I find that when a guy makes no sound I get worried that he's not enjoying himself that much. So I like it when they make sound but that includes talking. Especially if I'm not yet sure of what he does and doesn't like in bed. So I guess I'd have no prob with silence if I already had a good idea what he liked or if he gave me a heads up on his nonverbal cues like squeezing my hand when he likes what I'm doing and tapping it when when he wants me to switch to something else. If he told me what he was into before we got down to it or helped guide me through it the first few times then silence probably wouldn't bother me.
Ultimately I just want some form of communication.1 0 0 0It’s the hottest fucking thing ever. Makes me weak in the knees.
1 1 0 0I love that phrase-- weak in the knees.
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It just doesn't come naturally. I mean, it would be like making a duck noise when I sneeze. I hear girls say that moaning is actually natural for them, that they don't physically have to make it happen. That's not the case for me. No part of me is compelled to moan. If I do it then it's put on, it's "faked".
1 0 0 0Self confidence thing? Insecurity? Lol no it's not either of those. We make noise when we want to because it feels too good not to; if we aren't moaning then it doesn't feel that way. Pretty simple.
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6 11Well in my case, I'm quiet because I don't know what sounds to make, I'm not sexual so there isn't anything pleasurable in it for me, meaning I'm conciously thinking "should I react to that? How should I react? What sound should I make?" and staying quiet is usually a better option than trying to moan but ending up sounding like a cat purring
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It’s hot 🔥🔥
1 1 0 0I think guys that don't moan are self conscious of how they will sound to the girl they are with. Like some of my sounds kind of sound funny to me and even my voice to me isn't that great, but to some it seems sexy. You just never know how you're going to come across to someone else and really some strong moans can come out of my mouth at times that I wasn't expecting and couldn't hold back.
Also, some guys just DON'T make noises for much of anything really and that's their norm.2 0 0 0I do but my boyfriend is very quiet 😮
1 2 0 0*moans*
That's how it should be.
@Anon-ymous1 how come? I'd want to hear something lol maybe his breath?
Not when he's next to me on the subway
5 1 0 0It's amazing, but only if it comes naturally.
1 1 0 0I was afraid to moan for the longest time, and it was a self confidence thing. Now I'm comfortable with myself and I say fuck it. Whatever comes out, comes out.
1 0 0 0Good for you! 🙌
Hell yea 😋
it is very hot
1 0 0 0i grunt xD
1 0 0 0I am not afraid to moan. If she likes it then definitely I can be vocal. I am mostly vocal only when I am cumming.
1 0 0 0I am not afraid to moan I simply don't feel like moaning. It's hot that pleasuring for guys
1 0 0 0If your not breathing when your cunning your not moaning if your not moaning your not really experiencing an orgasm so then your not replenishing sex at the time... yes mismanagement chums out your mouth she's going to be turned on by it
1 0 0 0I'm for sure a moaner. Girls don't seem to care
1 0 0 0It makes me wet
1 0 0 0Isn't it a turn off for girls?
0 0 0 0I do it if I'm very pleasured.
1 0 0 0The sexiest thing is when my friends with benefits is close to silent for a while and until he can't hold back anymore and lets out one deep, rough moaning sound. Holy shit sometimes I could cum just from hearing that.
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