Do men have a strong desire to cum inside her during sex?

Hello, so I’ve been wondering lately since I just started having sex with my first love of my life a few months ago (I lost my virginity to him as well) and I always have a very VERY VERY strong desire to want him to cum inside me. I’m just wondering if men feel the same level of desire to cum inside rather than pulling out. I don’t really watch porn but when I went and looked at compilations of men “cumming inside women” they always seem to pull out even when they are allowed and she is telling him to cum inside her. It makes it seem like they always rather cum using their hand than to cum while inside her.
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  • As we're having sex with a woman and pushing in and out of her, as we get closer and closer to cumming each inward thrust sends an increasingly urgent charge of incredible pleasure through the whole penis and into the depths of our balls and the area just behind them, where an incredible tension is building up. As we get closer and closer to the peak, the desire to push balls deep into our lover and explode in that position is absolutely intense. If instinct were to fully take over there would be no way to resist that pleasure and explode deep inside her.

    Good to hear that you girls want the same thing! ;-)

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  • Definitely cum inside her.

    My wife on IUDs so most of our married life I cum inside her.

    Those few months when she change IUDs and we have to use condom, we both hated it and skip using many times. This is how our kids came 😆

    So go bare is our motto. (We're married and monogamous.)

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  • omg it is a wonderful feeling to feel his cum moving inside me

    • I love your attitude we should talk on snap or kik if you want l, message me

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  • Only inside the p*ssy, most intense and primal feeling. This is where the sperm should be going.

  • Yes they do, but they may be terrified of the girl getting pregnant as child support is super expensive. And paying CS is like being grounded for 18 years. You lose 18 years of your life right there as you constantly work just to pay enormous amounts of CS.

    Being "all natural" is very intimate and more bonding.

    In most porn, men pull out because that's more visual. Don't use porn to understand real sexuality.

  • Yes, many men prefer to cum inside a woman.

  • Overwhelmingly powerful urge but its still a decision

  • I personally don't like it much because of some bad pregnancy paranoia in the past

  • I love cum lnside a hot wet pussy it feels soooo good mmmmm ahhhhhhh!!!

  • Yes we do as well, I think it's biological. Physically, it feels the best to just "let go" inside you. Also, we don't like any physical interruption, no matter how brief it is.

    • Having said that, we aren't going to risk pregnancy or STI's either. So whether it feels the best or not, we'll pull out.

  • The naturally strong and normal desire is to cum inside the girl. What you see in most of porn is meant to show the "cum shot" for the camera. That's why you see so much pulling out.

  • Yes
    It feels really really good
    For both guy and girl

  • Yea both guy and girl are designed to insanely love it lol... its coded deep into your DNA...
    interesting how we don't really have free will... our cells tell us what to do...

  • Cumming inside my girlfriend is probably the best feeling in the world. Its just perfect. Like it feels so "right" and natural.

  • That is called the money shot that's so you know they're not Faking It

  • Yes it's the greatest feeling in the world

  • I always have the desire to cum inside, it's natural.

  • It really depends on the woman

  • It’s a biological thing

  • Definitely cum inside the vagina. It's the only way for me.

  • Yeah. Men love it.

  • We have an EXTREME desire to cum inside, but sometimes porn and excessive masturbation can cause this, as for porn they usually only cum 1/3 inside because they want to show the cum flow outside, in reality a man will thrust as deep as he can when he is cuming, you can help your love when he is cuming by wrapping yourself around him and pull him deeper and just keep him inside, it feels great

  • I'd prefer to cum inside, especially with a girl I think is really pretty like you. However pulling out is mandatory until I'm ready to have kids

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