How can I overcome this?

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I have a great fear. I’m scared of the future and I hate the liberal agenda. Interracial dating is very common and this bothers me. Mainly black guys dating white women. People make it out like all white girls just love black men and this hurts me. I like black people I am friends with some black guys but I just hate them when I see them with white women. It makes me feel inferior and my self esteem plummets. I can depressed as I realize the liberal agenda to make all white women like black men has succeeded. I don’t think I am racist, I don’t care when I see white guys with black women. That doesn’t bother me. The only interracial couple which bothers me is ww and bm ones. I guess it’s because they are very common, and are promoted. I also only watch black men with white women porn, not sure why. Everytime I log on here I see people saying white women refuse to date white guys. Then I click onto porn and see how much BBC porn there is - even amateur. If ameteur BBC is porn is common - that means it’s even more common IRL right? I also see a lot of black men with whites women on the internet (YouTube & social media). This all feeds my sadness as I believe that white girls love black men. I feel like black men are just doing it to punish white guys. Am I just jealous of them? It seems like black guys get so many white girls. Why does it bother me so much? What’s wrong with me? I didn’t used to be like this by the way. Do you have any advice? Should I just accept that the liberals have won and own the world and that every white girl loves black men and has slept with them? How can I accept this so that I won’t be sad? Everytime I see a white girl or black guy now, I think to myself, “oh she probably has been with black guys/ only likes black” and when I see the guy I think “he is probably dating a white girl and has slept with many white women” It’s ruining my life. Please what can I do?

annaboyd333 · Accepted Answer

I think your reality may be skewed by the websites you are visiting, because statistically, same-race couples are the most common. Personally I feel like some ww liking bm is not a problem: it is refreshing to see centuries of racial barriers be broken and that people can love who they love. I don't mean to be rude here, but it seems like your self esteem is a problem more than any political agenda, especially seeing as you only see ww and bm porn. I think if you talk through your insecurities with someone, perhaps even a professional, you may be able to accept this specific interracial pairing.

I am saying this because there is nothing wrong with any kind of interracial relationship, or same race relationship. Relationships are about love and attraction, not race. And once again, statistically white women tend to date within their own race, and even if they didn't, this should not bother you. I am sorry about the effect on your self esteem, that seems hard, but I encourage you not to direct that anger or negative feeling that stems from your insecurity towards interracial couples. Feel free to message me if you want to talk about your insecurities, but I suggest also talking through this with a friend or loved one or a professional if you see fit.

SamA_nold · Accepted Answer

In what world are white women pushed to date black guys? It's a preference. People love who they love, not because they were told to love that person or type of person specifically.

miagrace00 · Accepted Answer

Ngl as a mixed raced person I do find this offensive..

jjmm1995 · Accepted Answer

No matter what these comments say above, even if it “offends” people.. you can feel however you want. You can even be racist if you want. I don’t mind anyone being with whoever makes them happy, but you are free to feel how you want

EmperorOfRussia · Accepted Answer

Do you know what would solve your problem? A REPORT!  😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Reported for being "offensive". Nice try to troll the right side and white guys, but nope.