Why can’t I orgasm?

Im a virgin, but I masturbate.
I have never came from penetration. I can only orgasm from clit stimulation so far? I’ve had orgasms where I finger myself while playing with my clit, but with penetration alone I can’t come.

Its not that I can’t feel anything with penetration, I definitely can. I just don’t ever orgasm. Help?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think there are many girls/women that have to have clitoral stimulation no matter what (me for sure) and that penetration doesn't do much for them, at least on its own. penetration and clit stim together really put it in a higher gear and it's the combination that pushes things over the top. I think what you're experiencing is very normal and is nothing to be worried about :)

  • lol you'll orgasm when you'll be with a guy don't worry.
    Orgasmn while masturbating it's rare

    • Yes in girls case very hard

Most Helpful Guys

  • From what I know, to reach an orgasm some kind of clit stimulation is always required. I don't know, some women may have purely vaginal orgams, but during sex the clit is also stimulated and the orgams results from the combination of both stimulus, vaginal and clitoral. So what you're experiencing is perfectly normal.

  • totally normal. from what i understand, even women who really enjoy the sensation of penetration still usually can't orgasm from it alone.
    women have a clit for a reason. that reason is, pretty much, so you can orgasm.

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  • Research finds, that most women do not cum by penetration, but need clitoral stimulation, whether masturbating or having sex.

  • Its because unfortunately trough evolution the girls vagina is far from ideal for pleasure. It depends on your body but if your the kind of girl not getting much satisfaction other forms of stimulation will have to be used. Don't worry though as its very common, just use your hands while he fucks you, use a vibrating ring or other toy along side it. Guys don't find it an issue when you do this and want you to have a good time.

  • A lot of women can't finish via penetration

  • Want help?

    • I’m i minor. You’re 35

    • Not cool @LawShark

  • orgasm by penetration is not something a lto of girls can do. that tends to rely on friction on the G-spot so angling your vibe or dildo correctly to rub against it.

    IYou can orgasm clitorally so i wouldn't worry too much.

  • Women have two types of orgasm, vaginal and clitoral, it is said that the majority of women only can orgasm when clitoris is stimulated. That means you are normal and you belong to the majority group

    • At 37 surely you should know about G-spot orgasms and anal orgasms?

  • That is normal. Most women need clitoral stimulation for orgasm.

  • That's normal, probably for most woman

  • Help what? There is neither law nor medical science that says it is wrong or abnormal to orgasm from clitoral stimulation but not penetration.

  • When my girl rides me, I always rub her clit when fucking. Always makes her cum hard which in turn makes me cum hard.

  • Ask girls

  • i can help you

  • I think i can help you...

  • Do you masturbate a lot

    • I don't know. Maybe once or twice a week

    • You need to do it more

  • Maybe do it on cam with a guy