Would your partners sexual past be a deal breaker?

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  • If they have been with more than 3-5 different partners, or more before they got with me, it will definitely be a deal breaker, and I'll be gone for forever out of their life, especially if she's in her 20's, I would never be able to trust her.

    Also, because I don't trust guys (fuck boys/ players) , cause they would NEVER tell a female if they have an STD or an STI, and could of passed something to her.

    Most guys are like dogs and will only tell girls what they think they want to hear, just to get in bed with them then leave.

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  • No, as long as she didn't have HIV, or any diseases, it really isn't my business who she was before I met her. A lot of people make bad choices, when they are young. Should they be 'punished' for the rest of their lives, because of bad choices, PAST, that they learned from, and became a better person, BECAUSE of those?
    I don't understand why so many want Virgins, and just judge, and hate on the ones that aren't (but still fck them, Friday night, after Last Call!!)
    I am not following any of the 'Religions' and all that Guilt, Judgement, and Condemnation!! If you believe that nonsense, don't respond, as you have nothing to offer here!!
    It's OK, to make mistakes, bad choices, especially when you are young, and you have nobody to guide you, or teach you. I don't think it is right to think their past is a good reason to just walk away!

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  • Nope, past is the past. I’d ask about it for sure but as long as they’re clean, the sex was consensual, and they are currently and always faithful to me, it’s not a dealbreaker.

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  • Someone who sleeps around a lot is used to that kind of life style and would be more likely to cheat and wander. I don't think this type could stand to be tied down to one girl and would always have wandering eyes. I'm sure a lot of girls wouldn't care, and those are the girls who are asking why he left her or why he cheated on her in forums like this and sit at home broken hearted.

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What Guys Said 39

  • Yes, it could be.

    "I used to be an escort"
    "I used to be a cam model"
    "I used to be a stripper"
    "I used to have threesomes"

    Things such as this are deal breakers. That's crossing a line that makes me never want that person. It doesn't matter if they don't do it anymore, the fact they ever did it forever makes them a "'no" for me

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  • It all depends on the person they are. People make mistakes without realizing it at first, but noticing later on. No need to hold ot over them if they are a good person, everything builds character!

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  • This depends on what we're talking about. People make mistakes, but you have to draw the line somewhere. If a female is so weak to have ended up with over 10 partners then they wouldn't be the kind of person I'd want anything to do with.

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  • I don't care about she doing sex , what I care about is how her life was like I mean was she a how like cheating on this and that, and I believe in second chances maybe she became mature.
    The point is idc about sex itself I care about her lifestyle and choices

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  • I have a bit of a inferiority complex, so it does affect me a lot. But only if she brings it up a lot, and if it makes me feel like I'd never be able to make my partner feel good for real. I am aware that it'd my responsability, my problem to solve and overcome.

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  • If she has a history of cheating on her bf's, yeah sure.

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  • If she was dishonest about it, then it would be a big problem. Honesty is required in a relationship. For me it's not WHAT she did but WHY she did it.

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  • If you have slept with 10 guys you are a used up ho and no decent man will want you.

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  • Everyone deserves a chance, and forgiveness, or just an understanding.. You might be passing by the partner of a life time because you have some hangup because they sucked off a guy or girl or two..

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  • No. But it would make me cautious if she had a lot of partners. I'd wonder what makes me more special than the 10, 20, 30 other guys...

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  • No. As long as they were clean and loyal, that's all that matters.

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  • Not at all. As long as there are no STD's to transfer. Even then, if I love the woman, I would help to find a way to cure the STD completely.

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  • It might steer me away but not an automatic deal breaker

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  • if she has a lot of sexual partners.. no.. If she had those partners and was unprotected.. Yes

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  • No that's like anything else you have to take what comes with what fall in love with it does it matter

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  • Nope I thank the other guys for breaking her in for me you know how annoying it is to break in a new pair of shoes

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  • It all depends on what they did for example if they slept with my brother or best friend then yeah probably but other than that it wouldn't bother me

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  • no I could care less if I had sex or not

    and I wouldn't care if she did or didn't

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  • Nope. My girlfriend dated a woman before we started dating back in 2015. It wasn't a deal breaker.

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  • Age and years sexual active matters. Like someone 21 with more or equivalent guys to her age is like uh... Stop maybe? XD uhm 40+ with like 20 dudes seems a lot less judgement worthy. If that makes sense it's like a friend I had saying he at like 20 slept with 15 or more girls and only being sexually like 4 years was like a uh.. So you've been busy but if he was like 60 saying 15 in his lifetime you'd probably think busy as a youth or woah not that many in comparison to others that age or younger etc. Older with large numbers seems so much more acceptable and understable. Could just be my way of seeing it though.

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What Girls Said 21

  • Past is past, if you will count anything in past , then you will keep having difficulties in life.
    Leave past behind and look for future

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  • No. As long as they are têsted and clean were good. Whats in the past is in the past. I've been in a relationship where knowing all my past history just blew up. Just keep moving forward.

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  • It would only matter, if the sexual past includes. my friends, family or bosses

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  • Yes if he had a crazy number of partners, threesomes, sex with guys and sex with women I dislike.

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  • As long as the sex was consensual, and was never cheating, i don't care

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  • No I wasn’t part of the past none of my business. I may be curious but it’s not a deal breaker.

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  • He had none until he met me, so not really.

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  • Yes. I don’t date sluts

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  • Yes...

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  • Absolutely.

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  • As long as they're clean nope.

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  • Yes definitely

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  • I guess it can be yeah

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  • Yeah ,

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  • Yes it is

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  • Depends on the number.

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  • Depends.

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  • If he has STD's, then yeah

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  • If it can hurt my health, then hell yeah.

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  • I like a woman with some experience cause virgin can be crazy. And depending on her age.

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