My boyfriend asked me if I masterbate? I don't know what to say, and more importantly what will his reaction be?

[Anonymous]

so I need guys and girls input pleasseee. so my boyfriend told me that he jerks off and well I guess it would b kind of weird if he didn’t so I found it normal and (don’t call me totally weird sorry) but a tiny bit of a turn on, js bc no guy had ever openly said that to me before. it has come up twice if I have fingered myself, I don't know if he thinks that’s the only way girls masterbate but whatever. I have masterbated before, but like I haven’t ever fingered myself cuz like that js seems odd to me tbh. so I don't know what to tell him... if I say I don’t, is it a turn off? or like a bit of a turn on bc it seems innocent (he kind likes innocence). or I can js tell him like flat out what I do and what I don’t, would that seem slutty? or b a turn on kind of thing? I don't know what to do about any of it. and well once I say I have there is rlly no going back, where if I say I haven’t rlly I can always say later that I have. Please help and js give ur opinion, girls and guys!!

[jmorrow]

Just tell him what you actually do. He may have only given that specific example because he doesn't think you'd use anything else. But I've never known a man to be turned off by any way a woman masturbates. It's a healthy thing and always a good thing to add to a sexual relationship.

[ShortCircuit]

Just be honest. If what you're doing is slutty, every girl over the age of ~16 is a slut. I get being into the "innocence" thing, I really do, but I doubt he would care, and if he does, he's just taking it too far and you probably shouldn't be with him anyway.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

It’s spelled “masturbate” and it’s a normal thing that everyone does. I’d experiment at your own pace.

[Asker]

lol thx😂I felt like I was spelling I wrong but I wasn’t sure what was right

[close2heaven]

it's ok to tell him. he can't tell you it's wrong.

[Roooni]

All this is to lead to sexting.. that's his main goal.. then it will lead to the real action.
As for what you said whatever you say will be a turn on for a guy.

[LeFrogDog]

It's an open question, just be honest. I believes that he is getting a feel for what gets you going.

[slatyb]

Just be honest about what you do. It's nice that he's able to be so open with you. There's no wrong way to masturbate, whatever you are doing is fine.

[reptocarl]

Tell the truth

[Bluedream13]

When in doubt return to traditional values, they have endured and produced us a great society where as our current values are destroying it.

I would just stop going in that direction entirely for now, I don't know how young you are but it's better to wait, especially for girls.

[OliverdelaRosa]

Just tell him the truth, it doesn't matter. He just wants to know you better.

[vald9inches]

Its a huge turn on to know if you do masterbate

[vald9inches]

He will like it a lot of you told him that you masterbate

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Just be honest

[Surely]

Keep it mysterious, Say maybe I do and maybe I don't. How do you think I might do it? You'll have him hotter than a firecracker!

[TheGrandWizzzard]

It would deafinatly be a turn on for him if you told the truth, but don't tell him if you're not comfortable with telling him

[Anon_af]

I think your boyfriend will be relieved and possibly turned on that you do masturbate...

[Nachowedgie]

Just tell him

[kareka]

Tell him. i didn't fingered yest i am waiting you to do it

[Anonymous]

Say the truth.

[Anonymous]

He's not going to care.