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Guys, Should I ask my neighbor who I've never spoke to, to watch me masturbate?

So sometimes im camming for extra money to help pay the bills.. One of the guy has the request that i get someone of my family to watch me masturbate for good money.. but i was thinking of just getting my neighbor to pretend with me that he's family.. We have only met in the hallway and said hi.. he's like 45..
Im just really scared that he's gonna have a female reaction, which to me since im a female is a normal reaction! Im scared that he eill said no and think im crazy for asking and perverted...
Thats why im asking you males on gag, with your male brain that works differently than ours women.
Should i ask? What will be his reaction?
Im not ugly and im 23 but look 17 years old (baby face syndrome) ..
Im so scared that i dont think i can do it.. Which makes me sad because he was gonna tip big for it.. But im really frightened he will react like a woman... and think im a perverted freak.
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  • Err... I think he will think he has won the jackpot. But a) make sure you stay safe, and b) just don't spring it on him out of nowhere. Ease into it. Kind of talk to him and present it to him carefully, like you've been thinking about this thing and you know it may sound a bit crazy but... And so on.

    Because most guys rarely get hit on by women, it can be kind of intimidating and confusing when a woman is very forward with you. I tend to freak out and not know whether I'm on candid camera or how to react.

    • Lol true!

  • ... Okay so the guy brain is telling me that you're going to have the opposite problem... He's never going to leave you alone after this because he found it hot.

    • Lol!! I thought the same thing!!! I just thought it sounded *coughs while saying* way too hot to try to discourage...

    • I will try to knock his door tomorrow.. And oh yeah u think he won't leave me alone?

    • Lol seriously... I expect he's going to try to talk you into a repeat performance sometime.

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  • NOOOOOOOO

  • It would be VERY difficult for me to watch a woman masturbate and then not at least be able to give her oral... just sayin. That would be hard. Or rather, I would be hard.

  • Well first thing, don't be scared. It's a simple question really and if you ask in a correct way, he won't be weirded out by it and will most likely say alright. Also, make sure he's not in a very committed relationship or he'll say no out of fear of his SO finding out.

    So the best way to go about asking would be to wear something somewhat naughty. Not slutty mind you, but suggestive in a sense, something that shows of your figure sensually and maybe teases at more of your body. So perhaps sweat shorts that are really short and body hugging (with no panties on underneath), with a sports bra on or tank top that's somewhat see-through or clingly and skimpy (without a bra on of course). Hair tied up. Or something sensual, but of a different look, like tight yoga pants that are somewhat see-through and a tank top or sports bra or tight shirt, or booty shorts with a button up shirt undone but not opened all the way. What I'm getting at it should be sexy casual, like girl next door sensual if you will. That girl across the hall you've always thought was hot and she wears those little gym outfits or casual things that are so sexy, and she knows she looks good in, but doesn't flaunt it or get cocky about it.

    Anyhow, then once you "run into him by accident", talk to him like you need some help in your house with something or you would like his input on something that you have to show him in your house. Say please and it will only take a few seconds or you don't want to bother him or put him out or anything. Be really cute about it, like teasy cute if you know what I mean. Maybe if you can, before asking him for assistance during your conversation tell him you've noticed him around before and if you can compliment him about something physical about him or add things like it's good to have a man around the building because it's so lonely for you at times... Get him thinking about him with you in other words or you liking him. If you're attractive, you don't have to do too much really...

    After all that, maybe have some drinks and have fun bantering with him and feed his ego and while you're in the room with him, start walking around bending over and enticing him to your body, looking his way sensually at times or playing with your glass sensually, touching him every now and then sensually, get your sensual flirt game on.

    Then you really have him interested in seeing YOUR BODY and what YOUR BODY looks like sexually. That's when you pop the question casually.

  • Lol! Well it all depends on how you ask him... ask him first to try your brownies or something!! Or for a cup of suger!! And wear something REALLY revealing. Then when he is turned on and can’t stop checking you out... ask the question!!!

    • So? Have you asked him? How did it go?

    • Not yet.. I did knock his door.. No answer. Will try again later

    • Lol!! Okay! Well good luck!!

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  • This is just a terrible idea, don't ask your neighbor to watch you masturbate on camera you psycho.

    There are men you can find that will just do that, easily, with little coaxing.

  • Ok, I can see the concern; you could argue that any red blooded guy would kill for the chance to watch a hot chick masturbate so there is that. Have you considered the possibility that this 45 year old dude (assuming that he goes along with it) would not then expect sex from you, possibly more than once, or at the very least part of the profits?

  • Invite him over for a drink, enjoy your drinks, give him a second drink and then just casually bring it up, explain the whole thing ans then ask if could help you out with it.

    Do not just blurt the question out at him, do as I said above and I doubt he will freak, he may actually enjoy it. Just be prepared you may have to give him a hand job, blow job or fuck him for helping as most likely watching you masturbate will make him as hard as a rock!

  • My opinion, if a girl ask to watch her masturbating I would say no, but inside me I would love to see that, but if she tried to tease me and it's ends up watching her masturbating I would say yes. We alway as men like step by step and things not coming easy as they will be more interesting. Hope that answer your question.

  • This dominant Southern gentleman wish he had you for a neighbor


  • Yeah go for it

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