I want to get into the daddy kink, but i’m not entirely sure how to say it durng sex?

let me start by saying that i don’t have daddy issues. that’s all there is to it. Anyway, i’m not opposed to the daddy kink, but i don’t want to get into the DDLG part of it. I call this guy daddy, we haven’t had sex yet, and he calls me baby. he wants me to call him daddy during sex (duh) but i’m really not sure... how? Especially difficult because the only way i’m vocal during sex is with moans and occasional “fuck” and “shit”’s. So say we’re going at it, i assume “just like that daddy” would be a good one, but what else? i hope this makes sense, ugh. Guys: how would you want a girl to call you daddy in bed? Girls: how do you use ‘daddy?’
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  • Talk to your SO about this in a non-sexual situation. Talk about many details about what you like, if you know what you like.

    Some guys want the girl to be curious and come on to them. Other guys want to make the first move and have the girl pretend she has always been thinking about her daddy in "that way".

    Other girls want to be a brat and have the "daddy" punish them by starting with spanking with clothes on, then spanking a bit with clothes off. Spanking can be gentle and used to build up sexual tension, or it can be used to cause pain. It depends on what the receiver is in to.

    This is why you need to have a detailed talk with your SO. If you don't know exactly what to try, start with something "light", i. e. no forcing, no spanking, just an attitude of "daddy I'm curious, what does a man feel like?"

  • Maybe try calling him master it might help.
    I have had it both ways but I prefer master. Sometimes daddy is just creepy and does not feel right.

    Use it as his name. Tell her where you want and how you want it. Faster deeper over there kiss me...

    • he’s definitely into the daddy thing, which he just figured out since i was the first one who called him it unintentionally. i was also thinking “harder daddy” and whatnot

    • Yup all good since he likes it go wild with it.

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  • Daddy / little girl dynamic is not something that you learn to like. It's something that you inherently feel. If you are not naturally submissive than you will never feel comfortable saying it.

    My boyfriend is twice my age and we do bdsm. So 'daddy' comes naturally to me. I think if the man is older it feels more organic. For me it would be weird calling a man daddy who is in the same age bracket as me.

  • I love calling my man "big daddy", "big d*ck daddy", "oh daddy I been a bad girl f*ck me harder, yeah that's right punish this p*ssy big daddy*!

    • thanks for mho :)

    • Can I pm you?

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  • I am not into it. Either you ask him or you try it with "Fuck me, daddy" or something similar.

    • thank you!

    • You are welcome!

  • I think it’s best to say it when he’s about to cum or after he already has. If he’s about to, you could say, “please cover my tits with your cum daddy. I’ve been a really good girl for you, I deserve it. Don’t you wanna cum on me, Daddy?”

    orrrr if he’s already came you could smile up at him innocently and, “say thank you daddy.” when I do that I like to swirl the cum around on my tits a little bit or suck on my fingers so he knows how much I really love it.
    one is for begging, one is a bit sweeter. it’s whatever you guys are into really!

    I naturally say it when we’re doing an action. Like if he’s unzipping his trousers, pulling my panties off, if I’m about to take his cock in my mouth, stuff like that. I’m really verbal so it’s probably a bit easier for me haha.

    If you’re less verbal you could always say “fuck, daddy”. It’s a word that pairs nicely with any expletives you already say. I hope that helped!

  • Call your man "Daddy" playfully and if he reacts positively then keep doing it. If he doesn't then don't do it again. This works best if there is at least a 10 year age difference. If there isn't then he may feel you think he is old.

  • Just say what you'd normally say, but with the word daddy... "Fuck, daddy!", "Oh daddy!", "Yes daddy!" etc..

    "Fuck me daddy" and "Harder daddy" are always good.

  • Say whatever you usually say, like, "You make me so wet," "Your dick feels so good," etc. Except add the word "daddy" to the end of each statement.

    • i get nervous bout being vocal during sex so all i usually really do is moan nd say fuck or shit every now and then; i want to start getting more comfortable and vocal. i suppose if i’m enough into the moment, it’ll just slip out. thank you!

    • we kind of have ann agreement that it’ll just be a thing where only the two of us know so i was thinking of starting the whole thing by saying something about “daddy’s little secret” because that’s what we’ve referred to it as over text

    • There's no need to be nervous. If a guy is comfortable enough to be naked around you, he'll get aroused by you being vocal. Most guys are.

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  • I don't want girls calling me daddy in bed. To me it's just creepy.

  • Say yes daddy fuck me daddy moan out daddy stuff like that

  • Just be like " oh yes daddy" , "please fuck me harder daddy" , "your cock feels so good inside me daddy"

    • Good girl! You must be really great at this. Do you have more words?

  • i call older men daddy when having sex they love it

  • Use the word daddy in your moans or other sentenced

    • makes sense. i think i’m wayyyy overthinking it

    • I think you might be.. just go for it!

    • @asker he will like it for sure if u only try it go for it

  • Gross

  • You should say what you feel 👌

  • I can help...

  • the main thing I've found out to be the real edge is when you're about to have an orgasm if you tell him "I'm about cum daddy" or when he's about to "cum for me daddy"

    • That sounds amazing!:)