up women? He says whoever this person is may have access to his old phone that got stolen he had two years before he met me. First, he said he doesn't use the account but then said he uses the account on his phone he has now. He only admitted to some conversations he had with his female friends which were very inappropriate. He told one of his friends, "I know you want me." "Come hop on this****." When I confronted him about he got angry with me and said it meant nothing and that he was just playing around. He says he talks to all his female friends like that. I can't tell if he's being a pathological liar about almost everything or if his account is really being hacked by someone acting like him. I wonder if this is all him. I've caught him previously during one incident while we were dating flirting with women online and on his cell phone. Right now I have no choice but to believe it's him because there's no real way to prove if it's him or not.

[SkyeMind]

His account is not hacked. He's getting angry because you caught him lying. I don't think confronting him any further will have him stop - he will just be more secretive, and you will know less.

IF you think he'll listen, then set down some rules. IF you think you can trust him again, allow the chance if you want to. Keep your integrity, however, and make sure he understands and complies to what relationships of this kind actually is. Unless you both agreed on an open relationship, I'm leaning on him actually cheating on you. What he does is unacceptable to me.

I know love is hard, but if I were you, he'd be gone.

[Paris13]

He shouldn't be Talking or Balking to any Female Friends Online at any Time. This only Leads to problems down a Probable Road Here, dear.
Not much you can Do. He is a Cheat Sheet who Probably will Never Change. There is Definitely More in Store than has Met your Eye about your Guy.
It's your Voice, Your Choice what to Do with a Cad like this One, hun. xxoo

[Goodwifie]

He's cheating on you weather or not he has had sex with any of these women that besides the point. Sending nudes and sex chatting with other women is a massive no no when your in a relationship.
Really who the heck has 3 facebook accounts?

[Welshman2]

Is it restricted to messages or does he actually hook up with them?

If it's restricted to messages only, it could be a fantasy and I wouldn't personally count that as cheating yet. Having said, it may be indicative that he wants to but hasn't had the opportunity.

If however he's at it physically and actually hooking up with these women, then you have a serious problem.

One thing I would say is that the chances of his account being hacked and being used to send lewd messages is very, very slight. Facebook accounts are usually hacked by scammers so messages would be promoting scam sites or pages.

[Tayshia]

As far as I know he doesn't he's always in the house. It seems as though he just video chats with these women and calls them on the phone when I'm not around.

[Welshman2]

Sounds like some sort of fantasy he has going but I would say that if he actually phones them and speaks to them, there is in all likelihood an intention to cheat

[OlderAndWiser]

"I have no choice but to believe it's him because there's no real way to prove if it's him or not." You know that he is flirting and you probably suspect that he has been unfaithful. Is this the way that a husband is supposed to act?

[Tayshia]

No, not a good husband

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you have any children together?

[Tayshia]

Nope we don't

[OlderAndWiser]

Why are you with him?

[Goodwifie]

No children and you're still young. I wouldn't normally say this but get the hell outta this marriage Missy.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Goodwifie That's what I'm thinking!

[Goodwifie]

Most women find out that their man has cheated post childbirth. Once divorced she doesn't have to have anything to do with the bastard. Cut all ties.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Goodwifie Yes, much, much easier to leave now with no complications.

[karennn]

He is obviously cheating on you. No one can "pretend" to hack his profile and "talk like him".

You either address him and find a solution your drop his cheating ass.

[karennn]

**or

[RedRain]

He is lying to you and trying to manipulate you into believing what he wants you to believe.

[Futurelooker]

Legally considered his behaviour is not cheating.

[boggboss]

So u married a man u suspected was cheating and have found out he is pretty much sexting online to the fullest

[Tayshia]

Yes. Even though he's never met a lot of them in person I still take the flirtatious and sexual behavior as cheating.

[boggboss]

If u feel like it's cheating then it is if he knows u don't like it then yeah

[TinaSP]

Make him taste from his own poison

[TaiSTAnef]

He's cheating.

[Steven71]

He is playing you

[ChewyyLucas]

Confront him, and if he still doesn't wake up, it's your right to break off from his grip and get a divorce, but don't worry too much about it because you're ultimately doing yourself a good service by getting away from that cheater!

[LOGESHKUMAR]

He is cheating you