Have you ever developed feelings for another guy while in a relationship?

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  • As matter of fact dear Hapinus I have never encountered such situation previously in my life if we are talking about real romantic deep feelings.

    On the other hand, as humans, we do have a lustful basic instinct which could drive us to be "sexually" only attracted to somebody else while in a relationship, but the decision we make and how we process the thought and lustful feeling when we get it is what defines how truthful, faithful and loyal we are towards our partner.

    You do have people in open relationships who agree on having a sexual relationship with other people but they are still romantically too much in love with only one person.

    Talking for myself, I have never been able to love more than one person, romantically and sexually dear Hapinus.

    Thank you for asking that interesting question, as usual, my pleasure was to share an honest opinion 😊

    My pleasure as well to share my opinion on the other question.

    What are your own thoughts about this question you have asked desr Hapinus? 😎

    • I’m in the situation arm

    • Oh. That must be confusing you dear. Sorry for typo I am on my phone and I don't use those grammar correction apps! What is exactly happening with you if I may ask? If you also want to PM regarding the subject, it will be my pleasure as well dear, you know you need no permission 😊 Are you having romantic or sexual feelings towards another guy?

    • Thank you for MHO dear 😊

  • Yep, it happens. Especially if you deal in close quarters with someone, like at work or what have you, that you genuinely have a good emotional or mental connection with. It's only natural to be attracted to others. It's not like once you find someone they are only going to be the right one for you. To me, that's why you have to work on keeping that connection and strength in the relationship so that your SO won't want to look elsewhere. Be it sexually, spiritually, financially, of the same focus on the future of the relationship. You can't take for granted that your mate won't ever be attracted to others, just because they love you or say they do. We are HUMAN beings. With 7 billion of us in the world, you really think 1 is the only one we are attracted to at any given time? Don't be ignorant...

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  • I still checkout other guys, and he did the same, but with girls. But we talked and laughed about it because it's normal.

  • Sexual? Yes. Emotional? No... unless celebs count lol

    • Hi my name is Brad Pitt who is this beautiful girl i am talking to?

    • @vald9inches lmao STFU

    • @Kandy-Kane Hahaha shhhhh Kandy dont blow my cover and ruin my game!!

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  • I don't believe so, no. At least I don't remember an instance like that. There have been other girls I thought were sexually attractive but I don't think I've ever developed feelings for another girl. Typically, I'm not someone who develops such feelings very easily. I would have to spend some time with that other girl and unless she was a friend and things were very clear between us (platonic friendship only), I wouldn't do things like going to her place or going on dates etc. At least not without my S. O.'s explicit permission.

  • No. Would mean that the guy I am with is not the right one for me and I should have ended it with him first. Got more style and treat people better.

  • Never, when I'm in a relationship I can't look at other guys the same.. they completely turn me off, I guess I'm just really loyal and picky as well.

    • Even if it was Brad Pitt? O_O

    • Nope

    • Brad Pitt is old and hits his kids anyway, ick!

  • Yes.
    \Married a Muslim from Egypt. Came back to the States and Had a relationship with a Coptic Christian from Alexandria Egypt. xx

  • I've developed feelings for guys but never been in a relationship...

  • Nuh uh nope never lol.

  • I'm gonna take the 5th amendment on this one.

  • I guess I'm a bit old fashioned in that I devoted myself completely to one person when I was in a relationship. That doesn't mean I had tunnel vision, but even if I found another girl attractive I'd never let myself develop strong enough feelings to betray the trust and promises I made with my SO.

    Too bad this isn't a desirable trait anymore.

  • No, I do check them out, but mentally, I don't go there.

  • Yes, I have.

    • I thought these questions were hypothetical when I answered them, but my answers still stand.

  • The third wheel that was his ex's current boyfriend.. :)
    His brother.. a collegue.. basically everyone but him?

    • He didn't try very hard

    • That sounds aweful

    • And I'm more of a free spirit ya know, breadth not depth.

  • I am not in a relationship yet. But I can say that it is easy to have your mind wander. I would think girls might have this to some extend too. You wonder. What if? What if I dated that girl? What if I dated that boy? How would my life be different? Did I make the right choice? The sake of the person that you are with, those questions will come up but you have to choose to be faithful to the one you have chosen to be with, or at least that's how I see things

  • @Hapinus I don't know if I shud answer as my opinions are being removed from your questions. :(

    • Umm not sure why know

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  • I've never been in a relationship.

  • what are relationships

    • I don’t know

  • Yeah.. Never been in a relationship.. Single and Happy

    • Suck up your freedom, bae. xx

    • @Paris13 why so?

  • Nope... Not ever...

    • Is that actually a video if you?

    • Lmao!!! That’s so coooool

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