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Do incels deserve to be loved?

I have some incel friends and to be honest i didn't know there are people like that, out there... Do they still deserve being loved?
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No, it's not only this... not anyone who can't get into a relationship is an incel. They also HATE women because they "owe" them sex and don't give it to then. Many times people describe an incel as an ugly one, but personally i think anyone can be an incel if he has this misogynistic mindset (and not only)
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  • In a certain sense I would say that no one deserves love in the sense that it is owed to no one. I don't have some sort of right for people to love me. However, I think as humans we have an obligation to love each other. That would include incels. Keep in mind, loving a person doesn't always mean affirming their life style. I can never tell someone addicted to drugs that I support their addiction and I believe my refusing to support them in that is loving. Thus even a refusal to tolerate horrible, scumbag behavior is a form of love. Wanting people to be better and pushing them to be better is loving. So yes I think we ought to love everyone, even incels, and sometimes that means refusing to tolerate aspects of their life or behavior. People have put tolerance on a pedestal. Not to say it's a bad thing to tolerate... but there are times when it is wholly inappropriate and is brutally unloving. To tolerate evil, to tolerate wickedness, to tolerate murder, injustice, villainy... that in and of itself is hatred.

  • NO. This is that bullshit entitlement attitude this generation is all about. Love and a relationship isn't a right. It's a privilege that must be earned! People deserve and have a right to be treated with respect and fairly. This doesn't mean you are automatically entitled to date someone.

    • You take it kinda too far and i didn't mean exactly like that, but okay...

    • Well what are you getting at?

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  • Nope. They lost thier chance. They wanna spew hate and take out thier anger on others especially on women. "Women are stupid bitches who only want money and chads those worthless whore dont want a nice guy like me" see the problem?

    • Lmao this is absolutely what my friend says😂😂😂 I'm done😂

    • SO EXPECTED AND TYPICAL THAT MOST OF THE downvotes are from men argh men should stop being sex obsessed no one owes pussy shesh

    • Love how all the downvotes are from butthurt incels

  • Everyone deserves love. But you have to love yourself enough to be able to receive others' love. People who accuse others for what they haven't instead of trying to find what they are doing wrong are never going to be satisfied.

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  • Not unless they get their minds right and take the time to actually get to know their potential partners. Nobody "deserves" anything but a lot of incels have some really repellant, toxic attitudes towards the female gender in general.

  • You deserve to be loved if you make yourself worthy of love. That includes not letting your attitude go to shit in the face of failure. When you become bitter you become unlovable.

    • no one is born with the right to deserve anything what we do in our lifetime determine what we deserve or not

    • @JellyDonutguy96 Which is exactly what I said, about making yourself worthy of love. That is doing something to earn love.

    • I know I just put my own spin on it

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  • Not all involuntary celibates are bad people, although most who unironically call themselves "incels" are. Basically, if you're angry you're a virgin and try to blame women for it, you're an asshole who doesn't deserve love.

  • No. Why should they deserve love? These guys have the mindset that if they can't get love or sex, then nobody else deserves those things, especially women. So why should they be deserving of something they don't know how to give back?

  • No one who hates the other gender deserves to be loved from individuals from this gender.

  • Incels are idiots life does owe them shit they should be thankful to be alive. If they want woman and sex they need to get their shit together and work on their issues whatever they might be. That’s much better than raging and being angry at woman for not wanting to deal with their baggage.

  • There is actually now a dating site for this. I did a MyTake on it, feel free to read:

    Date An InCel - Will this save lives? ↗

  • Sure, but there's often something they are doing that makes them unattractive. On top of that, acting entitled and like all women are victimizing them is super not hot.

    • i once saw a meme from an incel bragging about his 415 IQ. he then saws we should bow down to him for his superior genetics. if he has a 415 IQ why dosn't he go out and find the cure for cancer , solve political divides , discover a new species or go to mars. He is wasting his life instead of obessing over getting laid.

  • Only if they don’t call themselves fucking “incels” like a bunch of butthurt pussies looking for a way to victimize themselves as if they’re owed sex. Seriously, these new age asshole kids using these terms haven’t been through fuck all but not getting pussy is the end of the world.

  • Everyone deserves love. Just not sex.

  • If you think women are there just to satisfy your needs then nope.

  • Nobody DESERVES love, or anything for that matter.
    The question should be whether they deserve being denied love BECAUSE they are incels.

    The answer to that question is "No, absolutely not".

    There ARE toxic incels out there, but most of them are unlucky young men who are unsuccessful in their loved live, in a world where your worth is measured by exactly that. Do these unfortunate men deserve to be denied love and affection just because they were lucky until now?

    Ultimately every incel has to either accept his fate, or try to make a move, and become at least moderately successful in dating. As a woman, you are right to think that they are not worth their time if they give up on themselves in the first place. But if they are trying, you shouldn't deny them a chance because they (rightfully) called themselves incels.

    • Regarding the update: " No, it's not only this... not anyone who can't get into a relationship is an incel. They also HATE women because they "owe" them sex and don't give it to then. Many times people describe an incel as an ugly one, but personally i think anyone can be an incel if he has this misogynistic mindset (and not only)" Don't invent your own definitions for people. "Incels [...] define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom." Nothing dictates they have to do or feel anything you described. If you want to shit on shitty human beings, go ahead. But being an incel doesn't imply you are that. And the fact that you call some people your friends, and you are willing toto backstab them and hate on them in online forums like this, anonymously, says a lot about you.

    • Incels are a mental health crisis

    • @JellyDonutguy96 so not getting laid is a mental health crisis? Not a cultural crisis? We always blame the individual, even when the phenomenon is intercultural?

  • 😂😂 i liked the option i love you, hilarious.

  • Their unhappy lot may well be a result of a lack of love in their upbringing.

  • Everyone was born an incel lol. Nobody deserves anything period. Everything is worked for in my eyes.

    • With respect you're missing the big picture. A sexual relationship isn't something you get through hard work and paying taxes. You have to have sexual chemistry with another person.

    • especially the special eds

  • If they're your age they're too young to be incels.

    • Not really (Yes they are at my age)

    • Yes they are, real incels are 21+

    • But why?

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  • No one deserves love.
    So ya they deserve it just as much as everyone else.

    • Doesn't matter. Even if they are the most loving caring gentleman to every lady and man they see. And are like completely perfect to everyone. They still don't deserve love. No one is making them give it away. And no one is gonna make any girl give it back to him. They can if they want. But still. No one owes anyone any love. Period.

  • Lel no

  • Love is earned.

  • No one "deserves" love. Love is earned, unless you are a mother/father to a child, in which case, that baby deserves your love until he/she grows up into a functioning human being that's capable of losing its innocence.

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