Girls, Is it normal to get tired from masturbation/being fingered?

[Anonymous]

With my first boyfriend, I used to loved being fingered. When it came to my third boyfriend, at beginning of our relationship, I loved it when he fingered me. Overtime I grew tired of it and I always knew when he wanted to finger me, I wouldn't be too excited for it, I would be more in the mood to cuddle. Fast forward to my current boyfriend (long-distance too), we've been having phone sex and I had rarely masturbated before him, so during the first few times I was enjoying it but now I'm just getting tired of it. Is it weird? Is it normal? I feel like I'm tired of it because I never gave a blowjob or had sex, so finger is really boring for me now.

[close2heaven]

you crave more than just that. it's become old with another guy and you've lost that connection with yourself. I think the only thing is to try and incorporate new things to your masturbation sessions, yet be vocal about your desires with a guy.

[Anonymous]

It's Perfectly Normal to get tired of doing the same things over and over. That's why you have to try different things. Don't do it the same way every time or that method will get old and can possibly desensitize you from other methods as well