Do you think that having sex in your house is being disrespectful?

[Anonymous]

Towards your own parents and towards your own house? or do you prefer doing it somewhere else like a hotel room or other place as long is not in your own house. Less awkwardness and more comfortable doing it away from your own house.

I Heard the most ridiculous opinión about it from a 16yrd old guy. I did not ask thisi teeanger to give an opinion he did it on his own in a conversation I was having with some adults at some get together yesterday. This guy said this and I quote his words "your gonna spend thousands on hotel rooms banging guys instead on using your own house. Your mother knows what sex is... pretty sure she's had some" Teenagers will bang in a house with their parents in the next room, but you're middle aged and need a house to yourself? Looks like you really need that hotel room... you're frustrated.
all I can tell you is there are millions of people your age and mine that have sex without hotel rooms.
Your mom probably thinks there's something wrong with you; she failed as a parent, because you never bring guys home. But you're right... and lame" unquoted.

This teenager said this because in this conversation I gave an opinión to a person saying that for respect to my mom and the house I will never have sex in the house and I will feel awkward too. doing it there so I rather go to a hotel room or somewhere else, more comfortable I believe. After my answer is what this 16yrd old teenager had to gave his.

[JustCallMeLeon]

A house its an object. It has no brain. So if someone feels he's being disrespectful towards an object is weird. Away with that. No towards people. Different story. I've had sex with parents, sister, grandparents, whatever next door. No issue. Just keep the volume down a bit. They 100% know exactly what you're doing and its perfectly natural. Unless you hear any complains then no issue at all.

[Asker]

But if my parents or one parent is present I will never do it at all. I won't feel comfortable at all

[Asker]

But for me even if it is not disrespectful to the house which is an object for the people inside yes it is

[JustCallMeLeon]

Hint: Free your mind

[Asker]

No sorry my house is sacred and so does my parents and people inside it. That is why there are hotel and motels, less worry and more comfortable

[JustCallMeLeon]

Thats the difference. You think you're doing something bad while its the other way around. Everyone else is doing something wrong by making you feel this way.

[Asker]

Sex is somethign private and personal why do I need everyone to know im having sex, that is my thing not other people issues and doing it at my house that is not big anyway and my mom inside the house and me closing the door to do that. Yikes that is irresponsible iM responsibel enough to do it other place and not inside my own house with people on it regardless if it is my parents my brother etc etc. Not even my brother ever ever had used the house to do that.,

[JustCallMeLeon]

Whatever. Do what you want. You are not listening anyways. Your house your rules. You are the one driving across town like a teen to get some.

[Asker]

I respect and am considreate of the people inside the house. Being responsable is doing this.. Go somewhere else period.

[drafted]

You can't listen to a kid - they'll have sex anywhere their hormones are in overdrive. I think back on it and can't believe the disrespect kids will show. My high school girlfriend would suck me off in the living room with her mother in the kitchen. But we also were all over the local hotels.

[Asker]

I guess that was an opinión of an actual teenager in this era

[Mikey_Ramone]

That really reminds me of a porn channel named "FamilyStrokes" lol

[drafted]

Lol. I sure took it for granted.

[Mikey_Ramone]

Haha

[Hurlyburly]

I couldn't ever do it inside of a hotel room because I feel like the walls were just paperthin there and I wouldn't want anyone to hear us. Our flat on the other hand has a pretty good noise isolation so that's not an issue.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

It's not my house. It's my parents' house. I love them. I just won't think about it and make sure I don't show any disrespect whatsoever.

[Asker]

But you are living on the house is your house as well

[DeeDeeDeVour]

As their child in my pre-legal-adult years, it never occurred to me to show any disrespect to my folks and the home they worked hard to provide. When I turned 21, I simply did my hanky-panky elsewhere without needing to answer to anyone but myself. As an adult already, I came back home with a boyfriend to the house I grew up in. They welcomed my boyfriend and allowed him to sleep over in the guest room. If I/we craved for each other, we went to a nearby decent lodging facility and rented a room. I'm sure my parents always knew what we did. We're all grown ups already. No big deal.

[Asker]

More or less is what I meant doing the hanky panky somewhere else not in the house like u said. In my case my parents never knew anythign about me because I never had sex at all.

[ScaryCool]

I mean yes I see your point if you live with parents that you don't want to be caught but at the same time, some people have thick walls and parents who don't really check up on them once they're 18. Plus if they go shopping or something. I wouldn't say it's rude, it's not like you're thinking "Lets have sex in my room to spite my parents!"

