Why do guys always try to have sex without a condom?

Every man I have had sex with always tries to do it without a condom (even if it's our first time and they know very little about my sexual history) -- and I have to be the one to ask for a condom and turn down sex if they do not have one. Is it because I look and seem clean, or are all guys pretty much ready to do it raw dog with anyone? Do you always wrap it up when you first have sex with someone?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I hate when dudes are like "I'll go flaccid if I put one on" typa game. Like you're not fools anyone. That's just bullshit. I always make the dude wear a condom if it's our first time together

  • They probably believe in the pull-out game. My ex boyfriend believed in that. I knew better then him that the pull out game isn't real. Even pre-cum, there can be sperm.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I always use, except if i know really well my partner and if she says if she wants to do it without it. And ofc, the same goes for me. Basically, we just do if we both feel comfortable.

    • STDs?

    • As i said, if i know really well my partner. Usually we do a check-up to see if we're okay :)

  • I like to raw dog. But, if the person i'm with wants a condom or if she's not taking birth control, then i'll respect that.

    • Are you not worried about STDs with new partners?

    • I tell them i want to see a check up from the doctor before we have sex.

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  • because without a condom always feels better for both.

  • Feels great bareback... If you can about thinking. Honestly if I hadn't been dating you for a while I would not even consider having sex without a condom.

    Also, you should keep a couple condoms with you anyway. One average, one large. No one seems to want to sleep with a small dick so don't bother with that one 🙄.

  • Because they're stupid! lol Honestly I think they just don't think, and/or care at the time. It does feel a million times better without. However it's not worth the risks. Some guys believe things that aren't true also like the "pull out method". They go with how they feel at the time and don't think.

  • Because we like watching our cum shoot all over you

  • Not every guy wants to do without: I've known a few that insist on using them, not because of the fear for pregnancies or STI's but because they can have intercourse longer than without.

  • It works the other way too, women will sometimes ask not to use one. I'll usually go with it if she's clean.

  • Their pull out game is strong

    • IN THE ASS..

    • 🤣🤣🤣 dude, the risk is still present when you're doing anal because of the small amount when leaking at the end 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Dartzlink I am learning new things

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  • Not every guy. I use condoms.

  • It feels much better without

  • Because when we wear condoms, we basically become your dildo. there's not a lot for us to enjoy about it.

  • Wearing a condom is unnatural

  • Feels oh so good bareback..

    • What about STDS?

    • No thank you. Tried one in younger years

  • Because we can barely feel anything with a condom and it feels way better without one.

    • Are you worried about STDS?

    • Only if you have them.

  • You're hanging out with the wrong crowd.