Why do women think they can spend their prime years on the cock riding carousel and then suddenly find a great guy when they are over thirty to marry?

Why do women think they can spend their prime years 16-29 on the cock riding carousel and still keep their value on the sexual marketplace at30 and find a high quality man willing to look past the thousand cock stare and high numbers to marry and have kids with them when a high quality man will only pump and dump then instead settling down with a younger more attractive woman who has kept her virtue.
Why do women think they can spend their prime years 16-29 on the cock riding carousel and still keep their value on the sexual marketplace at30 and find a high quality man willing to look past the thousand cock stare and high numbers to marry and have kids with them when a high quality man will only pump and dump then instead settling down with a younger more attractive woman who has kept her virtue.

Why do women think they can spend their prime years on the cock riding carousel and then suddenly find a great guy when they are over thirty to marry?
Guys we all have a high school crush who let herself go badly.
Guys we all have a high school crush who let herself go badly.

Reminds me of an over 30 year old chick I know
Reminds me of an over 30 year old chick I know

She missed her window
She missed her window


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  • Haha... have you been reading my posts?

    What's worse, is they think if they have sex with a hot guy they have a better chance at snagging him for herself. The problem is the 'hot guys' have women throwing themselves at him so there is no need to commit to any one of them. But since he pump-and-dumped her she now thinks her value is elevated for bedding the hot guy. And you hear the famous "I'm not going to settle' and "i have standards'. Sure you bimbo - you've just been pumped and dumped, that's all. Later on you then get to hear the other famous saying, "Where have all the good men gone?" Well honey, all the good ones have been snapped up and married. You know, the ones you spurned thinking they weren't up to YOUR standards cuz you've been on the cock carousel.

    Women can fuck anyone they want, any time they want, anywhere they want, just ask them! But it's not without consequence. By thirty they now have to compete with women in their 20's. By forty they hit the wall. The prospects of finding a mate become dismal. All the while the guys are just reaching their peak SMV. A good looking 40yo man that has kept his physique, has become successful, and has any game at all, can snag women from 25-55, pretty much the entire age range of available women. But let's face it, why would he pick a 50 if he can get a 30?
    Women have ruined it for themselves.

    • Exactly good points

    • wow... brah-fucking-vo. i read that shit and kept asking myself the whole time if im the one that wrote it. Wow... i thought i had knowledge... not only do you have it... you also have that edge... like you are about to snap lol... forcefully driving the point home. I have ALWAYS said this shit... when women are younger they are choosy, and when they get older, they are just happy to get a look from anyone... wow... you make me think im not alone lol

    • @Tdieseler - thanks. Unfortunately the young women here (reads: entitled special snowflakes) won't hear it and don't pay attention, don't get it. They just keep doing what they're doing hoping something will change. And then you see the posts - "Where do I meet a 'good guy'?" And you look at their profile and they're like 30. Just waking up from a decade of the cock-carousel. Now they realize all those great guys that could have been a potential suitor for a great mate that they thought weren't up to their 'standards' have all been snapped up by some other woman. Some will even go out and try to poach one of those, or call an old fling back and want to 'catch up'. Sure honey... sure.

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  • why does this only apply to women... its ok for guys to fuck as many woman as they can for years before settling down? kinda a double standard dont you think

    • It definitely it's. Like most women won't even consider a guy their own age that lives with his parents, has no money, no job, no prospects and is still a virgin. Men and women are different when it comes to what they desire in a partner, you may call it a double standard but there's no denying this is generally the norm.

    • some of that has truth in there but i was responding to your opening question and what you just said has nothing to do with that

    • Well if that's the case your answer also has nothing to do with the question.

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  • Ehh I could say same for men too. They fuck around with hot girls and ignore average ones then when they want to settle, they go for wife material average girls.
    But we know it's not true always. Neither is reverse true always.

    Point being, just stop roaming around internet forums like r/theredpill , r/braincel and whatnot.

    • Guys chase hot girls more than fuck them. If anything they don't ignore average girls at all, even below average aren't ignored as there is many a moped that gets pumped and dumped. The problem a lot of average girls have is that they are aiming for above average guys and because a few have used them for booty calls and in friends with benefits relationships these girls think they are above average. Classic case of average women putting their own pussy on a pedestal.

