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Sexual tension between my boyfriends dad and I... What to do?

I don't know what to do anymore, I really love my boyfriend of 4yrs... But for some time now I've felt physically attracted to my boyfriends dad that It's so weird because he does things that'll makes me flustered... Like when he walks pass me in the lounge or wherever I just feels like we're going to have "a moment" He always walks so closely to me while breathing loudly like a turn on sigh. I've tested him out and sometimes when I've worn things to turn him on I've caught him touching and holding his you know what while staring. He often asking me to do things for him like wash the dishes as he stands at the dinner table. I've even cleant the lounge where I had to jump up to put the curtain back up and he told me to jump and I did because I knew what was up he just wanted to see my ass shake and so I gave him what he wanted to see because it's just hard not to tease anymore and I'll be honest if there weren't complications we would have probably already slept together by now.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't know WTF to say. I'm going to be honest, I don't really like you all that much. You say you "love" your boyfriend, but you fantasize about fucking with his own dad, and not only that, but you "tested" him trying to get him to come up on you. I think your kinda sick and maybe you don't deserve your boyfriend. Before you start shit talking me, how would you feel if your boyfriend said this exact message, except it was about the sexual tension between him and your mom. Wouldn't you feel undesired and cheated on in a way. How do you thing he would feel if he were to read this and know it was you who wrote this. finding out how you "tested" his dad by jumping to make your butt jiggle.

    • I'm sure everyones thinking the same as you but I really just came on here to get some clarity and to see if anyone has been through this situation as I have and I understand there's a thing called being human but damn you didn't have to cal me sick but anyways thankyou for helping me understand, and God bless 😊

  • The only way it can work with any chance of not destroying your relationship is to be literally open about it. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him what's going on. Be calm, direct, and matter of fact. If he's okay with it, then seduce his dad.

    Here're some tips:
    How to Talk to Your SO About Sex ↗

    • I have been so open about this situation with him even with my psychiatrist, but he completely just ignores it all even tells me he doesn't want to know...

    • That sounds to me like he's not jealous but would rather be in denial. That's his choice. If you want to go for it, you have to be discreet but he hasn't objected so think about going for it.

    • Appreciate the feedback :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • If your boyfriend is as young as you then he is going to have issues for the rest of his life. I wouldn't blame you but the father sounds like a real asshole here. Infatuation is not worth mentally fucking your boyfriend.

    • True.

  • I would say time to get out of the relationship. You are causing more harm than good.

    • Thankyou and true I don't wanna do something stupid.

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  • Stop being a thot. Have some dignity.

    • You don't know me but thanks for your kind words...

    • Hmm... Piece of shit lovely:)

    • You seem unashamed of what you are doing so yes, it's an accurate description.

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  • Break up with your boyfriend, I'd say its fine to play around and not touch, with others (even then, THIS is a bit much.) But that's his dad, you're going to destroy him, he won't be able to talk to anyone about this, and likely eventually commit suicide, so you either cut ties and turn on the DILF quick or you cuck your boyfriend with his own father, or hey if you're into it, they can tag team you.

    • Yeah I get that, I truth and thanks a lot for you're advice I appreciate because it helps me get a piece of mind:)

    • Glad I could help, Hope the thought of them tag teaming you wasn't too much lol, Good luck with this

    • Hahha no it's ok lol and sweet as have a good one aye :)

  • All I can say is “WOW”

    • 😊😊😊

    • So many questions

  • My guess is the 1995 November edition of Penthouse? Do I at least have the right year of where you copied this story?

    • Huh, no this is my real life stuff I'm going through lol.

  • Just have sex with him. Your boyfriend may become your stepson.

    • Thanks for your sense of humour made laugh I appreciate it since others are being quite rude lol haha

  • Simply don't do it! It would be incredibly hurtful to your b/f and his dad doing that means he pretty much sucks at being a dad. There are many men out there, if you prefer mature men then go find one to seduce without creating a horrible mess.

    • Thanks for the advice appreciate it

  • There are few thing you can do.
    Either do what you want or stop going to his house because he desires you and you desire him badly.
    In the end, it will happen if you keep going like this.

    • It's kinda hard not to go to the house as I live with them aha... But thankyou I appreciate every bit of advice it helps:)

    • you are welcome (: if you keep doing like this, you will yourself in his bed. What's worse is that it will be with your consent

    • Thanks a lot dude appreciate :)

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  • Honestly only one way.. Take logical control over your emotional state and realize that you love your boyfriend... And keep your damn legs closed.

    • Thanks for you're advice much appreciated and I'll be honest I've always got my legs closed, I've literally slept with only 3 people and thats including my current partner so he's the 3rd lol

    • I completely understand Sorry if it came across as abrasive, but in those situations you have to remember who you love..

    • Exactly and it's my boyfriend, and thanks a heaps for the advice

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  • Do you really want to be with him or like the attention he is giving you? That is the main thing to consider. Have you and your boyfriend slowed down in sex or is it a little boring now? So many questions. Can you really see yourself having sex with your bf's dad or just like teasing him?

    • I'll be honest it is the attention but I've always liked older men looking at me and it has gotten a little dull but I won't give up I suppose that's what happens when you're with someone for a while

    • That does happen. Have you tried mixing things up or trying new stuff? I am trying to look at it from all 3 perspectives. How you would feel, your boyfriend, and his dad. Bad thing is I'm probably the same age as the dad. You just have to think about it. You and your boyfriend have been together for 4 years. He probably doesn't look at you the same way anymore as his dad does. So is it really the attention? I could bring up many things, but not sure if you want to here.

    • No I'd like to hear, that is why I posted on here to hear everyone's opinion from their own perspective.

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  • Get fucked. What's the big deal.

    • My love for my boyfriend will just wash down the drain so I'm just trying to find n understanding within myself:)

    • Hmm.

  • just think about how you will shatter your BFs heart and kill the relationship between him and his dad.. Keep it a fantasy you get yourself on..

    • Will do thanks heaps it helped my thought process :)

    • my pleasure.. any time

  • Poor boyfriend.

  • Daddy issues much?

    • Been waiting :')

    • Lol not trying to insult anyone.. You're currently nailing his son 😂 don't you feel alittle guilty?

    • True, and if your intention were to not insult anymore then why? And maybe I do have daddy issues who knows... But anyways if I seriously did not feel any sense of guilt I would of fucked his dad by now but I'm not about to commit adultery

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  • its not uncommon or weird.

    • I know it's so normal for these thing s to happen but I wish I didn't look like a bad person for it...

  • game is on.

  • You gonna ruin ur relationship by acting like this

    • Cheers I know:) I wish it wasn't like this...

    • I understand you have fetish like attracted to his dad

    • Possible haha or maybe I have daddy issues lol :D

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  • You dirty whore. Shame on you.

    • Seriously I'm not offended.

    • You weren’t supposed to be

    • Then why waste your time honestly you're acting as if I'm the only person in the world that has done s.

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  • Well if you're gonna be like that then your boyfriend should fuck some other female in your family.

    • True, but I guess he's not like that.

  • Let him blow his balls down your throat before a definite decision us made.

    • Aha...

  • if you loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't have feelings for others

    • True...

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