When you go down on a girl you are exhibiting a submissive behavior. She is receiving pleasure and you are doing all of the work. In this case, the girl has dominance over you.
Getting a girl to give you a blowjob is a way of dominating her. Women love to be dominated. Giving into a girl and licking her pussy is giving into her demands. It's being submissive. Very broadly, alpha men don’t eat pussy.
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LegateLaniusMaster
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No. Alpha and beta don't exist in humans. Also, its not submissive but givin her trust. Your teeth are level with her more delicate parts
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LegateLanius
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MHO, please.
Revolver_Guru
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It's beta behaviour
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VaIiantYoda
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I think referring to men as "alpha" and "beta" is "beta" behavior.
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CT_CD
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No..
VaIiant
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I want mho please
Deydey12345Yoda
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Pussy can't dominate. Wtf is wrong with u ct cd
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CT_CD
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Only penis can dominate?
Deydey12345
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Exactly. In feeling dominated there's a sense of fear. Something men dont feel when fucking her vagina. Lots of men comfuse submission with laziness. Just lying there like a starfish doesn't mean she's dominating you.
Deydey12345
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For a man eating a vagina is sexy, making them hard.. Not scared or less powerful at all. Mpst girls suck the guy for his own pleasure.. She usually doesn't get wet like a guy would get hard
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Deydey12345
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Very basic psychology knowledge
Deydey12345
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If i was gonna eat a vagina roght now i wouldn't feel dominated AT ALL!!
Depends on how you view it. Personally I think it is alpha. I'm at his mercy and he is making me react as he wants me to. He is in control of the situation.
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MissGeorgiaXper 7
+1 y
So don't do it if you don't want
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AuroraRoseatGuru
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Not at all. Giving pleasure to your significant other is paramount. Otherwise, you're selfish.
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CT_CD
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Alphas can be selfish
AuroraRoseat
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The stereotype of the Alpha is to be selfish. But I don't consider Alpah males to be those who resemble brutish uncaring animals.
MlleCakeInfluencer
+1 y
There is no such phenomena in human beings.
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CT_CD
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why?
MlleCake
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Human social structures are much more complex than that.
Anon-ymous1
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Again? Sigh.
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MlleCake
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@Anon-ymous1 You never learn.
Anon-ymous1
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No sis... you don't.
MlleCake
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It's jus a popular idea not based in science. It's not real.
Anon-ymous1
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Sigh. For thousands of years, the wind wasn't real, because we needed studies to quantify it and they didn't exist yet.
MlleCake
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@Anon-ymous1 You're simply wrong, and uneducated. It's not a debate. It's simply not seen in human beings, and was only seen in captive wolves at the time the original study came out. It turns out their observations of the wolves were even wrong. This is just something people want to be true for humans so badly that they took the wolf study and made up all kinds of popular mythology about how it applies to humans. It never applied to humans. As long as there have been home sapiens sapiens our social structures have been more complex than simple "alphaness and betaness". I can give you page after page of those who study these things who explain exactly how it's not applicable to humans, but you're so in love with the idea that you won't even hear why it doesn't apply to humans. You will not develop a better understanding of human behavior until you start trying to look at it with more of a critical eye.
Anon-ymous1
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In your version of reality, humanity and civilization magically came into existence exactly as they are now. No strife; no millennia spent in blood and toil, animals that just slowly began walking upright and used bones and stones for clubs. No fighting over who was "top dog," or any concern whatsoever for what made the top dog, top dog. As though this was all pre-ordained. You are fascinating.
MlleCake
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@Anon-ymous1 Nope. None of that is true. That's just what you think I think because I happen to disagree with you. You've never bothered to get into the complexity of human behavior through time, so you don't have any sense of what I might actually believe. You're so in love with your pseudo-scientific concept that you haven't even taken the time to find out what the alternative theories are. I believe there are some situations in which humans engage in social dominance, and various traits are favored depending on the circumstances. The small list of what you consider "alpha" traits may work in some circumstances but they don't always - they aren't what is needed in every instance, they aren't universally preferred traits. A simple alpha/beta dynamic is literally TOO SIMPLE to adequately describe all human social strata. It has always been too simple of a concept to apply to humans. It has always been pseudo-science to apply the concept to humans. Reality is much more nuanced
Anon-ymous1
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Well-said. At least, from "I believe there are some situations" and on.
GetzRektYoda
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I agree. Only pussies lick pussies.
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blubblubblub
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you are what you eat
BerethorMaster
+1 y
Well sounds about right to me, it's part of the reason that I do not agree to do it.
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markscottMaster
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A real man isn't afraid of going down on his wife's pussy. He knows he's man enough to be in charge, and make her feel good too.
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RachelGreeneXper 2
+1 y
Why does being alpha matter so much?
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victorvolf
+1 y
Because if you don't snort ribs for dinner then go punch a wall on a football stadium, are you really a man?
RachelGreene
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@victorvolf lmfao
HungLikeAHorseflyGuru
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Only if you're coerced into doing it.
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ENTP_EMOYoda
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i cuck my women so i never go down
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ninjafemmeYoda
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It can be seen either way for both genders but in my opinion you don't go down your not attracted.
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Topaz171Yoda
+1 y
That’s a cute kitten
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Swaggirl1Explorer
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Wow u nailed
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NYCQuestions1976Guru
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Ain't nothin' wrong wit' bustin' a munch. 😂👍
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Anon-ymous1Editor
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Only if she doesn't suck your dick. As in if you give her oral but she won't do the same to you, then yes, it is beta behavior. If it's reciprocated, then no not at all; it's nice.
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dolemite68Guru
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Making a woman cum hard is alpha
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johnmichaeiYoda
+1 y
And whatever position you're doing you're giving him pleasure by your submissiveness
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