That's not a high sex drive, lol. 2 times a week is like, not even average, in my opinion. That's like below average sex drive. And once a month is ridiculously low.
Maybe he's worried about getting you pregnant? I feel like there's not enough information to really tell one way or another.
You look attractive enough, so I can't imagine it's your looks.
Does he show any other signs of disinterest in you? Were you having more sex before, then it slowed down?
Is he depressed? Does he take medications? Does he have physiological issues?
It could be anything. Or he could just have an extremely low sex drive. If that's the case, you two just might not be compatible. Unless he's open to you finding sex elsewhere, to fulfill that need. Which people do, sometimes. It's not mainstream, but it can be healthy for a relationship, in my opinion.
We used to almost every night and then things changed
nmmmmmmmm. That's not a good sign. How long have you two been together? If it's been longer that 6 months to 2 years, then it might just be that the passion has died. That tends to happen after the honeymoon phase. In which case, i might recommend staying away from him for like a week. Absense makes the heart grow fonder, as they say. Maybe it makes the cock grow harder, too. Oh wow, I just spotted the Devil's Trap tattoo. <3
Okay to start with we been together 3 years for the past 2 years we have been together on and off 1 week on 1 week off 1 week on 1 week off and he still won't touch me.
Wanting sex twice a week isn't an indication of a high sex drive at all, and, TBH, anyone who only wants sex once a month has an extremely low sex drive.
The problem is the mismatch in your sex drives. You're probably not doing anything wrong and he is probably attracted to you, so I'd look at lifestyle factors for him, e. g., is he getting enough sleep, or think about ways to get him in the mood (come on to him, try new things).
I try everything
Have you talked to him about this? The initiative needs to come from you.
Just ask him, what if he’s masturbating alone cus he thinks you have a low sex drive or doesn’t réalise you have a very high one? Talk to him about it. Obviously you can’t make him to have sex more often because you know, everyone has different sex drives and he can’t make himself want sex more often than he does. You can try to find things which turn him on (idk like sexual pics/ porn etc.) and then try to make him want sex.
We have been talking for 3 years
No, it doesn’t necessarily mean that. Maybe try having an open conversation with him and seeing what his thoughts are. He might just have a significantly lower sex drive which will be unfortunate because that’s not something you can change, or if it’s actually something that he doesn’t like about the sex hopefully it’s something you guys can work on together. How is the sex when you have it? Is he into it and enjoying it?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Once a month at age 22? Wow! Sounds like he needs to step is up to once a week, and then get yourself a toy.
Without sexual compatibility, you are just friends. Sorry..
Have you tried asking him what turns him on or gets him in the mood? Maybe if you can find things that excite him he can do it more than once a month. Or if you are looking for toys I would say check out lovense toys since he can join in and control it for you. They are a lot of fun.
For me its like 4 times a week, your sex drive isn't even high in that regard. His is just extremely low, perhaps you two can find alternatives? If he doesn't get much from it as his sex drive is so low he could at least play with your body and get you off, perhaps introduce toys. If that doesn't work out your simply not sexually compatible.
Yeah get a new boyfriend
You need another boyfriend, someone that wants sex as much as you
Masturbate your brains out
I do
And STILL...
Try anal
First that's a low sex drive for you for him try getting him tested for low testosterone
No, and that's is a pretty low number for having sex. I would want it at least three times a day if possible.
Lucky boyfriend , ungrateful too
If i ever had a girlfriend , at least i would help her out in masturbating (if i had a low sex drive like your bf)
That's pretty weird. I think your fine. Him I'm worried about lol. Maybe he just not that into sex. Extremely high sex drive. 😂😂
Try to seduce him.
I tried
Once a month means a very low sex drive I must say. I hope at least he's good at bed.
Maybe you need a fuckbuddy 😏
I don't really consider that a high sex drive but if you do that's fine seems like y'all can get that worked out if it was me I would have wanted everyday
I don't truly find it to be that high of a sex drive but it's higher than his so it's a high sex drive as compared to his
I understand but you didn't answer my question I remember when I did have a high sex drive and I still do
What question?
lol.
😦 twice a week is extremely high?
😂i feel bad for whoever i end up with, id want it every day, maybe more than once per day.
Gotcha, but who only wants sex once a month? He's crazy.
I know what ur going through because I have a very high sex drive too and my girl is also happy with like once a month. 😕
... yeah
So how do u deal with urs?
Toys
You sound like you are normal, your boyfriend is abnormal, I, like you, have a high sex drive, and love to fuck 3-4 times a week. We would be great partners.
Twice a week doesn’t sound like too much to me. That‘s pretty normal, I would say.
Not a problem at all.
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