He wouldn't Let Me Get On Top, Why?

[FarinaLee]

I waited 4 months to have sex with this guy👎. The sex was bad. Once I seen the size of his penis I wanted to get on top (Yeehaw). It's garanteed orgasms for me. Plus I got certified in sexual yoga and Kung Fu. I wanted to try some of what I learned for my pleasure. I seen the box of condoms...11 gone... my vagina didn't like that and he made me wait 4 month for what! I just let it slide... I didn't want him to do anything but sit back and relax as I go from yoni breaths, sexual Kung Fu, Kama sutra and some cultural sexual ishh I learned. I finally had a large penis... Every inch of this man was beautiful in the light just physically what I've always wanted, for life. Then After we got that thang in I tried to repostion myself to be on top so I could cum fast... I just encouraged him with my " that feels good" but when I did he stop.. And want me in the face down but up position. So I stop fighting it and went with it then he didn't want to do that... I put him down on his back to try to get on top but he wouldn't allow it. I want to cum on top but after he started talking shit... I was like dude... hurry up in there.. then he wouldn't eat it (a 2nd big turn off). I took him to one of his bathrooms ran a bath and put lots of soap on me and him... We washed each other. I lift, run track , kickbox and run steps and squat. I decided not to force this.. He said to me, your body does not look good. I dont like your face. So I got up, put my clothing on and went to leave and he was fully hard. I was like dude this is strange... the sex was horrible. I laughed... The next day he started spilling his guts to me. I said you didn't let me get on top and you didn't eat the pussy... I you made me wait 4 months... I could hear nothing else he said. He gave me the keys to his house. I left them on the living room table when he was not looking. He called me fussing, crying and and I reverted back to but you didn't let me get on top. Why? And he never answered me. Help me understand

[Didja_Like_That]

Seems like he was too insecure or just an asshole. When he said he didn't like your face it's probably the reason he wanted you face down. The fact he didn't want to eat you out is selfish. If women are willing to give head then men should be willing to eat then out.

[FarinaLee]

Not only that I didn't leave the balls out either and this is a grown man...44 I dont get it.

[Didja_Like_That]

Yup, he was selfish. Sorry. Gotta find a man that will give you good sex as much as you will give him. Takes two to tango.

[FarinaLee]

True.

[Dommer]

The cynic in me says fear of the power of female sexuality. More boring would be he thinks letting you top would emasculate him. He needs some Taoist time. Maybe he is a hard core dom who cannot enjoy sex unles he is call ing the shots.

[FarinaLee]

This right here sounds like it's it.🤔 He's into kink.. yep that's over 😂😁

[Berethor]

Well it's not like you wanted to use a strap on, so I don't see what the big deal.

[FarinaLee]

I know right! As strange and as unpleasurable as this situation is.. The dealbreaker is the bad sex... which other women have told me its a shallow reason to stop seeing any man. Smh...

[Berethor]

They likely care about sex less than you in the first place, so it easy for them to say. :)

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[infp_libra_78]

Farina follow me, I have questions for you

[Johnnie1000]

I have no idea why he wouldn't like a little cowgirl. Eating pussy can be a acquired taste but you gotta try.

[FarinaLee]

I had a grape dental dam so it's like licking a grape candy wrapper 😂 I can still see the look on his face in my mind.

[Johnnie1000]

I don't know if I would like a dental dam. After-all part of the fun is seeing it all and tasting the whole thing. He might have a aversion to eating you but or any pussy but cowgirl is great.

[FarinaLee]

😂 ok

[Anpu23]

And this is why I don't sleep with virgins. You spend your time, work out, study, and some smuck comes along, has no idea what they want, and what's going on and kill the game.

For you who don't understand sex can be meh, it can be good, and it can be AMAZING. But to have amazing sex takes frigging work. Not only knowing how his/her body works and being able to read it but also knowing how your body works and how to respond to your bodies clues.

Sorry this happened to you. Don't give up, there are guys who understand as well. Good luck on the hunt.

[Massageman]

Insecure, can't give up control for a minute or two- poor guy.

[FarinaLee]

Honestly. I didn't see this coming... looking at him he is a geek into kink. If I have control all the time that's no fun.. it's boring.

[AbdKilani]

what?
I mean just dump him then
If he doesn't think you are beautiful , then he doesn't deserve you

[FarinaLee]

I did but I see him at work🙈 and everytime I see the entire quicksand event happens in my mind and I bust out laughing (a defense).

[AbdKilani]

Quick sand? ?

[FarinaLee]

Thats what it felt like

[AbdKilani]

what did you mean by quick sand XD

[larry69]

I want a woman to ride me especially if she's horny and on her period.

[FarinaLee]

Yuck.

[larry69]

I promise it's not yuck at all.

[larry69]

He lost a good woman

[larry69]

What is sexual yoga?

[FarinaLee]

Sexual yoga teaches you to utilize vagina muscles, control your energy and release or hold your energy.

[larry69]

I wish a woman would try riding me using sexual yoga. That sounds fun.

[FarinaLee]

Maybe that scared him a bit... I learned not to say what classes I take to improve things.. plus in his mind I probably was a whore... doing all kinds of stuff with any guy and I dont..

[larry69]

I would love these things done on me

[larry69]

Eating pussy is my favorite part of sex.

[larry69]

If the sex is bad don't do it again. Lol This guy was nuts not pleasing you.

[Philyouup]

control freak? or latent gay if he only wanted you buns up kneeling.

[FarinaLee]

Well, I did slip it in my bum far and he was shocked. He backed up from me...

[Philyouup]

oh you slipped his dick in to you ! Good Girl!

[legalboxers]

seems like a man child.. move on...

[HereIbe]

He's an assclown. You are better off with a totally ordinary guy who will appreciate you.

[FarinaLee]

So I was not too controlling? He showered 3 times afterward... that screamed married to me (at least that's what my father taught me or he's catholic).

[HereIbe]

Showered three times? Do you REALLY want that dick inside you again?

[FarinaLee]

🤔 well some catholic guys do that... Sex In the City addressed that..

[HereIbe]

I did not realize that Sex in the City was a DOCUMENTARY! Has it ever occurred to you that a comedy is not an accurate portrayal of human life? I was brought up Catholic, and contrary to the ignorant bullshit propagated by the Protestantism-dominated culture of the USA, Catholics are seriously into and enjoy sex, as much as possible. Indeed, before the "sexual revolution", it was routine to portray Catholics as sex-crazed fiends who were doing it all over the place. However, once the Protestants (and even the atheists in the USA are culturally Protestant) decided to stop hating sex, then the Catholics were portrayed as hating sex. What ACTUAL EVIDENCE do you have regarding the REAL WORLD attitudes of Catholics toward sex?