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Guys, Why do men care so much about what women think about their penis if their is no romantic interest?

I have this guy friend who texted me the other day when he was horny and wanted to show his penis. If you don't like a woman in an romantic way, its still important for you to show her? Why is it so important? Does it hurt your ego if we decline to see it? But if you don't care about us in a romantic way or a sexual way then it shouldn't matter? I guess what I am getting at is just showing your penis just an ego boost thing and it doesn't matter who sees it, its just that your horny? I would think it would mean something to a guy if they want that badly for you to see their penis. I am just curious because it seems like a real big deal to you men.
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Thanks for your answers. I am just trying to understanding why. Men and women think differently. It seemed really important to him but I just thought it should not matter what I think since I don't mean anything. thanks again in advance.
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  • I have literally never randomly shown my penis to any girl, friend or not.

    Even if I'm actively in a relationship with her, I don't just go "Here's my dick!" unless we're actually getting intimate. I don't understand guys that do that kind of thing. It's never even crossed my mind, to do that, and I have a very high sex drive.

    I would imagine it's because they're not only horny, but fucking retarded, on top of it. If that's the extent of their impulse control, then they need to get some help.

  • It is just an attempt to turn you on... girls tell us that they love our dicks and then we think we’ll may w if I send a puc of it we could have some fun!! It has nothing to do with our ego and if it dose heart our egos we will get over it!

    • I had this huge second speech planes out.. but then realized that I don’t know what your relationship status is... i has been thinking he was an friends with benefits...

    • I am single. No he is not, I hear from him once in a while.

    • Thanks for the MHO!

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  • Lol so nieve, he wants nudes in return.

    He doesn't need to romantically want you in order to want jerk it material from you. That's where men and women differ the most.

    • He didn't ask for nudes

    • Did you accept, look at, and positive comment his nude? Because the ask is only after that.

    • No I did not

  • It's not a big deal to normal guys. I don't know where you find yours, but you need to find a better source of guys.

    • I I agree completely with @God_Of_Thunder it's just retarded. There's are lots of guys who think that someone who that is just stupid. Look at the huys you hang around with. Look for commonalities. Do they work in the same jobs? Like the same music? What do they have in common? Are they from the same place? You just need to look at a different class of guy.

    • Sorry "who do that" I'm typing on my phone.

  • I think he just wants you to see it and let him know what you think of it. He probably just wants to know if its ok size and shape or if women will reject him for what he has. I guess this because he didn't ask for nudes, and I don't believe he wanted an exchange of nudes even though a lot of guys who send dick pics are looking for that. I think he just wants your input. I have a female lesbian friend that actually asks to see guys dicks just out of her curiosity. Even though she doesn't even like men. she's just random like that. I think he is the same way.

  • cause you don't need "romantic interest" to fuck.

  • He wanted sex with you or wack off material from your response. Penises are very needy with or without romance. They make guys do dumb shit. He may have felt bad after he did it but when penis is hard sex is imperative for guys and logical thinking is out the friggin window. He may not be a bad person or obsessive with his penis, just needed to release pressure

  • I imagine the same reason women love to parade cleavage, ass cheeks, curves, makeup and hair around men they have no interest in.

    • I don't like to parade my private areas around. I am just asking about men.

  • They are horny as u said. So dont respond and block

  • I think he was horny and wanted some company, or he may just be exhibitionist

  • l dont care as my penis is very small only 7inch long and slim to fat l need a hot girl

  • because dick size matters to some extend.

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