Have you ever blindfolded or handcuffed your partner?

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Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

Blindfolding or handcuffing your partner for sexual pleasure is making him or her submissive, and enjoy dominancy in all sexual acts to fulfill your fantasy. There were cases, when I was working in a hospital, man handcuffed (and fastening her legs to so that she can not oppose or restrict what is being done her) his female partner for wild and hard sex acts. This is very bed and poor mentality of man in such cases. Buying handcuffs is not necessary – we may use any piece of cloth or rope for sex play. Just we need to decide who should go first. "Go first" mean he is handcuffed to something and I am doing stuff to surprise him or I am handcuffed to something and he is doing something to surprise me? In most cases handcuffs are used on female's hands by male partners. Many females enjoy the BDSM sex after they got bounded by their partner. It can be an amazing sex toy for having variation in personal sex life. Male partner binds hands with handcuffs of his female partner to make sexual encounter more sensual and erotic. Chain handcuffs are widely chosen among other kind of handcuffs from sex toy shops by couples for steamy and erotic intercourse session. Blindfold is a cheap tool you can use to take sex to the next level. And there are myriad fun ways to use one. A blindfold provides sensory deprivation. When one sense is dulled, the brain can temporarily compensate and allow us to become more sensitive to the stimuli from our other senses. This means that when we take away sight, our partner's touches, scent, taste, and sounds are a bit amplified. All this amplified sensory information ultimately helps build arousal and sexual excitement. Simple blindfold might seem harmless, it is best to create some ground rules. Decide what you are both comfortable doing while blindfolded, and be respectful of boundaries throughout the experience. Men are visual creatures, so blindfolding male partner might actually lessen his arousal. On the other hand, women tend to have the opposite reaction to being blindfolded. It releases their inhibitions so they feel more inclined to fantasize, which increases their arousal. Sex is so much more of a bother when you add equipment. We have never used any such things and we will never need to do so. We respect each other for really happy sex. We try to give maximum pleasure to each other the way he likes.

party_girl_4_ever · Accepted Answer

I have been handcuffed and blindfolded before though

Kyren · Accepted Answer

I've suggested this once to my girlfriend as a kinky idea to see if she would like it or not and she told me she'd prefer to see the expression on my face when I'm feeling a great amount of pleasure from her along with having free hands to either grab ahold of my hips/back or for other sexual ideas! It would have been interesting to see what it was like for one time but it may be a while or never but I don't mind really since I'm sexually satisfied with what my girlfriend and I do already!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have blindfolded my partner and tied all four extremities to the corners of the bed, both face up and face down. She loved it when I licked and sucked on her when she was on her back. She thought she wouldn't like anal play but she really got into it when she was tied face down.

Mac4kayla · Answer

Yes just as often as he does it to me lol

Zefram · Answer

Yes, and then I let her do the same to me. Well, handcuff me not blindfold me. I wanna see the goods. Now I have a whip to use too in case she's a bad girl.

Justacatlady · Answer

Not exactly handcuffs but we used scarves to tie each other up

loganj · Answer

not my partner but I have put the pillow over my head when roleplaying so I have kind of been blindfolded and it makes it easier to think I am with someone else

whatsgoingonwithme · Answer

I did. He came back from work and I knew he was stressed out from a big project and afterwards when things went well. He came home so excited but I planned a little surprise for him. My guy knows that I'm a dancer and loves seeing me dance. So I blindfolded him and did a little dirty dancing to tease him.

TisforTori · Answer

Not I

vishna · Answer

yes, both. I really enjoy it. I feel like being blindfolded really intensifies the feeling.

truthbeknown · Answer

We've done the handcuffing before and both didn't like it because we like to feel with our hands too much so cuffing actually cost a loss of fun and pleasure.

BaileyisDarcy · Answer

Yep fun as fuck

foodtv · Answer

Nope, but wouldn't mind.

luvstoned4him · Answer

no sadly, they always dread the worst. cuffing is a big NO-NO and its a shame.

fauchelevent · Answer

Yup.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

We used too. We took turns doing those to each other.

PhilBurt · Answer

Blindfolded, but no cuffs. I've used soft rope, though.

OldSchool_Metalhead · Answer

never have

JimRSmith · Answer

Plenty of times, yes.

QueenofCups · Answer

I voted A.

Pamina · Answer

Yes, but not as a sexual activity.

shreya_shiry · Answer

no. usually he does that to me

A_Bell · Answer

No, they are usally on me.

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