Can I be pregnant from “naked grinding” in a pool?

So a couple days ago, my boyfriend and I were in the pool. We were in our bathing suits but he pulled out his penis from his trunks and I had to slightly take off my bottoms for this to happen. We had to be elevated just a little so we could touch. I'm not really sure if I was wet or not cause I was in chlorinated water and he never touched the inside of my vagina with his fingers or his penis. He did not cum. He didn’t pre-cum either. He’s been telling me that he “paid attention” and “looked down” on what was happening the whole time to make sure there was no pre cum because I’ve been told that guys can’t feel pre cum. So only his shaft was touching my vulva and he was dry. He also told me that he peed before coming to my house and didn’t masturbate the whole day. But after grinding, we went back to swimming in the pool. Is there still a possibility of pregnancy? I don’t have any signs except bloating. But could that just be an upcoming period? You’re probably gonna say I’m uneducated. But there’s nothing wrong with asking and getting educated of this type of thing. I’ve been paranoid of something like this before and that’s when I had got on a birth control implant for almost a month. Not to mention before I took it out, I had a heavy period which is not supposed to happen on the implant. Unfortunately, it messed with my feelings towards my boyfriend and made me really depressed so I took it out ASAP. It’s been a month since that has happened. I’m suppose to get my period starting now or these next few days. Is there a possibility that the implant could have messed with my cycle and that’s why I’m not really getting my period? Or am I just really stressed about this situation. I apologize for the long paragraph but when I do get on birth control, what do you think would be the best option? I want to find something that won’t change my feelings towards my boyfriend and will not boost unnecessary hormones into me and make me depressed. Thank you for your time :)
Updates:
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My period came 3 days late. I thought it was implantation bleeding at first because of paranoia but I’ve been having horrible cramps. TMI, my period blood looks normal. It’s bright red but not a lot of blood. Which can be because of me stressing out. (I went through this paranoia 2 months ago too) I’ve also been feeling nauseous but not even coming close to throwing up. Though, I only feel that way when I think about a baby being inside of me. Can this just be my mind messing with me?
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Period lasted about 3 days. The 3rd day, my period was not a lot but it was still happening. A day went past and it was fine but then today, I experienced a brown discharge which made me freak out at first because I thought it was implantation bleeding but isn’t that supposed to happen before your period? I already got mine though. I think. What could this be? The next following week, I’m going to be put on birth control (pills) and I’ll ask my doctor what this is a cause of.
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  • Nope. It's too hard for cum to get into the vag without penetration. As well, the gauntlet it has to go through to get to the egg (if it's even at the area where the sperm and egg meet) is so treacherous and expansive that it's almost a miracle pregnancies happen really. Also, he never CAME, which the guy has to do to eject sperm at all to the outward world to get anywhere else. Even if he did or not, the chlorine in the pool water probably would have killed it all.

    • Yeah, you're worrying too much really. You got your monthly, and you're bleeding. Whatever was there, is probably not there anymore. Guarantee you're not pregnant or will be now.

  • Nothing is a silly question if you dont know its how we learn :) now the bloating is probably from your period coming soon and if your in water and didn't stick it in.. highly unlikely

    • Yes it can be.. the mind is a very malicious thing. . can even make your body think you are pregnant among other things

    • How cruel 😂😔 thanks for the input

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  • You are not pregnant. So no worries there. Can't comment on the best birth control or if yours messed with your cycle. A nurse probably could answer those questions for you, as all women are different on it.

  • This is kind of a silly answer. Because there was no penetration, you are not pregnant. You were just grinding against each other and his penis didn't go into your vagina. To sum it up, you're not pregnant.

  • No... thanks for making me think of the tainted love video though xD
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    ~ Mrs Manson

    • You’re welcome 💀

    • lol anytime i can think of marilyn manson naked is a good thing xx ~ Mrs Manson

    • Fr 😂

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  • You've asked this question at least 2 other times. We've got a troll here.

    • This is my first time. Try again. Also don’t be unnecessary and annoying. Come on people. Answer the question and leave. Geez

    • I've answered it twice already for you and you're simply using anonymous posting to get away with it. Get over it.

    • Shut up. I have never seen your ignorant comment ever in my life. You got proof that I’ve been commenting this repeatedly? ANSWER THE QUESTION AND THEN LEAVE. ITS THAT SIMPLE LADY

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  • The fact you say he didn't precum tells me you should not be engaged in any sort of sexual behavior.

    • He didn’t. Shut up 🙃 cause there’s lots of people here that didn’t find anything wrong with this paragraph here. I asked for help. Not a stubborn opinion on blah blah you’re too young you’re stupid blah. Don’t even think about having sex. 😂💀🖕🏻

    • You know what? Sorry. I’m just kinda having a hard time rn. Don’t mind that. I hope that outburst was another clue of a period

  • A man needs to fill you with his load , deep inside of you.. thats explains the legnth of the cock.

    • I don’t quite understand that last part. Our genitals were grinding against each other under water

    • How old are you.

    • What does my age have to do with you answering my question

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  • If he didn’t cum and his penis didn’t go inside your vagina, you are not pregnant.

    • You're still not pregnant.

    • What are the chances to be pregnant if there was pre cum though? Sorry if this sounds annoying. I get stressed out about every little thing

    • If his penis didn't enter your vagina, you're not pregnant. Doesn't matter if it's precum or regular cum!

  • Absolutely impossible, and even if you are pregnant it's not a bad thing

    • Well not when you’re not good financially and under 18

    • Such a white person thing to say lol

    • That’s the most dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. Not only did you comment on something very unnecessary not related to my question, but you’re racist too? Go fuck yourself dude 🙃 This ain’t instagram. Go be rude and stupid somewhere else. K?

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  • No danger it could happen...

  • Not pregnant

  • the child can become waterlogged if you have sex in a pool

    • cool

    • not cool you want to be dealing with a half brain dead child?

    • She didn’t have sex in a pool

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  • No you are not pregnant

  • Your not pregnant.