[fauchelevent]

I don't think it's disrespectful, no.

[Matt27277266]

What if your a loud moans

[fauchelevent]

@Matt27277266 Then control yourself. Having sex in the house isn't disrespectful but you should be discreet and considerate about it.

[Matt27277266]

Are you loud normally

[Asker]

That is the term I was looking for "considérate" but for me is a ltitle disrespectful still

[Matt27277266]

I do forplay but sex I always think they can hear

[fauchelevent]

Meh, I personally wouldn't feel disrespected if my child were to have sex in my home. I don't want to hear it and I don't want to see it but I'm not going to be upset at it happening.

[BornFree]

It is not, it is just sex lol

[Mikey_Ramone]

There's nothing to be disrespectful to have sex inside my house. If I ever engaged into one like that.

[DiegoO]

In my parents house.

[ThePetSquirrel]

I wouldn't think so, as long as it's in your own bed. If you're fucking on their bed or something like that, then that can be perceived as disrespectful.

[Asker]

sex is something private and personal and why i need other people to know im having sex even in my own house or in my own bed with people inside the house

[ThePetSquirrel]

They don't have to know. Wait till they're occupied with something else so they won't come knocking on your bedroom door or overhear you.

[Asker]

still i will never do it I was not raised that way I still hae my values and im a responsable woman anyway, not acting like a teenagers or a kid anyway.

[DamnMan]

No. I do not. Teens have to get it on somewhere. Also, people have not changed. If people today are fucking at home, they were doing it thousands of years ago. Don't let the past be romanticized.

[monkeynutts]

My girlfriends uncle once said we go at it like rabbits, so no if she gets me excited I will probably have a go anywhere.

[Mikey_Ramone]

hahaha that's the spirit! Keep it up but don't be addicted then, good luck mate!

[afuk85]

No I don't think it is. I think a lot of teenages will as they don't have a lot of money. Personally I would prefer a hotel room as you're not worrying about being quiet or anyone walking in

[Steve37]

It's not weird at all to have sex in my house. Its kinda weird to feel the need to leave my house to have sex.

[awanti95]

Nope.

[Outside_LookingIn]

How can it be disrespectful if it's your house?
Not sure I understand what you're asking.

[Outside_LookingIn]

I still don't understand your logic with your update. If you pay for a portion or all of the house, you have a right to do what you want in it. I'm not saying disregard the other people there, but you have every right to have someone over and not feel guilty about it or have to answer to anyone

[Asker]

With people on it? no sorry i won't do it. Sex is a private and persona thing why everyone has to know im havin gsex eww

[Outside_LookingIn]

LOL, no not in full view or the same room. Yes, it is a private thing; I'm sure you can close a door. No different than being in a hotel. People could... could walk by the room all the time and hear you. The point, as I think you said, is the hotel will cost you or him or both a lot of money. But you pay a lot of money for your house, right? Why spend more to not really achieve anything you don't already have?

[Asker]

Is just one nite at the hotel. Geez I will never be comfortable to do it in my house if it is is in the guys house that wotn be a problem beause the guy has an apartment. I dont live on my own anyway.

[Outside_LookingIn]

Oh... ok. That's cool. The apartment sounds like a great option.

[Asker]

only if he watns to do it in his apartment other wise we both get a hotel room

[Outside_LookingIn]

I think he would be ok with it; it's if you would be ok with it. This is called "home field advantage" He's completely comfortable where you might not be. Might... not for sure that you won't be. I think it's a better option

[mscott38]

No it is your house

[Asker]

with people on it? no sorry is disrespectful get a room somewhere else,. Sex is a private and personal thing why I need everyone to know im having sex.

[mscott38]

Quuetly?

[BOUNTYGUY9]

nope

[eagle1951]

no way

[hammondj500]

Hello gorgeous woman

[Asker]

thanks

[Anonymous]

Well, I did it with my wife (then gf) in her parent's house as we were living there for a few months. It was weird but we just wanted it and after a few times, we just get used to it. We try to keep it down always.

[Anonymous]

I only did it in my parents house when they were not home.

[Anonymous]

Both people have points. I don’t think teens should have sex when everyone is home, because it’s kind of awkward for everyone there. I had lots of car sex and would only do it in my house if nobody wise was there, personally.