How easy is it for guys to get blue balls?

Question

could guys get it just from making out or if their girl sits on their lap sexually? or do the actions have to be more intense?

Zefram · Accepted Answer

Isn't that just an expression? Is it an actual thing? Fuck I might have just learned something here.
I mean I started having sex with my girlfriend this past January, she's my first, we dated for five months before that and I waited those five months to finally tell her I was a virgin because I knew she had been with other guys and I was fucking nervous. I kept putting it off, putting it off. Every time we'd start making out I'd end it when it got too intense and come up with another excuse she finally started getting pissed off and asked me if I was seeing someone, gay, didn't find her attractive etc. That last one really made me laugh because It was like, she's just sit in my lap and I was hard as a fucking rock. Then she'd gryrate and like stroke my leg or my chest and shit and I was like "fuck".

Now I have a bit more control. She can sit on my lap and we can make out for a little while without me really reaching full mast. I kinda have to do a little extra thought, generally throw some dead kittens in there mentally, but I'm able to keep my buddy down for a little while. Blue balls huh? That's interesting, I never knew it was like an actual thing before I thought it was just an expression.

Stevepro68 · Accepted Answer

you bring a guy to the edge and shut him down somehow then they might ache a little. Wanting someone a lot even a whole lot isn't going to do it. Even strippers don't give guys blue balls they give them hard ons. So wearing only panties and rubbing your butt on his lap is fine. Take that as the baseline.

Joe_Dee · Accepted Answer

Picture yourself serving your guy a four course meal. Each plate you bring him, he willingly devours them down.

Now picture you, placing the last plate down in front of him. This is his favorite portion of the whole meal. The dessert.
By this point, your guy is super excited to be at this part.

So he starts to eat it. Bite after bite.
And just as he's about to take the last bite- you snatch it and throw it away.

Moral of the story?

Because you threw away the last bite of his dessert, he is still hungry that his stomach will keep growling that it'll start hurting till he takes care of his hunger.

... guys with blue balls.

SweetgirlNS · Accepted Answer

Easy to get blue balls. I love teasing guys. Quick solution tho - just go rub one out and problem solved.

MadeInAmerica · Answer

If the making out is intense and you've haven't had sex in a while then a guy can. Or if you are going a little overboard with the kissing and touching and he is convinced sex is going to happen but you hop up and leave then a guy will for sure.

Desconhecida · Answer

Any time they get a NO

outside_Toronto · Answer

I think its a virgin guy thing

Steve37 · Answer

I order to get blue balls, a guy needs to be aroused for a very long time without having an orgasm or to be aroused many times in a short period without orgasming. If a guy tells you he gets blue balls from a short make out session or from simply getting a boner, he's just trying to guilt you into getting him off.