I lean towards "bad idea," because it can lead to jealousy. Jealous of his interest in her, or her spending time around you just to be around him.
But that doesn't mean other situations aren't possible.
You could tell her she can be with him, as long as you can watch. Warn her that you might be masturbating too.
Then you can watch them fuck and get yourself off to it.
Of, if she knows you're bi, you could bluntly tell her: you would love a chance to get her in bed, and a threesome sounds like a fun time.
With something like this, I know spontinaity seems sexy, and thinking and talking and preparing seems to take some fun out, but... I think you should talk to him about it, privately. Talk to her, privately.
If you're sure you can trust them both, and that jealousy won't be a thing, and it is something you will all enjoy?
Go for it.
But preparing and talking and figuring out if there will or won't be rules, while it seems pretty unsexy, could prevent a lot of problems in the future.
And if it all works out, her being in bed with both of you could be a regular thing, if you like that idea. Or you three could set up something where you can all fuck each other, no jealousy, after a threesome or two has happened and you're all pretty comfortable with it.
I was in an interracial Friends With Benefits situation in Atlanta Ga. On one visit, two of "high end" her friends were there. She introduced me to them and they left after dinner. She was evidentally free with them on the details of our sexuality. Although we sometimes had intercourse, she had a particular liking for oral because it was the only way she could reach orgasm and was nearly non-existent in her urban culture. Naturally, she reciprocated. The first time I went south, she had an explosive orgasm, laughed and called me a Dirty White Boy, which was compliment to my "special skill" Since we were "FWB", she did not have or want a lock on me. Not long after I met her friends, one of them called me on my cell and asked me out. She could only have gotten my number from my FB, so I had a green light. We had a pleasant enough time out (she even offered to pay) and during talk, she alluded directly to my special skill, which I subsequently provided. There's no doubt my FB knew by her demeanor and nuances the next time I was with her. I was subsequently with both until I relocated a year later. For the second, I was sort of a booty call in reverse. It was fun while it lasted.
I say think about it for at least 4 months. It's very easy since humans are emotional creatures to get caught up in the moment and get excited and then it happens and you deeply regret it. My friend a long time ago thought my boyfriend was hot and I showed her pics of his abs but not of his man bits lol But basically like your scenerio. We were kind of joking too. But she wasn't able to do it soon. At the same time I was like wth am I thinking lol But anyway, nothing ever happened. My boyfriend seemed awkward about it like he thought I was dumb or if it was a test. Well that friend of mine is now married with kids and we are still best friends. You know how awkward it is! When my boyfriend and her husband talk. Like does my boyfriend think " your wife wanted to have a threesum with me and my girl" lol I doubt it because my boyfriend isn't like that. But maybe he has for a second? Can you imagine if we actually did have a threesum lol
Not wrong at all. I shared a boyfriend with my bestie several times. She told me he was the sexiest man she'd seen, and she would love to watch us get busy. My boyfriend was into it and so she sat in a chair watching us and playing with herself. She couldn't get over how hot it was to watch, so I asked if she wanted to join.
thats hot.. more details please
I will DM you
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Maybe it's because I just watched an episode of Divorce Court where the wife invited another female in for a threesome in order to save the marriage why I think it's bad idea😂😂. I think you know how it ends.. the man left the wife for the other women. HOWEVER, most of these court episodes are fake, so I don't think this is what occurs in real life. You guys also aren't married and your relationship isn't in rocky waters.. so, do what you feel is best.
Okay, but is he down with it too? And what happens in the future if feels develop in ways that might not involve one of you? If you're left the odd woman out, are you gonna walk away gracefully or tear sht up? Or if you and her go the next step without him, how would he end up handling that scenario?
I'm not against it, I'm just bringing up points you need to discuss openly amongst yourselves.
Sometimes things like that work out just fine for couples but I think there are a lot of ways that can go wrong, it's up to you but id say make sure everyone is on the same page, communicate a lot with each other before doing amything
It's like a Dog with a Bone. He will Kill anyone who tries to Snatch it!
Just How do you Refer to "Man's Best friend," And I don't Mean your Bestie.
Just What do you Consider your Man as? As some Milk Bone? ! He might Decide to Put You... ASIDE. xxoo
Or bury you in the garden haha xx
I've done ffm with a female friend and my boyfriend before it's fun.
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Seriously? You don't feel jelouse? If I see my man in this position I will loss my mind.
As long as she fully understands that it is a one time thing and that he's still yours when the fun is done... Is respectful of you guys' relationship and would not be trying to pursue anything behind your back after, by all means have as much fun as you like. But you must all agree on the terms before any dates are set. Good luck!
I would babe. YOLO
If you care about him, you won't want to do this. I would leave a woman if she could actually share me. It would tell me that she was nowhere near as in to me as I am her. It would be over.
If you like it, do it.
Probably a bad idea. Sometimes fantasy is best kept to fantasy.
Whatever everyone involved is ok with sounds good to me. Im pretty sure your man would be down.
I share my fwb's oral skills with all women myself, it works out well. Lmao. Has led me to some bi fun times.
Not wrong, but it may cause big problems if you do it for real.
i would say go for a threesome but you need to all talk about it first and discuss any reservations you may have else it can all go wrong very quickly
Did you have your boyfriend's permission to send a pic of his penis to your friend? If you didn't, then that's really wrong.
I can't even believe I didn't think about that. Not that you mention it, that was pretty wrong of her to do.
There's nothing wrong with having a little no strings attached threesome fun
It's not good, it's not bad.
Can be an experience where all three of you have the perfect match (sexually spoken) but it can be an experience where jealousy starts to look around the corner also.
Just do a casual threesome on the weekends if all of you are into it, I clicked the B option but I vote fore a threesome
stupid horny kids lol this is why successful cultures make em wait till they're older to get involved in shit THEY CLEARLY AIN'T MATURE NUFF TO BE INVOLVED IN!!! No, sharing your romantic partner is never healthy, seek therapy
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