Women, why do you keep letting men treat you like you're dumb?

[MissScorpio]

I'm a virgin and I never masturbated. I don't watch porn and I am usually not attracted to people based off their looks. I don't drink, smoke, party or do drugs. I'm also on my way to medical school. Some men have he audacity to try to bully me into loweribg my standards and will treat you like you're crazy. No you cannot follow your ex, talk to your ex or have pictures of your ex. If you have female friends and you're a make, don't even talk to me. Delusional men and women call me crazy when I tell them they're walking into a shit storm. They're like, you're 18 years'old what do you know. I know every guy that has ever kept pictures of his ex, follows or talks to her, eventually ended up dating her again. She fucking marked her territory. That girl isn't going anywhere anytime soon. I also know men who have crazy ass female friends or ex's that'll try to play the cool role and fuck your relationship up. I also know many men aren't capable of having mature adult relationships. These days a man has to talk to his family, his friends, his ex's etc. Everyone about whether or not he should date you. Men are fucking slow. They treat every girl they consider how like a fucking princess and if they, their friends, family, etc. Don't think you're hot, they're gonna tell them to do better. I simply don't fuck with males like that. I'm only 18 years' old but I've ran into so many stupid men of all ages who believe they're dating experts, when they're obviously not. If my son came to me and asked if he should continue dating his middle school/hot school sweetheart in his 20s, I would legit look at him like he is retarded. I never took young relationships seriously. A man obviously isn't interested in a mature relationship if he is surrounded by his ex's and girl friends. All the men I knew who did this ended up divorced or messed up situations. Men are so stupid now a days, they don't even know how to court a lady.

[ksoma]

I wouldn't avoid you for being smart. I wouldn't try to diminish that or want you to be a bimbo, etc.

I would avoid you because you have no libido and are a control freak. You sound like the type of woman who might let me have sex once a month, if I do the garbage and dishes like you demand. No foreplay either, you want me in and done so you can roll over.
If I'm lucky, I might get sucked off for my birthday.
You would make me avoid my friends, and spurn every woman I know who isn't a direct relative, because you see all other women as sluts and men as beasts who lack control. And even my family you would eye distrustfully.
You'd throw a fit if you ever found out I masturbated, because it would just be further male degenerate behavior.

And after controlling every aspect of my life, if I asked you to do something for me, you'd scream and bitch about controlling men.

Men who treat women like they are, or should be, dumb obedient toys, are scum. But you demand men obey and do things explicitly your way, and you seem like a joyless, frigid harpy.

[LokiWhite]

I will say that the only exception there is what happened with me where I had a lot of female friends but they were all gay so zero chance of anything getting messed up anyway 😂. You are definitely right about some stuff there though, a lot of people take time to mature but it really does depend on life experience.

[MissScorpio]

I agree. I was lucky enough to witness enough dysfunctional relationships growing up I know how to avoid them.

[LokiWhite]

Then you are ahead of the curve! It means that whatever ones to get past your filter of one's you think will fail will probably be happier and better, it just might take longer for one of them to come along which isn't a problem.

[MlleCake]

You're so cute. 18 and you know all men. I hope you can remember this post 15 years from now.

[MissScorpio]

You must be my ex boyfriends highschool sweetheart. To hell with all of you sad sad women. You mad and you can stay mad. I'm not sure pick me if he wanted me anyways. The same women screaming sexist are the same women who have to shit on other women to seem attractive. I'm literally saying I'm tired of stupid ass women talking to me about shit that could have been prevented. I made mistakes when dating men, but they were minor. I've literally had other women try to beat me up over boud because I'm a virgin and they got used for sex. Not my problem

[MissScorpio]

*boys. Maybe if women raised their standards and stopped trying to make sure guy be loyal by taking ass pics, we wouldn't have to deal with stupid ass men. Maybe if women taught their sons better, they'd do better.

[MlleCake]

Explain to me why the men aren't responsible for their own behavior?

[MissScorpio]

They are but you are too. You don't get brownie points for being naive in life. I've made mistakes as a young woman but I have a strong foundational system to avoid being played. If more women taught their daughter's, they wouldn't get played. My mom taught me. When I didn't listen I you burned. She'd also allow me to observe relationships that were unhealthy and unstable. Yes many men are manipulative jerks. The only way to get rid of them is to outsmart them. I'm sick of women asking the same questions over and over. They need to learn for themselves and stop depending on everyone to be a saint and teach them everything. I've heard and seen men say they'll fuck a girl, play her and bever respect her. Would you rather for me to be honest with you or lie? Life isn't rainbows, dolphins and lollipops sweetheart. Many young girls my age try to play the dumb Christian girl role while their boyfriends are using other women for blow jobs. Women need to be smarter about the men they choose.

