Is sex better when you have pent up tension with someone else?

So we had a lot of tension build up after we had a fight and stopped talking. When we finally resolved everything months later (some huge misunderstandings), he almost pounced on me. I was also gone over my head. It was the most passionate time I've ever experienced. I asked him later if he had just been horny and I had happened to be there and he told me no, he hadn't been horny and then said maybe it had just been a lot of pent up tension. He also made sure I was okay and was very tender, etc. Thoughts? Anyone else experience this before?
  • Yes, its better when there is a lot of tension
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  • No, it isn't better
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  • Interesting. I see this as a release of egoic pressure. Possibly dysfunctional and feeds the ego hence the good feelings.

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    • Hmm expand? I'm fascinated

    • The ego in us only feeds on dysfunction, whether jealousy, hatred, or in your case arguments. The trick is that often, despite the dysfunction, there can be a feeling of euphoria or pleasure. So the tension is a build up from the dysfunction, and released in a way that tricks you because it feels pleasurable. So the ego is fed and strengthened while the true 'pleasure' that exists beyond the ego (higher self) remains out of reach.

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  • Ohhh yes you have no idea

    Can you answer mine please, it’s on my page it’s the most recent.

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    • lol I dont believe in quid pro quo

  • What you call makeup sex and no it's not better you just glad that you're making up

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  • Yes, of course. The tension makes the sex more emotional.

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  • Make up sex is great

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    • hmm then I guess I may need to find another reason to fight with him ;)

    • Lol an ex and I used to pick something every once and a while to agree to pretend to care about and then argue about for that reason. Not quite as good but still fun

  • Hate fucking is best!

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  • No it isn't better

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  • Heck. Your description MADE it better.

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