How to overcome for real the fear of having sex for the first time?
There is a friend of mine who is a virgin still but she is almost 40 and she was considering or still considering loosing her virginity to a guy she met 3 years ago and she is very attracted to, they are not dating though or have a relationship they are like friend but t hey are not strangers, or he is not a guy she jsut met one month ago to put it in some way. They had been on dates just twice and the msot intimate thing they have done together is they had made out in both dates. The guy had proposed to her to have sex becaue he told her they alreayd know eahc other and it is time after 3 years of knowing each other even if they had gone out just 2 times in dates but they had seen each other in other random times but not like in dates.
The guy knows she is a virgin and told her once he did not mind. So she assumed that if he does not mind it means taht if they do it eventually he wil treat her right and softly and not do crazy stuff that is what she assumes he even told her once he will treat her right but one thing is saying and anotehr thing is when it actual happens when itis the heat of the moment for both of them,
She feels taht if she doe s nto do it with this guy beause she is attracted to him and she is not a stranger she won't know if she will ever l do it when she is like 50 for example or she will never have the pleasure of enjoy sex like any other human average person out there but even with that in mind, sh eis still have the fear of the penetration and she asks herself if she ever will over come that fear otherwise she will never do it with this guy or with any other guy cause she will be always with fear with any guy this one or other one. She told me the thought of a guy a
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