Is it weird I want to hold my boyfriends penis while he pees to see what it feels like?

First of all please don't judge me, it's a kink I'm fascinated with but don't have the courage to ask him, I'm afraid he will go hard and unable to finish.. What should I do? Should I just forget this whole idea? You can go anonymous if you want...
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  • Hahaha, my ex wanted to try that. Personally, I thought it was sort of fun.
    Could also be a fun kink to pretend his arms or hands are broken, and you're his caretaker.
    Bring it up, and go for it! Just hold it lightly, and don't constrict the urethra. If you don't want him immediately sprouting to attention, it may be best to do it after sex.
    But if it becomes part of a kink like the aforementioned, well. 😉

  • Its probably a pee fetish you have I don't know dosenr matter but yeah i dont think you just strai hold it because for sure he isn't gonna be hable to finish maybe start by looking then get closer sn other time and closer and then maybe
    And maybe he can like it if im able to its probably great

    • Thank you so much for the advice

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  • Definitely talk to him about it. I have this fascination as well, and it only helped to open up to my partner about it. I got to explore in it and experience it, it's a very powerful feeling.

  • Ufff 😍, u know what i holded my bf's penis once when he was peeing and he got a boner. I started shaking it and it splashed everywhere. 😂

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  • Just normal curiosity. He'll probably be happy to let you.

    Not weird at all.

  • hahaha! My wife wanted to do that. I let her. She was unimpressed :D It's just a meat tube. If you lay your finger on the underside, you feel the liquid moving through the urethra. Other than that, it's just a dick.

    Correction: It's a penis. It's only a slang term when it's trying get some!

  • Not weird, at all. At leazt not from my perspective.

    I had an ex that used to do the exact same thing. She asked me about it, one day, and I didn't have a problem with it, at all. It was kind of cute, actually.

  • You're just curious, so why not hold his penis and see what if feels like. It's not like you plan on holding it every time. If he goes hard, just let go, and let him aim, as that will then be necessary. So, just ask, let him know you are curious, and most bf's would say OK.

  • No, that's actually rather normal. (Don't get me wrong, I still found it odd when my ex asked to do that same thing.)

  • No, this is actually very common. Many women enjoy this.
    Even if he does go hard, he can still angle himself. Teenage boys waking up with morning wood have been doing it for generations.

    • If he has an actual erection, not some weak semi hard one, he’ll piss all over the place 😄. That shit can cannot be angled if rigidly hard which is why morning wood sucks when having to pee and having to pee bad bug need the boner to go down a little to be able to point Down a little at toilet so it’s not a mess

    • @brennanhuff You don't angle the wiener; you angle your body first, THEN your wiener. Of course, you might have to angle your body a lot.

  • Here's a tip. Peeing after sex is pretty common. He is unlikely to get hard right after cumming. Go for it.

  • I don't think it's weird. But I agree with you about your concern that he will get hard really fast and that will mess up his urine stream. Just the idea of a girl holding your penis while you pee is a turn on, and that's on top of the fact that she'd be holding it. But go ahead and ask him if you can try it. Maybe you could do it in a secluded place outdoors so if the stream gets crazy if he gets hard it won't make a mess.

  • Not at all. My girlfriend loves doing that and I let her

  • I haven't done it per se but while cumming the guy did pee n i was holding it for about 3 secs

  • Ask him. I wouldn't vare if you did, most guys probably wouldn't mind either.
    The trick would be to hild it very loosely as pressure prevents urine flow. More like just supporting it.

  • that's a fun idea really... go for it if you and your boyfriend have a really open communication, it would be nice to just pee while your girlfriend is doing that other stuff lol

  • Yes you should tell him..
    He will gladly guide you on how to hold and Aim its like garden hose..
    And best if you do it in open so it doesn't stink..
    Yeah..
    He will get hard..
    So you can only do this right after he ejaculated..
    If he pees in his refractory stage.. He won't get hard on..
    And you get to sprinkle your dream

  • Everyone have things they are curious about ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ you don't have a penis so what is so weird about it? What if your boyfriend was curious about something to do with your vagina? Would you find him weird then?

  • Ok well to me it's ok to ask that I mean if you have certain kink that requires him its alright to ask an us guys get hard sometimes when we go just gotta aim a bit more.

  • It is weird, yeah.

    I'm pretty shy so I don't know if I could go if someone was watching me, let alone holding me.

    But if my girlfriend asked, I'd say we can give it a try.

    But really, a lot of guys have trouble peeing if there is a guy standing next to him, so with a girl actually holding his unit, might be tough.

    But hey, let your kink flag fly proudly and ask.

    Or you can be making out, and in the heat of the moment say "Hey, is there anything kinky you'd ever want to try? No? Well, I'd love to hold your penis while you pee. Can we give it a shot sometime?"

    or

    "Hey, is there anything kinky you'd ever want to try? Wow, cool, I'd totally be into that. We should try that. Hey, and I got something too. I'd love to hold your penis while you pee. Can we give it a shot sometime?"

    So, yeah, never heard of a girl wanting to do that, but it is not that big of deal, so go for it.

  • No, heck he'd probably like having it aimed for him!

  • This is retarded

  • hmmm wow that is actually kind of hot haha i like the idea!

    • if you want you can always hold my huge big guy when i pee! ;P

  • My girlfriends always wanted to do that. Nothing odd

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