How to tell if a guy has a "daddy kink"?

[Anonymous]

I kind of started getting a daddy kink from a guy I was seeing before my current boyfriend I found it weird he wanted me to call him Daddy at first but I found out I really like it I've hid it from my current boyfriend for several years recently he's been calling himself daddy a lot like when i was upset the one day he was like "sit on daddy's lap" I started calling him Daddy to and he never said anything about it I bought him a drink on father's day and told him happy daddy's day just joking around our friend turned around looked at us super confused and he was like "like you know like a sexual daddy" so I feel like he might have one but a couple days before I asked him "what do you think about being called Daddy" and he told me he thought it was weird but he'd rather be called that than most other pet names so I thought maybe he didn't I can't tell and I'm afraid to ask or tell him I have one since we've been together for a while, is there any way to tell?

[Mr___A]

Your question seems to be confused...

If you want a DDLG relationship, then call him this way, and you'll see how je react.
My experience is : don't avoid BDSM if you need it.
Then you'll have to talk about it in order to check you're on the same Idea about it.

If it's just a play, calling him daddy, then i would say the same. Call him daddy when it Comes. But you may be aware to check that he don't expect some DDLG relationship... If you don't want to confuse or upset him.

Enjoy the way you like 😉

[dropkicknj13]

Generally my advice would be to try it out and see how he reacts. Next time your having sex just slip in an "oh yes daddy". If he doesn't stop or say don't do that it's weird, just start adding in more little by little

[happyfox]

Are you interested in DDLG or just calling him daddy?

[scottalanmiller]

Is he a guy? He has a daddy kink. It's an easy test ;)

[ChrisMaster69]

Really it’s best to sit down and have a really open conversation about what each of you like.
go through yourself and work out what excites you, why it does and how you boyfriend does it.

then list list them out.

he then does the same.

it’s often surprising how many have the same or very similar kinks.

golden rule with this is, you should be the one ‘looking’ for a Daddy, it gets iffy the other way around.

talking through a frank open discussion really works.

oh and decide if outfits or not.

role play improves it.

[LawShark]

I'm my girls daddy... In the way that she's always borrowing my car and money

[Neverbloom]

If you call a guy daddy and he likes it he will make it known through some emoji or saying "ooo baby" some shit like that. I think most guys like it though.

[aracelyherrnadez]

just ask him

[TheRealQuestion]

While i agree with your advice, I dont think this question was intended for minors.

[Wise4myage]

Have you ever asked him if he's into daddy/daughter role playing? I suggest you mention it to him.

[vald9inches]

Come to daddy! ;)

[Philyouup]

start having open and honest communications, let the convo go where it may.. Communications are the best sex toy ever..

[Daddyfox]

There is an online checklist for couples to check all things sexual they are into or interested in. Once both fill theirs out they get a list of only things they are mutually into

[BOUNTYGUY9]

very daft

[mikeoxbig4u]

I like it... but i am older

[ChickenFingers]

Ask him.

[SophiaBeggar]

It's easy to find out if a guy is turned on by something. Just talk to him about while you're holding his ding dong and see how it reacts lol

[Anonymous]

Well if you said it to me my responce would be more like:

'Oooooh god x

You are such a good little girl x'

and I would be signing off your birthday card:

'All my love,

Daddy x'