Why are guys afraid to girls know they have a boner?
I have been in this situation so many times, and it's frustrating. I will be cuddling with a guy, and he'll get an erection and then move away. Usually it'll happen while spooning, so they'll just have their chest against my back and then the rest of them awkwardly far away. It's really disconcerting. When I was younger I used to worry that the guy I was snuggling up to just wasn't into me and didn't want to be close to me, but now it's just irritating. Once I was even making out with a guy and it happened! I was laying on my back and he was kind of on top of me. His legs were between mine, but he made sure his hips were well below mine and pressed up against the bed so I wouldn't notice he was hard, which made it really awkward for him to kiss me. We were in my bed, making out, and he didn't want me to know he was hard? Eventually I got annoyed and grabbed him by his collar and dragged him up and then he got really embarrassed when I asked him if he was trying to hide that he was hard, though he did admit to it.
I just don't get it. I actually really enjoy when I guy is hard and pressed up against me! It's hot. Its one of the best parts of cuddling or making out! Even if I'm not in the mood for more at that moment, I still enjoy it. I've even told past boyfriends this and they still act all weird and awkward about it?
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