How often did you masturbate before/after your first/last time having sex?

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I never masturbated before losing my virginity but my ex did finger me. It really didn't loosen me up much. Plus he didn't finger me that same day. I think he did it days before. Having sex hurt like a bit. Anyways, i stopped having sex for 8 years after that and started masturbating like 5 years after that first time. I was addicted to masturbation for like 3 months and was doing it anywhere everywhere. My hand was basically dead afterwards haha. I quit for like 3 months and then started back but only did it like twice a month if that. So like now my boyfriend and i just had sex for the first time after those 8 years. I haven't masturbated in a few months, yet it didn't really hurt as bad this time. I don't know if that's cause i had somewhat gotten used to taking it. Anyways, now that we’re ldr again, i haven't really been interested in masturbating. Maybe im too stuck on the real thing now? I don't know. I thought he’s not wanna masturbate anymore but he was basically down to jerk off the next day i flew home. Why did he get hornier but not me? He says the sex was great and i believe it and agree, yet my sex drive has kinda decreased while his has grown. Like i love to share the deets, but i dont really care to cum. I just honestly wanna be pregnant but i feel guilty wanting to be because ik he's not ready #CumToMe #FeelFreeToList #BestWayToBate

Don_Law · Accepted Answer

Yea if the wind blows just right my dick gets hard I don't know about other guys but it takes willpower not to jack off (even when I'm having sex regularly) I limit myself to once a week. The only time I masturbate before sex is if I'm going on a date & I need my mind clear... or if I'm gonna be wearing dress pants (polyester & hard dick are NOT a good combination)

After my first time I think I did it every single day thinking about her. After My last time having sex yea he's always awake but like I said I limit myself (unless she decides to wake him up)

... I remember my first time masturbating looking back on it I was a nasty little boy🤣(thts one story im taking to my GRAVE☠⚰)

Trex706 · Accepted Answer

It makes no difference. I orgasm every day usually at least twice. I love masturbation but sex is always preferred. I take extended breaks sometimes but that's more cuz teasing and supressing primal desires for long periods of time only makes it more enjoy once u finally give in

Hannahbrewer2003 · Accepted Answer

I started doing it around 10 and I’ve been doing it everyday pretty much since... I usually try to make time for it at least 2x a day today... sex hand never really changed that for me

desidoll · Accepted Answer

Not that often. It actually made me hornier. Masturbation doesn't really work for me.

Hannah02004 · Answer

Use to do it ALL the time before I lost my virginity. Sometimes 1 or 2 times a night or day, sometimes 4 or 5.

QueenofCups · Answer

Patience sweetie. You'll be married soon nuff. Then you can worry bout having a baby.

Jjpayne · Answer

Well #virgin and I'll say that I've gotten hard but never released

Bruce_VVayne · Answer

Just if I talk about my masturbation routine, it is mostly every night before I sleep, but yesterday it was three times. Sometimse it is one or two, it can change due to my state. If it is a really busy day, I don't even care.

Hans222 · Answer

Very rarely... my libido is limited. Maybe I need to up my testosterone production haha :D

TripleAce · Answer

I’m balanced and consistent lol... always have... not excessively... and not too little... just enough to feel satisfied

girlfriend or not... around the same... before and after sex... around the same lol
Consistent hahah

Prankster13 · Answer

I tended to be hornier after sex same as him. But after a little while without it died down for me.. but it does come back after a long while. So I would be in that three month stage right now.

Dargil · Answer

More after, because my sexual fantasies proved to be all true. I had more mind stimulation to work with.

Swaggirl1 · Answer

Girl I do it every night

Pink2000 · Answer

I haven’t done anything in 2 months

NicolaJ35 · Answer

Usually once or twice a day at least

KingDio · Answer

Cos he's got a taste of it, built up and releasing , now probably jacking it more then he tells you

Udbhav_Bantwal · Answer

Before my first time, not a lot like I could probably my count it on one hand and after that whenever I was horny I'd just call one of my booty calls...

mysticghost · Answer

When you're in a steady relationship and are having sex regularly (more than 4 times a week, at least) a guy doesn't really feel the need to jack off, unless his SO turns him on over the phone or via text and he wants the release.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I was having regular sex for 2 years before I ever masturbated. When I did finally do it, I found it totally depressing. I rarely did it again after that.

nico333 · Answer

I masturbate an average of once per day. Or a bit less. Before first time. And in general, when I am not having sex. Which is now, because I am single.