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So should I tell my sis I walk in on her daughter performing oral on a guy? Or just talk to my niece?

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  • It's not your place. Depending on how old your niece is, it's probably not a big deal. At least you can't get pregnant that way.

    If anything, maybe talk to the niece on the down-low and recommend that she at least have the sense not to do that kind of thing in a house full of family members XD

    But honestly, I assume she's a teen. It's pretty normal behavior. No need to call in the authorities, IMHO.

    • She 14 and I know it's normal but I don't know if someone has had the talk with her

    • hahaha! If she's doing THAT, it's too late for "the talk", don't ya think? Besides, Sex-ed is like... 5th or 6th grade. She already knows.

    • she is WAY too young to be doing that! tell the mother!!

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  • If your niece is over 18 then don't do either. Just stay out of it. If she is underage then speak to your sister, she has a duty of care and should be made aware.

    • She is 14

    • Then speak to your sister. Talking to your niece would be inappropriate without her mother knowing because it's her mother's job.

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  • Depends how her Mum would react, but in most cases yes I think you should since your niece is so young. Hopefully the Mom will be sensible about it so that your niece can trust you both and heed your advice on these sensitive types of things, but if she knows you caught her and she’s comfortable with you it might be an idea for you to talk to her about it too and make your sister aware.

    • Of your sister is very strict then I’d say have the talk with her yourself, and then tell your sister if you think she won’t over react. The key is to create a situation where your niece has someone sensible they can trust to guide them who they feel comfortable confinding in. Strict parents tend to create rebellious children and create the opposite desired outcome.

    • I know you have loyalty to your sister, but I kind of think the priority here is protecting your niece by creating a way of guiding her in the right direction.

    • I talk to my niece and she scared to tell her mom ( my sister )

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  • If I was caught in such a situation (which I’d never be)
    I would want my aunt to address me, don’t bring the family into.

    • Okay I'll talk to her then thank u

    • she's underage you need to tell your sister.

    • What good can come from telling the mother rather than the aunt directly having a conversation with her niece? Especially if the mother is strict as she stated.

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  • How old is she, and what is her relationship with your sister like?

    • 14 and bad. My sis is very strict

    • Well, it, of course, depends on your relationship with her, but I would suggest talking to her yourself. While I don't think that setting her strict mother on her ould be the correct thing — it will only strain relations, and as a teenager, she will only want to engage in forbidden acts more — I would suggest talking to her. You don't need to get specific about sex, but make sure that she is being safe/consensual/protected/unpressured and all that. If you feel comfortable with this, I would also recommend stressing that she can talk to you about this whenever; even if she really does need to talk about something to do with boys or sex, she probably won't go to her mother out of fear of retribution. This way she has a responsible adult to discuss such matters with and seek guidance (this is important) without having her natural maturing process to be limited by overstrict parenting (this is also important). Balance the pros and cons, but that is my recommendation.

  • How old is her daughter?

    • She is 14

    • Tell the mother. If the guy was over the age of 16, call the police.

  • Depends on the sis. If she is a bitch then try talking to your niece directly, but if she will handle it in a level headed fashion then it is probably better to tell her.

    Of course, depending on the age of the girl and guy you could always just ignore it, up to you.

  • I like the "Either you tell your mom, or I will" option. That gives your niece some chance at a controlled release of the issue (which you should totally view as you being merciful, doing her a courtesy, iow don't let her make you feel guilty!), while still making it clear to your niece you won't keep something like that from your sis. If she really wails about it, point out that you're not the one who did this and you're not the one who's been so careless that you got walked in on.

  • If she is under age, then call the police.

    Tell the girl in front of her parents.

    • I would never call the police

    • Then you are an accomplice to a crime (if she is under age). You should go to jail over it.

  • Depends on how old she is. But never tell you sis, that's the worst way to do it. Speak about it with your niece in a sweet way

    • Okay I'll take her out for ice cream

    • no! tell the mother! she needs to learn to stop acting like a little whore. rewarding her for ice cream? what the hell?

    • rewarding her with*

  • How old?

  • tell your sister!

  • Depends on how old she is

  • Take responsibility as an adult.

    • What would you feel & expect if it was ur daughter & ur sister say that

  • Talk to your niece first. May be she can explain

  • id tell the mother

  • How old is she?

  • Why would you tell her? It's not your problem

  • It's better to let go, how old is she anyway?

  • nope im sure you wouldn't like someone telling your daugther was doing that, eh?

  • Tell by all means, but you will never be trusted again. Say nothing and forget it. Unless she is underage. In which case, talk to the niece.

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