Why is my 51 year old man partner always horny?

[Leomar18]

We been for little over 6 years together, iam much younger then him, is about 20 years older, I would think or thought Old man or older don’t have the same sexual desires at the age. We are always haveing sex 3-times a week sometimes 4-5 times, he drinks occasionally on weekends none smoker , no drugs, he’s at healthy weight 200 pounds , He doesn’t watch porn or magazines of any kind. I love him and he adores so much, he claims iam the best thing ever has happened to him. But when I see this kind of behavior it confuses me, thinking i can’t please him sexually enough. always saying if I gave him more sex he will stop doing all things that make me uncomfortable and mostly sad. Getting horny with sexually scenes or just girls or woman with bikinis on tv or at the pool or just in public, he says he’s not taking viagra, Can ya give me some advice, or anybody went through this?

[MrOracle]

You turn him on and he seems happy and says he is happy - why are you so determined to look for trouble where none exists?

Relax and quit overthinking.

[Leomar18]

So it’s ok for him to get horny with other girls not only me? I mean would he be ok if I get turn on with some other guy and he’ll be ok with it?

[MrOracle]

YES! Just because he is in a relationship with you doesn't mean that he is blind. He doesn't think that your eyes have stopped working either - you're allowed to look too. That is completely normal. If he is actually pursuing other woman - for sex or a relationship - then there is a problem - but that isn't what's happening. Yes, his sex drive is higher than yours - but he's not out cheating on you, and he's not turning down sex with you. It's completely unrealistic and unreasonable to expect that no other woman is going to get him aroused - but we're talking about 2D images on a screen - images of women he doesn't know and will never meet. Why does that threaten you so much? It shouldn't. I promise you that he forgets them as soon as they are off the screen. You know darn well that he'd rather bang you more than get horny from bikini girls on TV, but he is respecting your limits and desires and not pressuring you. So why make an issue out of something meaningless?

[Leomar18]

Thank you so much for your opinion, and believe me I understand everything you have said, But at some point has be a why, if we are haveing so much pleasure and haveing sex all the time, It’s like right after we have sex he can turn back on with anything sexual, witch it’s good and everything... but not for me you know, I can understand he’s not blind and he can see other woman, but why he makes look or makes me think iam not enough for him. It’s not that looking a problem or anything like that, I’ve been with him for a very long time, iam just trying to get answers. That’s all. My previous relationship he was much younger and nerve had a problem like this ever. But like I said thank you for your opinion.

[Leomar18]

I meant he doesn’t turn back on sexuality for me That’s what I trying to say... lol sorry.

[MrOracle]

Again, I think he's just trying to respect that you don't have the same insatiable sex drive that he has, so after sex, he purposely leaves you alone to relax and recover. I bet he'd rather attack you a second time, but he thinks/knows that would be too much for you, so he leaves you alone and turns to the TV. You are kind of having impossible expectations from him - he's wrong either way. That's just not fair or reasonable...

[Leomar18]

Yeah maybe that’s what it could be. But to be honest, if I get on top of him, I think I’ll burn him out lol. That’s why iam always telling him to calm down, but I guess iam makeing a big mistake. Because if it was for me 3 times a day. Lol.

[notwoke]

So it’s ok for him to get horny with other girls not only me? - any normal healthy man will do this unless they are just lying to you. Men and women are wired differently, accept it

[Logorithim]

Sounds pretty healthy to me.

If I am having sex daily, I probably wouldn't even notice another Woman.

[Leomar18]

Actually

[Leomar18]

Oops I mean exactly

[Logorithim]

Thanks for MHO

[ImSoSquishy]

someone dropped a viagra pill in his drink every day

[Leomar18]

Lol that’s what I think.

[abc3643]

We still wanna fuck every day even if we may have issues at our age.

[Truthatanycost]

A 51 year old man that looks after himself will continue being this way for a long time. You are just used to the cliche about how old men can't get it up and get tired. I have more energy and better skin than people half my age...

[BigRob420]

Sleep with him more. Twice a day is not uncommon.

[MovingForward2day]

Well. He might be taking “T” testosterone. About 45% of men above 50 start taking it if they describe symptoms correctly to a doctor. Or they are just lucky enough to have a 33 yo girlfriend. However. On the flip side of the coin. You would probably give me a heart attack. So it would be a moot issue. God blessed me being allergic to “T”. Go figure

[Leomar18]

Lol gosh I need a laugh so bad..🤣. Yeah you know when we started dating 6 years back, he was not that hard like he is now, I got this feeling that he is takeing viagra and not necessarily from a doctor, This looser Is buy over the counter pills. I’ve seen twice one was gray color the other was black and this was like two years after dating, and I have experience sex like he was 28 years old. But he of course claims it’s a natural stimulation i cause him.. lol yeah right. He’s always like always haveing a boner, day n night. Non stop... like every day he wants to be on top. I’ve said gosh iam blessed But for the pills lol

[MovingForward2day]

LoL. Well. It happens. I’d suggest a very open conversation with your boyfriend. And communicate in a clear precise way. T and taking to much changes personalities very easily. Can make a person. Very defensive quickly an aggressive in a manner of all means. So. May suggest he goto the doctor and get PSA test. They will do a t level test automatically. As they go hand in hand.

[Leomar18]

Believe me I have told him to go, and he said 👎 no. Honestly I Just think he knows he’s gonna get busted and embarrassed for me to know the truth. But you can’t help someone if they don’t want to get helped ☹️

[MovingForward2day]

No you can not. The rest as they say. Will be read in the history books. (Again that’s an age thing. Do they still use history books?)

[Leomar18]

🤔🤔🤔 ha 🤷‍♀️ I don’t know

[IntuitiveMuffin]

Old guys want sex too. They're still dudes.

[Lance1965]

A lot of guys in their 50's go through this. Their sex drive fades a little sometime in their 40's only to come back stronger than ever in their 50's. I am going through the same thing.

[larry69]

Are you wanting less sex?

[Leomar18]

No iam fine with haveing sex, the thing is he’s still Horny right after sex

[larry69]

That's a good thing I would rhink

[Leomar18]

Ok If he was just horny for me , that’s would sound great, But he’s not just for me, and that’s what it’s confuses me. Gets really mad. Iam like what the he’ll

[larry69]

I'm sorry to hear that. I am horny for any attractive woman. I got none for 22 years. Lol

[Leomar18]

Lol 🤣

[larry69]

Glad you had a laugh that was a typo meant 11 years

[Naughtyboy71]

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[laughinglad999]

Stic with it

[Tlouman]

Well, I'm a 49 yr old male and wish I could have sex at least 4 times a week. I'm always horny and my erection is still teenager strong. My wife is 13 years younger and she's at about 1-2 time a month. Not nearly enough for me. I take no testosterone supplements. Just want some ass all the time.