Girls, how does it feel when a guy cums inside you?

[nightdrot]

My girlfriend and I were talking the other evening and I am not even sure how we got to discussing it but she said to me that she still remembers the first time I came inside her. I didn't think too much of it at the time and I think all I said was something like, "That's sweet" or something.

It got me to thinking, though. I have no reason to doubt my girlfriend, obviously, but how does it feel to you ladies? I don't just mean physically - though I mean that, too (does it feel special in some way?) - but does it mean something special to you emotionally? Does it make the sex better - even if maybe you don't want to get pregnant? For that matter, does the idea that it might get you pregnant make it better in some sense?

Truth in advertising, my girlfriend and I have lived together for ten years and have three children - the first two were unplanned pregnancies. So obviously our view of it - and her's specifically - is a little bit different. We never worried about pregnancy all that much and were happy when it happened.

Thanks for your insights. (I will ask my girlfriend about this and just sort of what to compare what she says to what other women feel.)

[monaq]

I love it. I feel like it makes the sex more full experience. And I also love the physical experience :)

[nightdrot]

Thanks for your reply. Follow-up: Is the thought that you might get pregnant - even if you know in your head that you don't want to - a factor? I know the thought that I might get my girlfriend - or a girl generally - pregnant is a turn-on for me. Is that the same for you. Again, that whole "head vs. heart" thing.

[monaq]

Yes, it does. I have this thought in my mind even when I am taking pills or just have no intend of really getting pregnant :)

[QueenofCups]

It 's really romantic.

[AmandaYVR]

Okay, well, coming off your other, more recent question, I now feel that I can tackle this one. I doubt you will mind that it's a year old.
Physically - I sometimes wonder if these women who say they can feel the moment of ejaculation inside them are really telling the truth, or if it is the desire to feel it. The nerve endings are in the first third of the vagina mostly. And if often feels wet up there, esp if turned on during sex. You can feel it when a guy has cum when it comes back out, for sure, but before that, and during? I don't know about that. You can feel his body shuddering. You can sometimes feel his penis shudder at the end. But the cum itself? Me? No. Sometimes if a guy is too quiet, I have to ask him "did you just cum?" and that is not great. Of course we want to know. (Sometimes it's so the neighbours don't hear, a legit reason, but I still want to know.)
Pregnancy - you would probably get a 50/50 split or a myriad of answers on this one - but for me, absolutely not. I was always worried about some mishap (condom, pills) and accidentally getting pregnant, it was a definite worry, but when you're not worried anymore, sex is even better, imho. There is nothing about the idea of creating a baby in there that turns me on, personally, but I know it would for some.
Psychologically - the idea of a man cuming inside you - fantastic. As long as you're not worried about STDs. Do you know, and I mean really know? With that worry out of the head, cum away. No condoms, no impediments, no barriers of any kind (physical or emotional). Knowing that he feels that good, and is releasing a part of himself into you (the only thing we typically physically share, besides saliva), and you are accepting it willingly and happily, is a great, great feeling. This is why sex with strangers has less meaning. So what if you're taking in something from him? You haven't even really decided how you feel about each other yet. You may not even want to hear him tell a story, let alone leave a piece of himself inside you. Very different.
But for those of you who are near and dear to us, we want it, we want you, we want a part of you. It may be temporary, it may be absorbed or dissipated eventually, but the experience remains, the experience that only we shared, and that can live on forever.

[nightdrot]

Thanks. Very helpful answer. I posted this question eons ago and so it is too late to award you an "Most Helpful Opinion," but you definitely earned one. By the way, your description of what it means to accept a man's sperm - when you care about him - strikingly parallels my gfd's. She has used, in fact, almost your exact words describing it to me.

[Paris13]

I have Had Many Dates and Mates so I guess I TWO, Would Know, Joe. lolxxoo

[Afrajakia]

I personally aggressively want my man to cum inside me. It's really my utmost pleasure!!!

[Senacık]

feel it.

[Sayema]

It's both physically and mentally very pleasurable.
When he cums inside me --rubbing and trembling-- it's the most desired passionate feeling of having SPERM inside.

[nightdrot]

Actually, I admit that it turns me on too. That idea of being inside my girlfriend, the idea that she is accepting the most basic most elemental thing I have to give and that I might even get her pregnant is a wild turn-on on the guy side too. So I take your point - and thanks for responding.