    • You're totally redpilled bro. It'll be too late by the time you realise that all you read on internet forums is exaggerated to no end.

    • I look everyday life around me. Even Lacey Green took the redpill, either she saw the error of her ways or her boyfriend Chris Ray Gun is giving her good snausage lol
      https://youtu.be/nQ1ga8yuM50

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  • Lol as if men's only intentions is to find a Girl to marry during their 20's. This isn't a one way street

    • Women don't even want to marry a man in his teens and early twenties.

    • I know bitches were gonna get but hurt

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  • It could just be me, but I have never met a man that wasn't in his thirties who wanted to stop fucking random hot chicks and settle down. Why should girls want to do that either?

    • Because girls do. Men and women tend to want different things

    • I am aware. Even if we did want that at that point in time, the men don't, why are we supposed to be chaste and patient when the men aren't?

    • Why would a 30 year old guy settle with a 30 year old woman who's been around the block when he can have a younger woman?

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  • Wouldn’t this apply to guys also? And not everyone is the same regardless of gender so not everyone would do this.

    • Nope. Guys are their most desirable around 28+ when they start getting their life together. There are differences in what each gender desires, women have generally always preferred older men.

    • I disagree but what ever you want to think.

    • Think about what you and most women want in a future partner and then think about what most men will want.

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  • Honestly, some females just want to enjoy their "youth" or experience different things same thing for guys. At certain point you just want to be with someone who takes care of you. Not materialistically, but take care of your soul, your being, your heart, and everything that is you. Some people want the one, some want to work. Some just love money. All in all it comes down to that individual.

  • no more mgtow channels for you.

    • Dude I'm married. Do you disagree with my question?

    • Lol!!!

  • Because how many times they have sex doesn't define a person. We live in a day and age where people can sexually express themselves. Having sex doesn't make someone unlovable or worthless, and anyone who thinks otherwise doesn't have to marry them so should just shush 😂😂

    • I never said it did, but wasting your prime attractive years on the cock riding carousel and then expecting to find an amazing guy when your 30+ is foolish.

    • Not it isn't. 🤦😂 Again, not everyone feels the same as you.

    • Most men feel the same

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  • you sound like a bitter r/niceguy who just got rejected one too many times. wake up chief, guys do the same thing. most people DON’T want to be tied down in their 20s, they want that stuff in their 30s and later. if you wanna be married at 29, find somebody with the same mindset as you. don’t go around hating all women just because you can’t get any.

    • I'm actually married. Why would a man in his 30s go for a 30 year old women when he get a younger woman?

    • Okay, if you’re married then why do you give a damn about what the unmarried folks do with their time?

    • Why did you care enough to reply?

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  • 30 is not old. I think women hit their prime in their 30s anyway.

    That said, there are people of both genders that do get away with this, and just about all of us have a sexual past once we hit our 30s.

    • Come on as an example compare 37 year old Natalie Portman to 26 year old Natalie Portman
      https://goo.gl/images/uRwwo4

    • There's more than looks to a woman hitting her peak. A woman in her 30s will be better in bed, for example, than she was in her 20s.

    • It's not been my experience with 30 year old women. They tend to be more body conscious and more inhibited when it comes to sex, and often lazy. Whereas a teen or 20 year old is almost up for anything from threesome, to skinny dipping you name it.

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  • Its fine to think that way if you apply the same standards for yourself. Like I never even kissed a guy I wasn't in a relationship with and wouldn't want a guy who had something casual in the past either.
    But if you used to stick your dick in any hole you were able to find you really shouldn't judge others.

  • "According to the most recent estimates from the U. S. Census Bureau, the average age of first marriage for women in 2017 was 27.4 years. For men, it's slightly older at 29.5 years."

    www.womenshealthmag.com/.../

    • Thank You.

    • As stated, these are averages, not median, and I would expect the median age to be a bit lower.

