If men can't get raped, how can women?

[WildGoat]

Firstly I am not making a joke out of rape. Everyone is vulnerable to rape and it is a serious thing. I am asking this question just to question some hypocrisy and stereotypes. I amen't saying rape is OK or isn't a horrible thing. So just to keep that very clear as to not upset anyone. Ok?

So the other day me and my friends were kinda debatign whilst playing playstation. All of my friends pretty much said that guys cannot be raped by girls. Their reasoning was "Guys like sex so how would it be a bad thing, wouldn't we just end up enjoying it a bit". I completely disagreed with this and I said that girls can definitely rape guys. But then I brought it up with some friends who are girls and even my family. I was shocked to see that even girls think this. They all laughed and were like "guys are horny animals, you would end up liking it". I just disagree with this.

Because if this applies to guys why doesn't it apply to girls? Girls like sex as much as guys. They are just as horny. So if guys would just end up liking it why doesn't this apply to girls too? Guys and girls behave the exact same when it comes to sex. They masturbate all the time and also enjoy casual sex, even. Like most girls love to fuck some random dude every now and then, just like guys.

So now that we have established that when it comes to sex, guys and girls are pretty much the exact same (actually I would say women are more horny and have sex with more people than guys). So if the idea that guys can't be raped because they'd enjoy it, why doesn't this apply to girls too? If a girl was being raped an attractive guy, wouldn't she just end up liking? If this applies to guys it should apply to girls.

[ImagineSketchy]

I mean, think of it like forcing yourself into an orifice that can bleed if stretched too far. Say you're above average, and of course you stretch said orifice, causing damage to it, and if it had feelings, pain. This in a nutshell is what is happening to a woman with rape. Sure men and women enjoy sex, but it doesn't mean that we want it all the time. Forcing a woman to have sex is awful for both parties honestly... It's like needing more lube but not having enough (if you actually use lube) but continuing to get off. Women have to be consensual with it because their body and mind allow the process making things easier and enjoyable for all parties in the act. Also, women are on average, physically weaker than men so it's easier for a man to rape a woman. It is quite possible for a woman to rape a man, but it's not as easy as overpowering a woman, as the woman or women, would have to sedate the male or rend him unconscious. After that would have to come to restraints and etc. It's quite possible, just really unnecessary as women don't have as hard a time finding someone that wants to have sex with them and they don't have to force it.
Both sexes (genders, whatever the fuck you want to call them), can be raped. It's just a lot easier for a man to rape a woman than vice versa.

[Dchrls78104]

Rape isn't about sex, it's about violence and the abuse of power.

[lb2013]

Men can definitely be raped. It is sad how some people believe that men can't be raped. I actually had a friend he was very promiscuous in California when he was in college. told me a story of how to women slipped something in his drink and he got a little woozy. They then both took him to a room and tied him up I think it was handcuffs. and they both took turns raping him without a condom and one of the girls was like really have to be so he was super upset. Good-looking guy and everything. and to this day like my heart hurts at that happened to him, while he was super intoxicated. And I doubt he reported it but to this day he does tell the story to people.

[ciitruskiwi]

I don't understand why people are flipping their shit over what you said? Yeah when I read your question I was like "wtf are you serious?" but then I read your description and your question is fine.

For the record men can get raped. Erections don't just happen because you enjoy something, it happens because of stimulation.

[Anonymous]

Women only like sex as much as guys if it's with the right person

[DinaM]

Anyone who says men can get raped is WRONG. Pure and simple.

[WildGoat]

Exactly but using their argument - wouldn't women also end up enjoying it?

[DinaM]

Their argument is total bull. There's no point in even using it because it does not have anything to do with reality. Any argument that takes on the "X can't be raped" stanza isn't worth giving the time of day. You might tell your friends that back in Ancient Greece, WOMEN were the ones seen as being sex-obsessed horny animals, while MEN were seen as above letting their bodies rule them. Very often the "universal truths that everyone knows" aren't that universal. Or that true.

[DinaM]

--- are you high or something?

[WildGoat]

You just said you agreed with me? And yes women are much more sex-obsessed than guys. Guys want love and girls want dick

[DinaM]

I think you want a reality check.

[WildGoat]

Even Greeks agreed with me? And don't tell me girls love sex because they obviously do

[DinaM]

That was something "everyone knew" in ancient Greece. Just as now, "everyone knows" that MEN are sex-obsessed animals. I just told you: Things that "everyone knows" aren't always true. But I don't think you really mean any of it. I think you're just trolling. So, since we're clearly not going to have a productive conversation here, I shall bid you good day.

[JanuaryCanine]

Please tell me you are a troll. It’s extremely narrowminded of you to say men can’t get raped, anyone can regardless of gender.

[WildGoat]

Oh my God did you even bother to read the details?

[JanuaryCanine]

Yes I did and still can’t understand why you would even ask a question like this?

[WildGoat]

No you didn't because you would have read that I disagree with that statement.

[JanuaryCanine]

Yet you’re still asking this question?

[WildGoat]

I am asking the question under the pretences of that statement. If that statement is to be belived it makes no sense but girls are whores, just like guys are. Get what I am saying?

[JanuaryCanine]

I understand what you’re saying but that statement is not how real life works at all, so why bother even putting it out there? Rape is wrong and not enjoyable for anyone.

[dantetheexplorer]

Rape is defined by most people and by the laws in most states as sex without consent. The FBI defines rape as “penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim."

I want you to read the part on CONSENT. If English is not your first language, and even if it is, I would suggest you go look up the meaning of the word in the dictionary.

Your "logic" that just because men can't be raped (a false premise, as many have already stated) automatically translates to women not being able to rape because people enjoy sex, is incredibly idiotic and spurious because the main pillar of rape is the lack of consent.

Do you honestly think that all women will enjoy a stranger or a close friend of theirs forcing sexual intercourse upon them when they clearly have no intention of wanting that intercourse to begin with?

Your "logical" leap that just because you and your mates enjoy sex - and that you'll enjoy being raped - somehow translates to women enjoying rape is... mind-blowingly idiotic. Because the premise - that men enjoy rape - is obviously false.

*Trigger warning*
Have you ever been raped by a woman who brutally rams a dildo up your ass without your consent? Over and over again until your entire inside is bleeding out?

If you haven't, you don't have a leg to stand on and your entire "logical" house of cards collapses like the flimsy structure it is.

You know what, I'm glad you're 20.
Because if you were 30 or above and the 'logic' you've displayed here is the full extent of your critical thinking skills, it might be tough for you to fit in with adult society, much less get a job.

[SugarBlossom]

It is more common for women to be raped and more difficult to rape a man because men are usually stronger than women.

[dwiller943]

Because men are very impulsive and aggressive
towards women than women are compared to men.

[Midnight_Kiss]

I think it boils down to that in some countries rape is only classed as rape if the victim is penetrated therefore on those grounds a woman can only rape a man by penetration using props.

[CuChullan]

www.nzherald.co.nz/.../article.cfm

And the above wasn't the only time. It also happened recently in Ireland. An ex raped at knifepoint.

[awesometjgreen]

Well actually guys can be raped. Your not taking into consideration the rapist being a gay man fucking him in the ass or one of those dominant women with a strap on. And what about a really fat ugly or old woman rapist 😐 you wouldn't enjoy that...

[Anonymous]

Men can be raped but the thing is, most men would love it (if it was a beautiful woman). On the other hand, they wouldn't like it if it was some ugly or fat woman attacked them and raped them.

[Anonymous]

Rape is when you didn't give permission... men can be... and so can woman.

[Anonymous]

sorry but men can't get raped and thats a fact.