[MlleCake]

Your rant is less than coherent about this, and I think that may be why you're getting some of the responses you are.

[MissScorpio]

If you're a grown woman, no one's gonna protect you. That's what she lot of young girls my age thought and that's what I thought too. I nearly got jumped by a girl who believed a boy who used her for sex liked me better because I'm a virgin. He called me a slut a bitch and tried to run a train on me. He never respected me. It hurt and it was a life lesson. You have to protect yourself as a woman. I don't even see other girls my age parents efucstibg them on players and scgemes men use. My mom educated me and I also learned on my own. I don't have a dad and I can read men better than girls who have father's because their daddies and mommies obviously don't care to teach them. They walk around trying to be bible thumpers while their boyfriends are getting blow jobs from other girls. Stop trying to please men and ask them about shit. Don't ask a man about anything. Learn, observe and be aware. Know your standards and what you want.

[MissScorpio]

Maybe. I was ranting about my ex boyfriend and what happened with him. I go through things over and over in my head until I learned all I could from the situation.

[QueenofCups]

You are an unusual Scorpio. I have my moon in Scorpio and I am very sexual.

[snowangle]

Wow there's a lot wrong with this. Oy. I imagine you'll grow up someday.

[yasii]

Lol you're the definition of a "pick me bitch"

[Allesana]

What is the female version of a misogynist called?

[memma]

a feminist:D

[TheSadisticGod]

I agree with memma. But in case you're still curious, they're called a misandrist.

[lea556]

"Pick me!"

[kittycat119]

Wow you really are crazy

[Theft]

So? what was your point? Men are stupid? Or you are turning lesbian?

[MissScorpio]

Nope. I only like certain men. The majority of men are really immature to me.

[Theft]

Lol! Well we are most all really imeture. But what was the point of this rant? did you just have some one do something really stupid to you or something?

[MissScorpio]

Just a stupid young adult male and his dad.

[Theft]

Lol! What did they do? Yong adult males are the dumbest... but I wouldn’t think they are so bad as to have produced this post...

[boggboss]

Why is it somthing that u must tell the world repeatedly lol so u have high standards and are boring

[MissScorpio]

You love me.

[boggboss]

No u seem alright just crazy patronizing which is a little annoying and as u don't do anything fun we most likely wouldn't get on

[MissScorpio]

I do fun things. Medical school and premed is fun. I like horror movies.

[boggboss]

So movies that's fun but I wouldn't find you working as fun lol

[LiamSaw]

Thanks for the vote of confidence. We're not all like you describe.

[MissScorpio]

I meant some men, not all.

[LiamSaw]

I did get that, but just wanted to make sure.

[ok285]

Wdym? Treat like a princess?

[MissScorpio]

They'll literally use and manipulate certain women for sex. Good women. If they see a hot girl they like, they're like I'm gonna change my ways. They'll call a girl who slept with one guy a slut. But if the girl they liked slept with 500 guys, they'll be like she's hot and experienced.

[ok285]

True point

[anddy48793]

I think you are feeling horny... Lol

[Anonymous]

I was agreeing with your rant untill about the 4 or 5 sections down when all the complaints where strictly about how men are and how you know everythimg. You understand that everyman is different based on environment, living, culture and then personal values. You can't put us all together and state how we all are as a whole. But you do have one thing right and that you are 18 and you have an 18 year old mentality which is something not to brag about as that can easily be read from your writing which boldly states you know nothing. You a lot of growing up to, and on the contrary I have known couples who have been together from middle school and high school who are still together and married.

While you could have had a reasonable rant here you easily became blind by your personal grudges and or hate for something.

[MissScorpio]

The majority of men are stupid. I guess you're not the minority. Your wisdom is based on your life experience, not age.

[Opinion Owner]

Your response should have been the majority of people are stupid, to which I would agree. I'm aware of how wisdom is achieved, and you are correct, age doesn't determine how intelligent you are. But you can gain more insight and experience as that does come with age. so while you can believe you are wise, and maybe you are. But with your "wisdom"(not based on your age) you are very immature and narrow minded.

[MissScorpio]

I don't give a fuck. The smartest people alive were controversial. If people didn't like Jesus, why would they like me? 🤔 I obviously don't care. Different people with unique minds gonna have people saying stuff to them. But I obviously don't care. Like me or dislike me. Everyone's gonna have their opinions. I stanf l for what I believe in and I obviously don't care.

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said the majority of people are stupid, so they complain and hate for absolutely no reason to which I hope we can agree. I'm trying to like you and agree with you, but you're making it very difficult for people to take you seriously when you your self can't control your own personal grudges. You can believe what ever you want to believe, no one really cares but you're embarrasseing yourself when you strickly attack a topic that you're not entirely correct about.

[MissScorpio]

I don't need you to like or agree with me.