    • It's like 30.3% the same age, Older husband its then 20.4% within 3 years difference 13.3% within 4-5 years difference 11.6% 6-9 years difference 4.8% 10-14 years difference 1.6 15-19 years difference 1% 20 years difference. Older wife 6.5% within 3 years difference 3.3% within 4-5 years difference 2.7% within 6-9 years difference 1.0% within 10-14 years difference It falls away to nearly nothing after that. But you see what I'm saying there's a huge percentage of women marrying older partners.

  • Sounds like you are embittered and jaded. You are generalizing that all women are like this and it's really not true.

    • Over 30s who spent their prime years on the cock riding carousel.

  • Cause good guys will too often settle for shit women who use them. Men need to be more critical of the women we date.

  • well not all women are riding the cock riding carousel. Take me for example. Its just that Im not ready to settle yet, a lot to be considered.

    • Ummm… I think he's talking about women who are sexually active and not settled down or ready to settle down.

    • @JMghow well I saw "Women" not some "women"

    • No, I'm not saying all vs some. What I mean is that if you are not ready to settle down and are out there "considering" the options, that IS riding the cock carousel. Most women aren't nuns, and even most nuns know the touch of a man, so those women who aren't settling down in favor of tasting all the flavors of the rainbow or whatever ARE the one's to whom he referred (ie you) as riding the aforementioned carousel as they "consider" things rather than settling down.

  • Hey man. To me, you make your bed, so you lie in ti... You can't expect people to be sympathetic to you if you decided to play the market with your pussies and then you find that your used up and you haven't shown anything more for yourself than a good lay. Guys who want more from someone and want someone for more of a relationship, aren't just looking for pussy. As well, they want the girl that can sync with their sensuality and passion, and not just open their legs. Women, have to be careful, that they don't belittle or underestimate male's view as horn dogs. Because males are quite understanding of this view of them and will even use this to their advantage. So you have to show that you are still careful or conscious of who you'd sleep with and be "choosy" since this will show the guy you are after that he means more than the other guy that offers you dick. Really, if you just go around offering any guy dick, they'll feel, I'm not really that special and just the flavor of the month or week or day.

    Guys are also careful of this fact about them, well the ones that are concerned about finding a good relationship at the time. I feel both, it just depends on how they feel in what time it is in their life. If they are ready to settle down, act accordingly and you'll attract the best. If you are looking to sexually explore life, than follow that path and you'll have more success, and hurt less people and yourselves along the way. Anyhow, really, the amount of sex people have shouldn't really affect how valuable of a mate they are, but it does. So until this changes, don't expect anything different or be surprised.

  • Lol... Oh wow... someone playing the age card once... again.

    Tell everyone what "I" don't get.

    That it is a double standard. Nope. I don't think the guys that didn't give girls the time of day earlier in life should be given a change by those same girls when they are older. But I think most realists agree that one gender scenario is more likely to happen than the other.

    I can easily get those girls today. The last two girls I was with were more than half my age and one of them was a model. I don't need to date anyone who is now willing to consider me.

    And I don't care about her history as much as if she didn't want they guy before she hit the wall... then I don't want to date the wreckage.

    If she was there in the beginning then I'll be there for them later.

    If you want them... have at it... you can have them

  • I'm 21 and looking for something permanent. Most of the replies plus this question make me feel like I'll be 50 and single.

  • Done playing the field.

  • ehh that's not all women. I've never cared to take the cock carousel.

    • Aren't you a bit young?

    • oh trust me there's teens even younger than me that do that shit lol

  • Uhh... I can't really say anything because I have no interest in sleeping with several/many guys before settling down. I want to save sex until marriage, because to me it's a package deal. I would prefer to marry a guy who is of the same opinion.

    • LMFAO no guy guna wait for sex till mariage!!

    • @Toronto92 this I disagree with.

    • @Dchrls78104 40 year old virgin here lol

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  • Guys think it too! It's all about causal sex at that age then when you have experienced that, then you settle down into a relationship. I don't agree with it but I think that's just what happens. But I think it's guys and girls in their 20s that do it, both of them

    • True but then women want a more mature guy with his life and finances together. If you dating a girl and you bring her to your pad the first thing she does is inspect it to access your capability as a provider, it's a biological instinct called a nesting instinct that most women have.

  • Because there will always be desperate men who enable these types.

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