How to make him horny WITHOUT being obvious?

Ok here's the deal. Been seeing this guy for a few months. Slept with him a couple of times in the beginning. After that some events happened and we continued to see one another but in a platonic way.
Last week though he made a move on me and we had a sexual moment. Now since then I've seen him two more times and nothing sexual happened again...
The thing is I have the hots for him in such a way that sometimes I can't even concentrate myself on what he is saying because all I can think of is me pushing him in a corner and fucking him.

But here is where it gets complicated... He told me more than once that someone who wants sex so much and someone who is aggressive turns him OFF... And I am someone like that. I would talk dirty in a very direct way and would very openly say I want him and make obvious moves if I would listen to my envies.

So, how could I turn him on so fucking much to the point he would make the move or make it clear he is open to me touching him?

Most of the times we are chilling in a car. So we are relatively close. Listening to music, talking, smoking etc.

Remember, it can't be obvious. I can't really talk dirty nor can I touch him deliberately...

I've tried so many technics. Playing with my hair, intense eye contact, smiling pretty much all the time, biting my lip, licking my lips, eating ice cream in a sexy way haha, pending down and showing my butt, getting close to him as much as possible.
Argh. I am just so sexually frustrated when near him. I have a hard time controlling my mind and body. And I know he is sexually attracted to me. He has reasons that make him not engage with me on a sexual nature but I just wanna make him crack and fuuuucking sleep with him already!

Thanks!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • spike his drink with Viagra... no... scratch that. maybe subtly touching yourself in your crotch so he can see what you are doing while looking directly at him while mouthing the words "fuck me"?

    This guy sounds like he might be questioning his sexuality to me... most guys would be all erections and unable to be held back by what you described that you do generally.

  • Lol who the hell is this guy a robot. You had me at ice cream. If you're home get a yoga workout on the TV yoga pants sports bra and yoga in front of him. Then ask him to help you with hamstring stretch. If that doesn't clinch him he's gay and in the closet

    • Hahaha I liked and laughed when I read your first sentence! Yeah, I dunno!

    • Hahaha r really funny but what I said may be true or may be your face matches with that boy sisters

    • @harryrai4 Hahaha I don't think so hehe but you are funny man! Buuuut all this made me think of something else! Thanks to you and your yoga suggestion! I will try purposely spilling something on my pants and having to change in the backseat of the car (since like I wrote we hang in my car very often). This way it will be very hard for him not to see me in my panties and it won't seem like I am doing it by purpose hehehe

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  • The ice cream tease usually works. How did he react to that?

    • Good! Actually the last time we did something sexual (last week like I've written) I had tried the ice cream thing! Hard to know if that is what worked? Since that night I tried everything : ice cream trick, dancing in a sexual way, showing him peeps of my boobs, playing with my hair, intense eye fucking lol etc. So I don't know how I can determine what made him tick that night either...

    • Do it with a banana. Lick the tip nice and slow. Every guy I know gets hard when you do that.

    • Oh good idea or even a lollipop! Yesss! Thanks, for sure I am on this the next time we meet 😊

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  • Show him some hentai

    • He isn't into hentei unfortunately but we do watch a lot of YouTube rap videos. I'd have to find outrageously sexual rap videos and show it to him. That could work, I will try!

  • Do the sexy dress and you're in the car play with yourself put your hands on his thigh caressing talk to him tell him you're horny you can do that or not be too Direct if you feel that Johnson getting up you know you're on the way let him know you want to give him a b/j I'm sure you're well capable of doing that I believe you may possibly get what you're after

  • Lots of contact. Hugs, hitting, etc..

    • We hug when we say goodbye and trust me I try to get our pelvis area touching! But hitting and all I haven't tried! I will try to be playful!

    • May be he is only talking with you as a friend then or he is loving someone else truly

    • @harryrai4 It could be that he only sees me as a friend but I know, since we have had sex more than once, that he has sexual attraction for me. I don't think he is loving someone else though... but I guess we never truly can know unless we hang with that person non stop!

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  • Grow invisible horns

  • A romantic kiss and slowly undress him.
    Then Kiss everywhere.

  • Sounds like a bitch, fuck a man who wants that shit

  • Show tour cleavage and legs to him.

  • Play coy and innocent

    • He has to catch YOU

    • Yes! That is what I am trying to do but maybe I don't play the innocent part enough. I am pretty sure I exude a very sexual behavior even when I do nothing to show it off. I'll have to try playing the untouched virgin!

    • Yeah the fact that he makes feel so weak around him means that he probably senses that. You’re going to have to find a way to harness it so that you can become a challenge to him.